Matthew R Abatemarco
also known as Matthew R. Abatemarco Esq.
About Matthew
Biography
I have a strong committment to resolving cases in a cost-effective and amicable fashion. As a Mediator and Collaborative Attorney, I attempt settlement first before spending emotional and financial capital to battle through the Court system. The Court system is oftentimes necessary when clients are faced with headstrong adversaries. Attempting a settlement which focuses on the best interests of the family and win/win scenarios provides long term solutions for parties and so it should be attempted prior to resorting to the Court.
Practice Areas
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Practice Areas
Fees and Rates
Cost
Always
Payment Methods
- Cash
- Check
- Credit Card
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Licensed in New Jersey for 20 years
State: New Jersey
Acquired: 2005
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Location
Matthew R. Abatemarco, Esq. LLC
1312 Atlantic Avenue, Manasquan, NJ, 08736
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Matthew R Abatemarco's Reviews
Showing 1 - 5 of 12 client reviews from Avvo
Posted by Wendy | August 24, 2022 | Hired Attorney
A Knowledgeable Attorney and Good Man
Matthew was there to navigate my divorce that went on for years. He is extremely intelligent, has a sense of humor, knows when to be firm and doesn’t give up. Wouldn’t have made it without him. I know only Matt could have taken on the challenges he had. I am forever grateful!
Posted by anonymous | December 13, 2018 | Consulted Attorney
Very sharp and professional
After being through a previous mediator with regards to my divorce proceedings. I can say that Mr Abatemarco was excellent in his grasp of the details and a great negotiator! Very professional.
Posted by anonymous | August 2, 2016 | Hired Attorney
Compassionate but tough
Matt was supportive and meticulously thought of every detail at a time when I could not. He was always available when a problem arose and advised me in a timely manner. I was extremely emotional and had a very difficult time. In addition my spouse lost his job in the middle of the divorce. Matt is ...
Posted by Melissa | July 18, 2015
My calming force
Going through a divorce is never easy but having Matt was my saving grace. Always there when I needed him even after I thought it was all over. He's a wonderful lawyer, a great person and a phenomenal friend. I thank my lucky stars for him!
Posted by Mike | July 14, 2014
Effective Mediator
Divorcing is a traumatic experience. Emotions can run high and the differences that brought you there can be very contentious. Matt guided us through the process where we both felt like we had a voice in the matter and were fairly represented. It would not have gone nearly as smoothly as it did witho...
Matthew R Abatemarco's Lawyer Endorsements
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"Mr. Abatemarco served as a mediator on two really difficult cases for me recently and helped us resolve both cases amicably. He is an excellent mediator and an excellent attorney. I strongly endorse him!"
"Matthew Abatemarco is a phenomenal mediator. He is brilliant and has a way of getting through to even the toughest clients. I highly recommend him!"
"I endorse this lawyer. Matthew is a very forceful and knowledgeable attorney and fights hard for his client's."
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"I endorse Matthew. Highly respected in the legal community with a strong reputation for client advocacy and dedication."
Divorce and separation lawyer | Jul 26
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Matthew Abatemarco is an outstanding attorney and a breed apart. He has an exceptional depth and breadth of knowledge of the law and rules, approaches his cases with a blend of zeal, creative problem solving and realism, and is a true professional at all times. As a colleague he has been an incredible resource, gracious and supportive, and I look forward to having a case as adversaries as I have no doubt he will be equally professional and courteous from the other side of the aisle. He is also an exceptionally skilled mediator, making parties comfortable and enabling even the most challenging personalities to reach reasonable consensus in order to move forward with their lives. I wholeheartedly endorse Matthew Abatemarco."
"Top notch attorney, who provides excellent legal service and successful representation. I happily endorse this lawyer."
"I endorse this lawyer. A highly skilled and respected lawyer in the legal community."
"I endorse this lawyer. A highly skilled and respected lawyer in the legal community."
"I highly recommend and endorse Matthew Abatemarco. He has an excellent reputation with both judges and fellow lawyers. Mr. Abatemarco takes a practical approach to litigation, negotiation and settlement in divorce cases. He is the welcomed voice of reason."
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"Top-notch attorney. Highly respected in the legal community."
"Matthew R. Abatemarco is an experienced attorney whose participation and comments in Avvo show his commitment to serving clients very well. He is an excellent attorney that I recommend wholeheartedly."
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"I endorse this lawyer. Mr. Abatemarco is always extremely professional and is emerging as a future leader of the bar."
"I have with Matt and against Matt. One thing that is common: he is an extremely thorough attorney. You would be served well by having Matt as you attorney for litigation or for mediation."
"I endorse this lawyer. Matt is a pleasure to work with and truly cares about his clients."
"I have had cases with Mr. Abatemarco and have used him as a mediator on several other matters. He is a thoughtful, thorough and experienced attorney. I would recommend him both as an attorney and as a mediator."
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Experience
Honors
2022
Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers
2021
Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers
2020
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2019
Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers
2019
10 Best - New Jersey, American Institute of Family Law Attorneys
2005
Deborah Michael Richards Award for Family Law, Rutgers School of Law
2005
Pro Bono Public Award, Rutgers School of Law
2004
Mary Philbrook Public Interest Award, Rutgers School of Law
Work Experience
2017 - Present
Partner, Matthew R. Abatemarco, Esq. LLC
2016 - Present
Partner, Madden & Abatemarco
1900 - Present
Managing Partner, Abatemarco Thomlison & Frantz, LLC
2012 - 2016
Partner, Atkinson & De Bartolo
2009 - 2012
Attorney, Atkinson & DeBartolo
2009 - 2009
Partner, Piff & Abatemarco, P.C.
2006 - 2008
Associate Attorney, Linda L. Piff, Esquire, P.C.
2005 - 2006
Clerkship to the Honorable Patricia B. Roe, J.S.C., State of New Jersey
2004 - 2005
Domestic Violence Clinic Attorney, Rutgers School of Law
Associations
2015 - Present
International Association of Collaborative Professionalsmember
2010 - Present
American Bar AssociationMember
2010 - Present
Two Rivers Chapter of JSCLGMember
2009 - Present
Monmouth County Bar AssociationMember
2007 - Present
New Jersey State Bar AssociationMember
2006 - Present
Jersey Shore Collaborative Law GroupExecutive Board Member
2012 - 2013
JSCLGPresident
2012 - 2013
JSCLGVice President
2012 - 2013
Jersey Shore Collaborative Law GroupPresident-Elect
2007 - 2009
International Association of Collaborative ProfessionalsMember
Sample of Legal Cases
Appellate Panel affirmed the Trial Court.
Appellate Panel upheld portions of the Trial Court opinion and remanded the issue of parenting time
Appellate Division ruled in favor of Plaintiff
Appellate Panel remanded to the Trial Court
Appellate Division ruled in favor of Defendant
Education
2005
Juris Doctorate
Speaking Engagements
2022
Mediation, Collaboration and Arbitration
2016
Family Law for new Attorneys and Paralegals
2016
Mediation
2015
Child Support
2014
Dividing Retirement Assets in Divorce
2014
Using the 7 Habits for Effective Practice
2013
Matrimonial Law & Accounting
2012
Collaborative Divorce
2012
Intermediate Collaborative Law Training
2011
2011
General Divorce Information
2010
2010
Divorce
2010
2010
Divorce Mediation
2010
Mediation
2010
Collaborative Divorce Law
2010
Domestic Violence
2009
Collaborative Divorce Law
2009
Divorce Mediation
2009
Divorce General Information
2006
Family Law Clerk Preparation
2004
Family Law
Publications
2005
Languages
English
Activity
Legal Answers
Legal Guides
Legal Answers
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25 Apr 2011
Does QUDRO still apply if spouse gets remarried?
21 Dec 2010
Is there any recourse for wrongful contempt of final restraining order arrests?
22 Dec 2010