So lucky to have found Ingrid. She diligently worked on my behalf, and settled my case to both my liking and benefit. She communicated with me on a regular basis, and in terms I understood. I highly recommend Ingrid for anyone who finds themselves in need of a knowledgeable and thoughtful family attorney.
I was an emotional mess when I finally found Ms. Gherman. Two previous attorneys did nothing with my case. The first thing Ingrid did was listen— really listen. That, by itself, calmed me down. Throughout the legal proceedings, she kept me informed & updated. There were only 2 or 3 times when I managed to call her before she called me. I nicknamed her “my pit bull because she is so tenacious. Oh, she got me an excellent settlement.
Ingrid Gherman has been a practicing New York divorce lawyer and child custody attorney for over 30 years. She has dedicated her family law practice exclusively to matrimonial law, specializing in New York divorce law and mediation. Highly experienced in all aspects of NY divorce law, her practice areas include child custody and vistitation, child support, marital agreements, equitable distribution of marital assets, spousal maintenance and support (alimony), enforcement and modification, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, same sex marriage and divorce, contempt of court proceedings, domestic violence. An experienced litigator and appellate attorney, Ingrid Gherman is equally skilled in divorce mediation.
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Ingrid Gherman serves clients throughout New York City and vicinity including: Manhattan (New York County), Brooklyn (Kings County), Staten Island, Queens, Bronx, Westchester, Rockland, Orange, Nassua and Suffolk.
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If you are in need of a divorce or child custody attorney in New York, call Ingrid's Gherman's law office. She will help bring clarity to your case and help you to understand your legal options going forward.
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Nice job, Ingrid.
So lucky to have found Ingrid. She diligently worked on my behalf, and settled my case to both my liking and benefit. She communicated with me on a regular basis, and in terms I understood. I highly recommend Ingrid for anyone who finds themselves in need of a knowledgeable and thoughtful family attorney.
Posted by Jim | June 24, 2019
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| Hired Attorney
Thank G*d for Ingrid Gherman
I was an emotional mess when I finally found Ms. Gherman. Two previous attorneys did nothing with my case. The first thing Ingrid did was listen— really listen. That, by itself, calmed me down. Throughout the legal proceedings, she kept me informed & updated. There were only 2 or 3 times when I managed to call her before she called me. I nicknamed her “my pit bull because she is so tenacious. Oh, she got me an excellent settlement.
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Posted by anonymous | March 17, 2015
After 3 other attorneys, I found Ingrid and am I glad
After 3 other attorneys I finally found Ingrid Gherman…and am I glad. My long and difficult custody fight did not deter this attorney who stayed with me every step until we won. My deepest gratitude.
Posted by William | March 16, 2015
Won a very favorable settlement for me
Ingrid won me a very favorable settlement in my complicated divorce case which involved high-end property. Great communication and professionalism. Thank you for all you did.
Posted by Maryanne | March 16, 2015
There are good lawyers - Ingrid Gherman is one!
I cannot say enough about Ingrid Gherman and what she did for me. Always there, always in touch, never let me down. I lost track of the motions and papers she wrote and filed and now, two trials and one appeal later, I won! Through it all, Ingrid and her office always kept me in the loop and kept my spirits up. I thank you and my child thanks you, Ingrid.
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Posted by anonymous | December 31, 2014
Thank you for your legal help and support
Thank you, Ingrid for your help with my divorce and for the custody of my children. I was terrified that I would loose everything and that I would be destitute. Never again do I want to go through an experience like that again. But I never would have been able to survive it without Ingrid to lean on for legal and moral support. Anyone who might be going through a family crisis that needs legal remedy, I strongly urge you to have Ingrid Gherman on your side. She knows her stuff and she cares.
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Posted by anonymous | December 13, 2014
Great divorce attorney
Ingrid was my attorney for my divorce case and I couldn'the be happier with the representation I received. Highly recommend this wonderful woman and attorney.
Posted by anonymous | December 7, 2014
A truly quality person who happens to be a lawyer
I've had my share of horrible lawyers over the years. I'm so grateful that Ms. Gherman handled my case as she gave it so much more attention and caring than any other attorney for whom I was just a paycheck. Case is over. She explained details, took time with me and even spoke with my family when they had questions about why things happened. Highly recommend her.
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Posted by Evy | November 27, 2014
An excellent lawyer with knowledge and compassion
My lawyer, Ingrid Gherman, helped me win custody of my daughters when I had lost all hope! When I hired her, my ex-husband and his lawyer argued that I was mentally unstable, and a bad mother to my daughters. They insisted I should only see my kids under supervision. Ingrid took the time to listen to me and to understand my situation. When we went to court, she was very well prepared and she finally convinced the judge that my ex-husband was not truthful and didn't care about our daughters' well-being, only cared about himself. I have great respect for Ingrid because she is very strong and knows the law; and she is very kind and supportive.
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Posted by anonymous | November 25, 2014
I totally recommend Ingrid Gherman's legal service
I trusted Ingrid Gherman to handle a very difficult and delicate legal problem for me which involved my separation and eventual divorce from my husband and the custody and support arrangements of my 2 children. There were many detailed issues that needed to be addressed involving financial issues, the apartment, the car, and so on. Ingrid handled the entire case promptly and professionally. She was also someone I could lean on for support during the whole process. I was always kept informed as the case went along which was a great comfort to me in a very stressful time. Thank you to Ingrid and her wonderful staff. I couldn't have done it without you!
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Posted by anonymous | October 29, 2014
Surprised by other reviews - good working relationship with Ingrid for years
After many years of divorcing my crazy ex husband, my divorce is finally granted! Ingrid has been my attorney throughout the entire process. My ex was impossible, he had no attorney and complicated matters. He was violent even toward the Judge! But Ingrid would not give up on me, even when I used up all my funds due my husband's games! I am so grateful to find an attorney who cared more about my life and didn't abandon me and got the job done. Perhaps these other posters don't realize the amount of work that goes into a divorce. I'm grateful to Ingrid, my children are safe, I was able to relocate away from a crazy man who wasn't paying child support and am looking forward to starting my life finally.
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Posted by anonymous | April 26, 2013
A wonderful lawyer. If you need a divorce lawyer, I highly recommend Ingrid Gherman
Almost a year ago, I thought my life was falling apart. Then I found Ingrid Gherman. Previously I had four other attorneys working on my divorce case. All of them fell seriously short of providing me with the help I needed. Either they didn't seem to know what they were doing or long periods of time would elapse before I heard anything from them concerning my case.
Ms. Gherman knows the law and she really seems to care about it and about the particulars of my case, which was a very complicated one including an appeal and many motions. It seemed to go back and forth forever. But Ingrid was there with me every step of the way. She took to time to explain details and strategies and asked for my input and feedback. This was a new experience for me because my experience with other divorce lawyers was not good at all. They showed indifference, and spoke down to me rather than explaining things in a manner that I could comprehend. I am intimidated by the legal system on top of being totally stressed over my break up with my husband and battle over custody of my two children which broke my heart.
Anyone who has not been through this type of personal dislocation cannot understand the terror I was experiencing because my life was coming apart. I thought I would never be able to recover.... or to win my case. But that is exactly what happened. And Ingrid was the one who helped my do it. Did I say that she is also a very caring and compassionate person. I didn't think lawyers could be like that. This made me wonder if she really had the stuff to put up a real fight against my husband and his legal representative. I found out in court, however, that she is one tough cookie. She met every tactic and maneuver from the other side with even stronger and more convincing legal challenges. It was a revelation just how effectively Ingrid fought on my behalf.
Each time she needed to move forward, she always consulted me and kept in constant touch. Getting Ingrid to represent me was the best thing I ever did.
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Posted by anonymous | October 19, 2012
Humble attorney who is the co-author of famous texts that all divorce lawyers use as reference
I recently came to this lawyer with an emergency as my spouse was completely unreasonable. Her office made an emergency request of the Judge and we won! I was very pleased. I've come to learn that Ms. Gherman is actually the co-author of some very famous book which apparently all the divorce lawyers use as their guide. Very impressive and you would never know, since she has no airs about her at all
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Posted by anonymous | October 15, 2011
Very happy with Ms. Gherman as my attorney
I was very happy with my attorney, Ms. Ingrid Gherman. Very much helped me with my case. My outcome was very good and she explained all kinds of things to me. I was afraid that I would loose my house and whould have no where to live. And I have a newborn baby. This was soo scary. At least now I can sleep at nite. My baby is safe with me and I am getting some child support. Because I have been very sick and not abel to work. Now I can relacks a little bit. And I would like to go back to school and to be a nurse.
Thank you Ingrid. From my heart yuo help me and I will never fortget.
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Posted by Martin | October 15, 2011
A great attorney. I highly recommend her.
This is a really terrific attorney. As a client recently amicably settled a divorce, I want to give rave reviews to Ms. Gherman. Through out the process of my divorce which included custody issues for our two young children, Ms. Gherman stood by me, kept me informed, and showed me that she really knew her stuff.
I was impressed from the first consultation that I had with her in her office. She spent what I thought was time over and above to explain my options and presented a clear road to settling with my wife so that it would be a seamless and calm process for our children.
I am happy, my ex-wife is happy and must important our children are adjusting beautifully to the new situation.
I will say that even though this was an amicable separation and divorce, there were some sticky moments and Ms. Gherman was unflappable in her determination to get me a fair settlment.
I definitely suggest that you check out this attorney for any family matter.
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Posted by anonymous | April 9, 2010
A wonderful attorney, THANK YOU
I recently went through a very trying divorce but was helped enormously by Ingrid Gherman. She really knows the law and the court system in New York. I was especially impressed by her compassion and professionalism. She explained everything to me in plain language and stayed with me every step of the way. My divorce action was successful thanks to Ms. Gherman. I would recommend without hesitation.
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Posted by anonymous | March 8, 2009
Ingrid Gherman helped me win my case. Kudo to this marvelous divorce attorney
My life was in shambles. I needed help with my divorce and had gone to 2 other divorce lawyers before I found Ingrid. She helped me get the resources I needed and keep my apartment. I would recommend Ingrid to anyone looking for a divorce lawyer who will fight for you.
Posted by Jackson | July 26, 2017
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| Hired Attorney
2nd worst decision in my life. Find another attorney!
I hired Ingrid for a contested divorce in 2006. The divorce was allowed to prolong until resolution in 2012, though not mainly her fault. However, her grasp of English and legalese is lacking. My stipulations were full of loop holes and poor wording. For the next 5 years my ex exploits and transgresses those flaws. I have engaged Ingrid 4 times in those 5 years, to which she abruptly disengages by not returning emails nor phone calls until months later informing me of a death in the family. Totallly unprofessional.
Worse yet, my case went nowhere, and I am stressed with the ex AND looking for my hired attorney. I fired her 8/2016 after 1 month of attempting to contact her regarding the custody of my child after she acknowledges she will represent me. I asked for my retainer back. Not sure if it was an accident but 3/2017 Grace her assistant picks up, surprised it was me. But the ever unprofessional Ingrid fails to respond, to my continued requests. End of June 2017, I receive part of my retainer and a bill for work she alleged to had performed during the time that I was attempting to contact her regarding my case and documents that she LOST. I have now been attempting to contact her to dispute the bill but again am unable to reach her via phone, voicemail, nor email. My last communication with Ingrid was in 6/2016.
In short she will stress you out. waste your time, lose you money, lose your documents, create bad legal documents and disappear on you without notice, ignoring you even though she promised to represent you and takes your money. I am now filing for arbitration as Ingrid has yet to respond, in addition to filing formal complaints so that no one has to deal with this frustration, not when your children and life are involved.
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Posted by anonymous | September 2, 2014
Looking for Proactive??? You Won't Get it Here.
Ms. Gherman seems like a good attorney during the consultation (perhaps because she wants that $350 non-refundable consultation fee), but as you go through your divorce matter with her, you realize that she doesn't give it the 100% attention it needs and deserve. I agree with the posters that says she is never in the office and her office is extremely unorganized. If you want quality, efficiency and professionalism, this is definitely not the firm for you. She has an answering service, I don't know why, because she never responds to you. I can't believe I wasted over $7k for garbage work.
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Posted by anonymous | November 29, 2013
Unresponsive Attorney
If you are looking for an attorney that works normal business hours, this is not the right attorney for you! I used Ingrid for a divorce case and she is always postponing without checking with me first. Claims to be in court all day, but I was told by reception she doesn't come in until after 5 pm. Wish she would have told me that during the consultation instead of misleading me. Sent her documents and she keeps requesting the same documents again and again. Very sloppy and unorganized!!!!
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I was successful in obtaining my client's right to have the exclusive occupancy of the marital apartment in Manhattan. As a result, my client could afford to go back to college and acquire employable skills.
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Unknown Attorney | Feb 08
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"I endorse Ms. Gherman. You can tell from her thorough responses to questions on Avvo and sage wisdom that she has the passion and compassion necessary to be a fine advocate. She spends his own time giving advice to the Avvo community and that is something worth noting."
Unknown Attorney | Jan 30
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"I endorse this lawyer. It is very clear from her experience and her contributions that Ms. Gherman is extremely knowledgeable and highly competent. I wouldn't hesitate recommending her."
Child custody Attorney | Jan 06
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer. Ingrid Gherman is the kind of attorney I want on my side. Ingrid is a strong advocate and will work tirelessly to protect your rights."
Child custody Attorney | Jan 03
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Me. Gherman's responses to Avvo questioners in the family law area is insightful and wise. I endorse this attorney and would recommend her to potential clients in the New York City area"