James J. Sexton
About James
Biography
Sexton has intentionally focused his practice on divorce and family law since his graduation Fordham Law School. In addition to his Juris Doctorate (Law Degree) he has a Master of Arts degree from New York University where he focused his graduate studies on persuasive speech and propaganda. After nearly two decades of refining his skills as a trial lawyer in the Courtrooms of Manhattan, Brooklyn, Rockland, Westchester and Orange Counties, Sexton's legal skills and confidence in the courtroom earned him his place in the top 1% of family law attorneys practicing in New York. In 2018, upon the release of his first book, Sexton added #1 bestselling author, television personality and sought-after podcast guest/public speaker to his resume: his penchant for verbal gymnastics and no-holds-barred approach to argument thrusting him into the national spotlight.
Known for his intensity, focus and discipline, Sexton wakes up at 4:00am every day (including weekends) to meditate, drink pu-ehr tea, work out and immediately begin executing his next "moves" in the never ending chess match of family law. An admitted "computer geek" since the 1980's Sexton keeps his practice on the cutting edge of technology at all times: using the latest cross platform applications to facilitate his "lightning fast" response time without sacrificing his OCD enforced attention to detail.
Sexton serves a diverse but select roster of clients that includes everything from "Fortune 500" CEO's, world renowned surgeons, entertainment personalities and high end financial professionals to law enforcement, teachers and stay-at-home moms. Relentless in and out of the courtroom, Sexton ensures that each and every case he agrees to take on is given the personalized attention it deserves.
A longtime advocate for marriage equality and LGBTQ+ individuals and families, Sexton has served for nearly twenty years as a Consulting Attorney for Lambda Legal and a popular speaker at the annual "Lavender Law" Conference (the largest national symposium for LGBT legal issues).
Sexton resides in Manhattan (Chelsea) where, in his very limited free time, he enjoys reading, yoga, tactical firearms and training and competing in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu as a active member of the Marcelo Garcia Academy (NYC).
Mr. Sexton meets with clients and potential new client consultations by appointment only.
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Licensed in New York for 24 years
State: New York
Acquired: 2001
No misconduct found
Licensed in New Jersey for 24 years
State: New Jersey
Acquired: 2001
No misconduct found
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Law Offices Of James J. Sexton, PC
301 North Main Street, New City, NY, 10956
Law Offices Of James J. Sexton, PC
475 Park Ave South, 21st Floor, New York, NY, 10016
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James J. Sexton's Reviews
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Posted by anonymous | August 27, 2025 | Hired Attorney
More chaos than!
More Chaos Than Clarity I regret hiring James Sexton for my divorce. His own website describes him as “the sociopath you want on your side,” and I should have taken that as a warning. In my experience, his style was aggressive to the point of being overwhelming, and it felt like he thrived more on...
Posted by Rubina | May 27, 2025 | Hired Attorney
Exactly Who You Want Representing You
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I was honestly flabbergasted after reading through all the reviews—both good and bad—because my experience with James has been nothing short of excellent. He has been incredibly gracious, mindful of costs, and an absolute pleasure to work with during one of the most difficult times in my ...
Posted by anonymous | April 7, 2025 | Hired Attorney
Start with Jim
I cannot recommend Jim Sexton highly enough! Navigating a delicate custody situation with a narcissist is an overwhelming and emotionally taxing experience, but Jim handled it with absolute professionalism, expertise, and unwavering support. From day one, they made me feel comfortable and confident, ...
Posted by anonymous | May 18, 2024 | Hired Attorney
He is fraud
He took my $75 K and did not show up for my child custody trial and quit a day before second trial when I asked him to represent me. . He is liar and fraud.. Stay away from him. He is the reason I lost custody of my 6-year-old daughter. He is money-hungry but does not work. He is a liar and very g...
James Sexton
Replied last May 19, 2024This never happened. Period. Which leads me to believe that this anonymous review was NOT written by a former client but was, instead, written by the now-EX-spouse of a former client who was unhappy with how well I did for my client. So I consider this "one star" review a "five star" review. Thanks!
Posted by Christine | June 23, 2022 | Hired Attorney
The man you want on your side
When I arrived at Jim’s office for my divorce consultation I remember feeling a wave of uncertainty that I could even start this divorce process. After meeting with JimI I had the confidence to move forward and get my divorce started. He put my mind at ease that I would have a lawyer on my side that...
James J. Sexton's Lawyer Endorsements
"An excellent lawyer who treats clients with patience, care, understanding, and utmost professionalism - an even better person and I wholeheartedly recommend for future services. Also, brilliant on Steve Harvey Show, both stellar beings."
"Exceptional attorney, dedicated to client success. Highly recommended."
Divorce and separation lawyer | Apr 20
Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter
"Jim Sexton is one of the most aggressive, well prepared, zealous advocates that I have encountered in the Courtroom. As a fellow attorney, I can also say that Jim will always demonstrate the highest level of ethics and decorum even while fighting tooth and nail to advance his client’s goal. For these reasons, I endorse him without reservation."
"I have known Jim since he was an associate at one of the major firms in Rockland. He is one of the most able and competent lawyers I know. He is very well versed in the areas of law which make up his practice, is very professional and always has his client's interests as his major priority."
"Jim is an extraordinary attorney, who possesses a keen ability to achieve the best interests of his clients. He is very dedicated to his craft and is well respected in the legal community, including the presiding judges. He also happens to be a very nice guy, which is such a valuable trait in the courtroom!"
"Mr. Sexton and I have worked on a number of legal matters together and I have always found him to be well prepared, articulate and a vociferous advocate on behalf of his clients. Similarly his working knowledge and understanding of the law makes it simple to achieve mutually successful case settlements as much of the gamesmanship that typically takes place between attorneys is generally avoided. I therefore would not hesitate to endorse Mr. Sexton and his firm."
"James is a strong, aggressive and zealous advocate for his clients. He is well versed on the law and an experienced litigator who is also a persuasive negotiator when need be."
"I endorse this lawyer."
"I endorse this lawyer. Jim is a highly regarded, well respected and dynamic attorney. His advocacy skills are second to none. A fine lawyer."
"I am pleased to have the opportunity to endorse Jim Sexton. I have known Jim for many years and know him to be a truly professional, zealous advocate for his clients. Jim is a both seasoned litigator and skilled negotiator, with great attention to detail and the ability to help his clients navigate the emotional turmoil that so often attends divorce cases."
"I am pleased to endorse this lawyer. I have had the opportunity to work with James Sexton in the courtroom as adversary counsel in a difficult trial. Jim was an excellent, ethical attorney. He knows his stuff and knows his way around the courtroom and he knows how to fight for his client. If I needed a tough, caring, and skilled lawyer, Jim would be right at the top of my list."
"Jmaes was opposing counsel in a high net worth, hotly contested, emotionally charged case in which I represented the othet party.. This matter never wound have been resolved as amicably and expeditiously as it had if not for his expert guidance. Thank you, James"
"Mr. Sexton has always treated the clients I have recommended to him competently, fairly, and honestly."
"Jim Sexton is a zealous advocate for each and every one of his clients. He handles himself in an extremely professional manner and is an excellent attorney both in and out of Court. Most importantly, he enjoys the practice of Law and it shows in everything he does."
"I have dealt with Jim on both personal and professional concerns and have found him to be attentive, courteous and professional. I have also found him to be highly regarded by his colleagues and I would recommend him without hesitation or reservation."
"I endorse this lawyer's work. Jimmy Sexton has and is handling several matrimonial matters referred by my law firm. He is a formitable litigator possessing both trial and expert negotiation skills. Jim is recognized by his peers as one of the preeminent family law practitioners in the Hudson Valley. Clients referred to him have expressed their gratitude. Through hard work, preparation and with the ability and experience to try a matter to conclusion, Jim achieves his objectives and the respect of the bench and bar alike. Those in time of distress can look to his guidance and counsel to navigate the difficult waters of divorce and separation."
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Experience
Honors
2016
Notable, Martindale-Hubbell
2015
Top Lawyer, New York Magazine
2009
Top 10 New Jersey Matrimonial and Divorce Lawyer under 45, Ten Leaders
2003
"Forty Under Forty", Rockland Business Association
Work Experience
2001 - Present
Founding Partner, Law Offices of James J. Sexton, PC
Associations
2004 - Present
Association of Family and Conciliation CourtsMember
2001 - Present
Rockland County Bar AssociationMember
2001 - Present
New York State Bar Association, Family Law SectionMember
2001 - Present
Law Guardian PanelMember
Sample of Legal Cases
Record setting counsel fee award.
Motion for additional disclosure granted.
Petitioner/Mother Entitled to Reimbursement
Education
2001
JD - Juris Doctor
1997
MA - Masters
Speaking Engagements
2016
You Be The Judge : Domestic Violence in Family Court
2007
Public Speaking
2006
Issues & Ethics
2005
Constitutional Issues in Family Law
1999
Various Undergraduate Courses
Publications
2000
Languages
English
Activity
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