Jay W. Neff

Jay W. Neff

3.8
Rating: 9.4

Licensed for 41 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Everett, WA
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Child Custody, Child Support, Family

3306 Wetmore, Everett, WA

About Jay

Biography

Fees and Rates

Cost

Free Consultation

$0 first 30 minutes

Hourly Rates

$ 250-325 per hour


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

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Licenses

Licensed in Washington for 41 years

State: Washington

Acquired: 1984

Retired

No misconduct found

Location

Law Office of Jay W. Neff

3306 Wetmore, Everett, WA, 98201

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Jay W. Neff's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

3.8 /5.0

6 Client Reviews

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Posted by anonymous | October 15, 2025 | Hired Attorney

Unreasonable Billing and Poor Representation

I had an extremely disappointing experience working with Jay Neff and the Cowlitz Law Firm. In my case, communication was poor and my concerns were not taken seriously. I did not feel adequately represented, and the outcome reflected that. In hindsight, I believe I would’ve had a better result repres...enting myself rather than spending money on this firm I also found their billing practices unreasonable. For instance, very short emails that likely took only seconds to write were billed as 10+ minutes of attorney time. It often felt like I was being charged for every minor interaction, with billed hours that seemed disproportionate to the actual work performed. During my court appearance, Jay Neff appeared unprepared and nervous, often stuttering through his words and audibly sighing between sentences. It did not convey confidence at all. Based on my experience and what I’ve read from other clients, I would not recommend this firm to anyone.

Posted by Kellyann | December 21, 2020 | Hired Attorney | Family

Pleased with the results

I hired Jay for my family law case. I am thorough and ask a lot of questions. There was 1 point in time where I questioned if I had made the right choice, so I reached out and confronted Jay on some of the issues I had. His response made complete sense and I then understood why he was going the route..., or advising the way he was. Once I understood this, I had a different appreciation for the success in my divorce (specifically the parenting plan). My daughter's best interest is what was most important to me and he helped me attain as close to that as possible, while still being fair.

Posted by Tracy | April 27, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody

An attorney with your best interest in mind!

For over 2 years, Mr. Neff worked with me to help me get full custody of my children and away from my ex's toxic home. He answered every question (I emailed A LOT!) and only had my best interest at heart. His years' of experience showed in the courtroom. If you want to win your case, I recommend Mr.... Neff!!

Posted by anonymous | March 09, 2017

Peace of mind

Thank you for the great, thorough help !!

Posted by anonymous | October 02, 2012 | Child Custody

Help me get my kids

My ex-husband had a major drinking problem. I needed to get the children away from him and get a new parenting plan. It was an ugly fight because my ex lied about everything. But, we were able to get my children. I was very happy.

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Jay W. Neff's Lawyer Endorsements

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Kubilay Celebi

Child custody lawyer | Mar 09

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Russell Atkatsh

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jul 28

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Robert Miller

Divorce and separation lawyer | Sep 30

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. Jay zealously represents his clients and uses his vast knowledge of family law to achieve results."

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Michael Fancher

Divorce and separation lawyer | Sep 09

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I have known Jay for many years. He is an extremely knowledgeable lawyer that other lawyers turn to for advice. He is calm and reassuring. I endorse Jay for his experience, his helpfulness, and his ability."

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Philip Tsai

Family lawyer | Aug 23

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Nathan Cliber

Divorce and separation lawyer | Aug 19

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I had the pleasure of working with Jay for several years at our previous firm. I haven't met a more knowledgeable attorney, and I have always felt comfortable seeking his advice on any and all family law questions. His steady hand and calm demeanor reflect a professionalism and confidence that I can only hope I will one day achieve."

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Margaret Fitzpatrick

Family lawyer | Aug 16

Relationship: Co-worker

"I endorse this lawyer. Jay has broad experience which serves his clients well when he analyzes their case. Jay is thoughtful, well-respected and highly experienced. He is extremely efficient with his time and is an excellent writer, which serves his clients well on the temporary motions calendar and at trial. I routinely refer matters to Jay, and know folks are in excellent and capable hands."

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Experience

Rating:  9.4 (Superb)

Work Experience

2013 - Present

owner/attorney, Law Office of Jay W. Neff

2008 - 2012

attorney, Law Office of Michael W. Bugni

1998 - 2008

Associate Attorney, Goldberg & Jones

1987 - 1994

Judge Pro Tem, Snohomish County Superior Court

1987 - 1994

Judge Pro Tem, Everett Municipal Court

1985 - 1989

Prosecuting Attorney, City of Arlington, WA

1984 - 1998

owner/attorney, Jay W. Neff Attorney at Law

1981 - 1982

Compliance Assistant, Us Department Of Labor

Associations

1984 - Present

Washington State Bar Assoc.

Member

1989 - 1994

Billing Middle School

Board of Directors

Education

1983

University of Washington School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

1978

University of Washington

BS - Bachelor of Science

Speaking Engagements

2022

Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Secti

Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee

2021

Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee

2020

Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee

2019

Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee

2018

Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee

Languages

English

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