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I was born in and have lived in the Everett/Seattle area all of my life. I have worked as the prosecutor for the City of Arlington. I have also run the felony diversion program in Snohomish County. However, most of my work has been in the area of family law.
In my spare time (when I have any), I like to paint and go on motorcycle rides.
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3306 Wetmore, Everett, WA, 98201
6 Client Reviews
Showing 1 - 3 of 3 reviews | Family
Posted by Kellyann | December 21, 2020 | Hired Attorney | Family
Pleased with the results
I hired Jay for my family law case. I am thorough and ask a lot of questions. There was 1 point in time where I questioned if I had made the right choice, so I reached out and confronted Jay on some of the issues I had. His response made complete sense and I then understood why he was going the route...
Posted by Tracy | April 27, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Family
An attorney with your best interest in mind!
For over 2 years, Mr. Neff worked with me to help me get full custody of my children and away from my ex's toxic home. He answered every question (I emailed A LOT!) and only had my best interest at heart. His years' of experience showed in the courtroom. If you want to win your case, I recommend Mr....
Posted by anonymous | October 02, 2012 | Family
Help me get my kids
My ex-husband had a major drinking problem. I needed to get the children away from him and get a new parenting plan. It was an ugly fight because my ex lied about everything. But, we were able to get my children. I was very happy.
"I endorse this lawyer. Jay zealously represents his clients and uses his vast knowledge of family law to achieve results."
"I have known Jay for many years. He is an extremely knowledgeable lawyer that other lawyers turn to for advice. He is calm and reassuring. I endorse Jay for his experience, his helpfulness, and his ability."
"I had the pleasure of working with Jay for several years at our previous firm. I haven't met a more knowledgeable attorney, and I have always felt comfortable seeking his advice on any and all family law questions. His steady hand and calm demeanor reflect a professionalism and confidence that I can only hope I will one day achieve."
"I endorse this lawyer. Jay has broad experience which serves his clients well when he analyzes their case. Jay is thoughtful, well-respected and highly experienced. He is extremely efficient with his time and is an excellent writer, which serves his clients well on the temporary motions calendar and at trial. I routinely refer matters to Jay, and know folks are in excellent and capable hands."
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2013 - Present
owner/attorney, Law Office of Jay W. Neff
2008 - 2012
attorney, Law Office of Michael W. Bugni
1998 - 2008
Associate Attorney, Goldberg & Jones
1987 - 1994
Judge Pro Tem, Snohomish County Superior Court
1987 - 1994
Judge Pro Tem, Everett Municipal Court
1985 - 1989
Prosecuting Attorney, City of Arlington, WA
1984 - 1998
owner/attorney, Jay W. Neff Attorney at Law
1981 - 1982
Compliance Assistant, Us Department Of Labor
1984 - Present
Washington State Bar Assoc.Member
1989 - 1994
Billing Middle SchoolBoard of Directors
1983
JD - Juris Doctor
1978
BS - Bachelor of Science
2022
Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee
2021
Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee
2020
Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee
2019
Annual Washington State Bar Association, Family Law Section- Attendee
2018
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