Lloyd T. Kelso

Lloyd T. Kelso

4.0
Rating: 6.7

Licensed for 49 years

Family Lawyer at Gastonia, NC
Practice Areas: Family, Divorce & Separation, Alimony ... +15 more

502 E Garrison Blvd, Gastonia, NC

This lawyer was disciplined by a state licensing authority in 2022
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About Lloyd

Biography

Practice Areas

18

Practice Areas

Family 17%

49 years | 5,000 cases

17%
Divorce and Separation 15%

49 years | 3,000 cases

15%
Alimony 10%

49 years | 1,500 cases

10%
Child Custody 10%

49 years | 2,500 cases

10%
Child Support 10%

49 years | 3,500 cases

10%
Adoption 5%

49 years | 500 cases

5%
Car Accident 5%

49 years | 5,000 cases

5%
Domestic Violence 5%

49 years | 500 cases

5%
Mediation 4%

49 years | 200 cases

4%
Personal Injury 4%

49 years | 5,000 cases

4%
Estate Planning 3%

49 years | 400 cases

3%
Trucking Accident 3%

49 years | 10 cases

3%
Uncontested Divorce 3%

49 years | 3,000 cases

3%
Wrongful Death 2%

49 years | 15 cases

2%
Marriage and Prenuptials 1%

49 years | 100 cases

1%
Motorcycle Accident 1%

49 years | 15 cases

1%
Power of Attorney 1%

49 years | 150 cases

1%
Wills and Living Wills 1%

49 years | 500 cases

1%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Hourly Rates

$ 375-375 per hour

Contingency

30%-35%


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

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Licenses

Licensed in Tennessee for 32 years

State: Tennessee

Acquired: 1994

Active

Licensed in North Carolina for 48 years

State: North Carolina

Acquired: 1977

Active

Lawyer disciplined by state licensing authority in 2022

Licensed in South Carolina for 49 years

State: South Carolina

Acquired: 1976

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Location

Lloyd T. Kelso, Attorney at Law

502 E Garrison Blvd, Gastonia, NC, 28054

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Lloyd T. Kelso's Reviews

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4.0 /5.0

23 Client Reviews

Posted by anonymous | December 20, 2020 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Took my money really fast and never completed jib

Paid him $2500.00 to complete a Civil Service Benefit after my separation. After 4 weeks I called to see where we stood on the order and he didn’t remember that I emailed the instructions for completing the claim. He was very rude and unprofessional. I feel that he took advantage of a new single d...ivorced female. Only refunded $600.00 dollars. I retained a new lawyer that completed the job in one week.

Lloyd Kelso

Replied last August 22, 2021

This client hired me to file a divorce from bed and board, alimony, and equitable distribution case which was prepared and properly filed. The client was asked several times to come to the office to prepare for the hearing and to discuss service of the Summons and Complaint on her husband who was avoiding service. The client's husband then contacted us and demanded that we give his wife her money back because they were reconciling. We refused to talk to him. The client then called and requested her money back before we could take the case to a hearing. We refunded what was left of the initial advanced fees for her case. The client's file was checked two months after the refund, and she still had not hired another attorney.

Posted by Carolyn | June 18, 2020 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Been There

To Carmen from March 2019. Years ago, over 20, I was referred to Lloyd Kelso by a very reputable law firm in Raleigh. He was referred as the "one of the best" Family Law Attorney's in NC. I traveled many miles to see him with a small child. At first I was very pleased. I thought I had one of the bes...t lawyers out there. Then he left the firm he was with to go into Entertainment Law and moved his practice to Tennessee. I did not switch lawyers, I stuck with him. My divorce was a nightmare. I was caught between being a mother, a caregiver for elderly relatives, an uncooperative ex-spouse and what turned-out to be an uncaring attorney. The move was the first thing. It took 4 years to get my ex to sign the separation agreement. He held-out to keep me from claiming alienation of affection. That would have been easy to prove. He has a son by his then girlfriend who is only a little more than 5 months younger than our son. I signed-off thinking everything was great even though there was a just issue with my ex's retirement. His 401k was in the agreement but it didn't appear to me that that included all of his retirement. Years later when my husband retired I found-out that the agreement had not included his retirement from his job, even though state law says I am entitled to it. He, my ex told me he would not sign anything for me to get his retirement. All the years I had spent married to my ex, moving from county to county, leaving jobs that could have provided me and my children with sufficient income to support them, even having to give-up our house, and it looked like no one thought I deserved to be able to retire. I knew the law couldn't make my husband stay in the lives of our children, he didn't, but at least I could have been allowed to retire decently. I tried other lawyers when I found-out he had filed the QDRO at the same time I took early retirement (my job was physically killing me). I returned to Mr. Kelso who told me he hadn't promised me anything. Based on the other reviews I read that described Mr. Kelso as "brilliant, "excellent", and "Christian", and my experience and Carmen's, makes me wonder if the service he provides applies to everyone. My life is almost at an end and I want God's forgiveness so I forgive Mr. Kelso.

Lloyd Kelso

Replied last August 22, 2021

I do not recall this client's case. When I moved to Nashville in 1995, all my cases were taken over by my former law partners and completed by them. It was more than 30 years ago.

Posted by John | February 3, 2020 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Client

I'd met Lloyd Kelso in Gastonia decades ago through music. I have now and have had up most respect for Mr Kelso personally and professionally. I live in Burke County NC. I have had ongoing adversity before and since my divorce in 2014 while experiencing life threatening health issues including Hear...t, Fearful of law enforcement and Severe depression to mention a few. Been hospitalized several times in Orangeburg SC Hospital and hospitals in NC due to continuous threats, fraudulent claims against me causing worsening health issues including losing 77 lbs in matter of months, home invasion while being held in jail by false charges while Burke County Deputies along with my ex and son (on drugs) broke into my home on April 13, 2015. Never underestimate a woman's scorn after nearly 4 decades of marriage. Maybe too much information however I was so sick during this horrible time in my life I now want all to know I'm honest and starting to have better physical and mental health. Absolutely no one would take my case I believe due to high profile law enforcement involved. Also, I put my ex through 4 yrs of nursing school. Afterwards she won award for excellent Nurse patient care including caring for and rubbing elbows with highly influential people in Burke County/surrounding Counties. People like myself, Doctor, family and true friends knew a different RN, another side of the Nurse some thought they knew. Prior to divorce she refused a drug test and promptly moved to Pegram Tennessee with man supposed to be life long friend however briefly coming back to Burke County to break into my home well planned. I have confidence that Lloyd Kelso will shed some light on the long hard battle for justice I deserve so that I might be able to save remainder of land that goes back centuries with my mom's family. My prayers are being answered, God is Blessing me and I look forward to closure from the darkness and into a loving relationship with my first love from 1973, my fiance Barbara. God has blessed me with one of the top 100 family law attorneys in NC. Answering my prayers. Blessed and Grateful, John

Posted by Danielle | July 18, 2019 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Lloyd Kelso - Great Experience!

After several consultations with various attorneys, Mr. Kelso was the first to make me feel heard. He walked me through every step of the process, maintained clear communication with me, and made a very difficult situation as easy as possible, without breaking the bank! I would choose him again and a...gain.

Posted by Carmen | March 18, 2019 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Please Don't

Please take reviews seriously. If anyone or company has bad reviews, there is a reason. I had a very bad experience with Lloyd Kelso. I was going through a divorce and was very poor. Lloyd played on like he would help, seemed compassionate but the longer things went on, I realized he only loves money.... My mission was to have health insurance, it was VERY important as I have an illness that will eventually take my life. Not only did I walk away with $4700 in debt for his fees (we never stepped foot in a courtroom) no insurance. Everything that was negotiated was done by me. He even advised me to take a lower amount. He allowed it to be put in my divorce papers that I cannot seek alienation of affection from the woman my ex cheated with. Funny how the truth comes out after papers are signed. Please do yourself a favor and walk away. I was on the verge of firing him before we went to mediation. By this time I was already $3700 in debt. That was the worst mistake I made, not firing him.

Lloyd Kelso

Replied last August 22, 2021

This client elected to settle her case in mediation. She never complained during the mediation process and signed the settlement papers the same day as the mediation in the mediator's office. I represented her the entire time and never received any complaints. After the case was completed, she did not want to complete paying fees and then the complaints started. At the time she signed the settlement, she thought the settlement was fair. The mediator also questioned her and she indicated it was fair to him. It was approved by the Court.

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Lloyd T. Kelso's Lawyer Endorsements

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Andrew Dickens

Unknown lawyer | May 13

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I am impressed with Mr. Kelso's thoughtful advice and answers to legal questions on Avvo. He has an in-depth understanding of the law and an ability to communicate legal concepts clearly and effectively. I endorse this lawyer!"

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Hovanes Margarian

Unknown lawyer | Nov 09

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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John O'Brien

Adoption lawyer | May 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"A truly excellent attorney well respected in the legal community. I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone looking for a lawyer who knows the law and truly cares about protecting the rights of his clients and getting them the most favorable result possible."

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Charles Alexander

Unknown lawyer | Mar 31

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Stephen Cohen

Family lawyer | Jan 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I always enjoy reading his answer they are professional and accurate and that is why I have referred him clients and will continue to do so."

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Lee Peindl

Family lawyer | Jan 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse Lloyd. His experience and approach make him an outstanding family lawyer."

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Michael Waddington

Family lawyer | Oct 15

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse Lloyd. He is a highly skilled attorney that is well respected in the legal community."

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Linda Ward

Family lawyer | May 21

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lloyd Kelso is a solutions-oriented, compassionate advocate, who not only knows the law but provides his clients with real-world, constructive advice to help solve them resolve their disputes in a reasonable, dignified and cost-effective manner. He is very knowledgeable, and I routinely rely on his book on North Carolina Family Law in my own practice. It is a must have for any family law practitioner in this state. Lloyd realizes that each case isn't just a set of facts for the lawyer to digest and apply the law. He understands that there is a real family involved, who is suffering. He uses his vast experience, legal expertise, and Christian principles to help families, and it's my privilege to endorse him."

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Robert Hartsoe

Family lawyer | May 20

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lloyd is a rare combination of excellence, commitment to client and cause, and compassion. He sets the standard for family law practice in North Carolina and I highly recommend him."

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Tonya Graser Smith

Family lawyer | Mar 06

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Mr. Kelso and I worked on opposite sides of a high conflict custody case. I was impressed not only by Mr. Kelso's knowledge of the law, but his creative methods to address the unique situations presented in the case. Mr. Kelso is a caring attorney who helps his clients to also learn to cope with the emotional issues while crafting strong legal solutions."

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Howard Lewis

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jul 10

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Attorney Kelso is an outstanding attorney with a wonderful reputation . He is a strong and zealous advocate for his clients and a credit to the legal profession. I highly endorse him."

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James Fuller

Family lawyer | Mar 31

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I am a fellow lawyer who has worked as co-counsel with Lloyd Kelso in the past. He is fair, ethical, and knowledgeable in his practice."

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George Beswick

Family lawyer | Mar 23

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"Lloyd Kelso is an excellent family attorney. He has an extraordinary sense of fairness and a depth of knowledge that produced a textbook that ought to be on every NC Family Law practitioner's desk. I have had the pleasure of knowing Lloyd for more that 20 years and have called on him for assistance on a couple of occaisions. I highly recommend him!"

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Howard Gum

Family lawyer | Sep 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I have known Lloyd for many years. He is truly a dedicated professional and accomplished author on Family Law in North Carolina. I highly recommend him."

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John Griffing

Divorce and separation lawyer | Aug 15

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer's work. He wrote the "book" on family law and I've referred family to him."

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Experience

Rating:  6.7 (Good)

Professional misconduct

This lawyer was disciplined by a state licensing authority in 2022.

Suspension issued in NC, 2022

updated on 01/06/2023

Suspension means an attorney lost his or her license to practice law for a period of time. The attorney typically returns to practicing law when the suspension expires.

Honors

2024

Distinguished, Martindale-Hubbell

2024

Board Certified Specialist - Family Law, North Carolina State Bar

2017

Client Champion, Martindale-Hubbell

2014

Twenty-Five Year Pin for 25 years as a Family Law Specialist, North Carolina State Bar

2006

Phi Alphi Chi, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary

2005

Psi Chi, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary

2000

Recognized as an "Advocate", Association of Trial Lawyers of America

1974

American Jurisprudence Award - Constitutional Law, University of South Carolina Law School

1973

Library Award, Erskine College

1972

Omicron Delta Kappa, Erskine College

Work Experience

1997 - Present

Owner, Lloyd T. Kelso, Attorney at Law

1995 - 1997

Partner, Ervin, Gates & Kelso

1994 - 1995

Senior Partner, Kelso, Ferguson & McGraw

1983 - 1994

Senior Partner, Kelso & Ferguson, Attorneys at Law

1978 - 1983

Owner, Lloyd T. Kelso, P.A.

1976 - 1978

Associate, Charles D. Gray, III, P.A.

Associations

2009 - Present

Christian Family Law Association

Founder

2008 - Present

Christian Trial Lawyers Association

Member

2006 - Present

Christian Legal Society

Member

1977 - Present

North Carolina Bar Association

Member

1977 - Present

Gaston County Bar Association

Member

2000 - 2002

Gastonia Mayor's Task Force on Homelessness

Chairman

2000 - 2003

River Hills Community Church

Foundation Trustee & Staff Relations Committee

1992 - 1993

Gaston County Bar Association

President

1987 - 1988

Belmont Abbey College

Teacher of Business Law

1986 - 1987

Christ United Methodist Church

President of Methodist Men

1978 - 2003

Association of Trial Lawyers of America

Member

1978 - 2003

North Carolina Academy of Trial Lawyers

Member

1978 - 1979

Gastonia Jaycees

Vice President

1977 - 1978

Hamilton College

Teacher of Business Law

1977 - 1981

Gastonia Jaycees

Director

1976 - 1977

Biscayne Southern College

Teacher of Business Law and Insurance Law

Sample of Legal Cases

$75,000 Settlement

Settled $75,000

Guess vs. Parrott

$525,000 Personal Injury Settlement

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Education

2006

Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary

MA - Masters

2006

Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary

MA - Masters

1975

University of South Carolina School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

1973

Erskine College

BA - Bachelor of Arts

Speaking Engagements

2017

Christian Family Law Association Conference

Choices Have Consequences

2010

Christian Legal Society Student Chapter

Practicing Law as a Ministry

2009

Christian Legal Society Luncheon

Voice of Truth

1999

"How To Hammer Allstate"

Ten Successful Tips on Trying the Connective Tissue Case

1998

"How To Combat Insurance Abuse"

Trial Issues: Preparing Successful Motions in Limine, Effective Voir Dire, Dealing with Irrelevant Defenses, Opening Statement, Closing Argument Tactics

1991

Family Law Practice Manual

"Invalid Marriages and Annulment"

1991

Family Law Practice Manual

"Uniform Reciprocal Enforcement of Support Act"

1991

Family Law Ethics

"Handling the Emotionally Troubled and Difficult Client"

1990

Family Support Litigation

"Dealing with the Difficult Domestic Client"

1989

Family Law Practice Manual

"Invalid Marriages and Annulment"

1989

Family Law Practice Manual

"Uniform Reciprocal Enforcement of Support Act"

1989

Family Law Practice Manual

"Child Support in North Carolina"

Publications

2009

Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary

2008

North Carolina Family Law Practice (2 Volumes) Divorce, Alimony, Child Custody, Forms

2008

Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary

2007

Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary

2001

Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (4th Ed.) North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms

1995

Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (3rd Ed.) North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms

1989

Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (2nd Ed.) North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms

1983

Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms

Languages

English

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