$ 375-375 per hour
Lloyd T. Kelso
About Lloyd
Biography
Skills and Specialty:
1989 - present: Certified by the North Carolina State Bar as a Specialist in North Carolina Family Law;
2001: Certified by the National Board of Trial Advocacy as a Board Certified Civil Trial Advocate;
1999: Completed course in Motor Vehicle Collision Reconstruction, Texas Engineering Extension Service, Texas A & M University.
Additional background:
I was born in Gastonia, North Carolina in 1950 to Herbert Reece Kelso (1928-2008), and Becky Hope Kelso. I was their only child. As a child, I spent a lot of time driving midget race cars and working in my dad's garage, particularly on Volkswagens. In fact, while in high school, my dad and I built a Volkswagen that we took from a junk yard. It had red metal flake paint and a sun roof. It was my pride and joy and got me back and forth to college. While in high school, I played football for four years and was selected for North Carolina Boys State. My parents encouraged me to go to college, so in 1969 I entered Erskine College in Due West, South Carolina. After obtaining a degree in history, I attended the University of South Carolina School of Law and obtained a law degree in 1975. I returned to Gastonia, North Carolina to practice law. In the early part of my career, I practiced real estate law, helping couples to purchase homes. In 1978, I opened my own office and became more of a courtroom attorney. I tried civil cases and criminal cases. In all, I have tried more than 100 jury trials in my career. Although I had always attended church, in 2000 I became involved in a Disciple Bible Study Class at River Hills Community Church. During my second year in the Bible study, I answered God's call to enter seminary in 2003. At first, I felt I would become a pastor, but later, it became apparent to me that God had another plan for me. So, after graduating from seminary in 2006 with masters degrees in divinity and Christian counseling, I returned to the practice of law. I joined the Christian Legal Society, and since returning to law practice, I have tried to conduct my practice as a ministry to the people that we serve. In June 2009, I founded the Christian Family Law Association, Inc., a nonprofit organization of attorneys and legal service providers who make the decision to view their family law practices as a ministry. See, . Our goal is to equip family law attorneys to view their family law practices as a ministry.
Practice Areas
18
Practice Areas
Family
17%
49 years | 5,000 cases
Divorce and Separation
15%
49 years | 3,000 cases
Alimony
10%
49 years | 1,500 cases
Child Custody
10%
49 years | 2,500 cases
Fees and Rates
Cost
Hourly Rates
Contingency
30%-35%
Payment Methods
- Cash
- Check
- Credit Card
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Licensed in Tennessee for 32 years
State: Tennessee
Acquired: 1994
Licensed in North Carolina for 48 years
State: North Carolina
Acquired: 1977
Lawyer disciplined by state licensing authority in 2022
Licensed in South Carolina for 49 years
State: South Carolina
Acquired: 1976
Location
Lloyd T. Kelso, Attorney at Law
502 E Garrison Blvd, Gastonia, NC, 28054
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Showing 1 - 5 of 8 reviews | Character & Conduct
Posted by anonymous | August 22, 2021 | Hired Attorney | Employment & Labor
Took my money really fast and never completed jib
Paid him $2500.00 to complete a Civil Service Benefit after my separation. After 4 weeks I called to see where we stood on the order and he didn’t remember that I emailed the instructions for completing the claim. He was very rude and unprofessional. I feel that he took advantage of a new single d...
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Replied last August 22, 2021This client hired me to file a divorce from bed and board, alimony, and equitable distribution case which was prepared and properly filed. The client was asked several times to come to the office to prepare for the hearing and to discuss service of the Summons and Complaint on her husband who was avoiding service. The client's husband then contacted us and demanded that we give his wife her money back because they were reconciling. We refused to talk to him. The client then called and requested her money back before we could take the case to a hearing. We refunded what was left of the initial advanced fees for her case. The client's file was checked two months after the refund, and she still had not hired another attorney.
Posted by John | February 04, 2020 | Hired Attorney | Family
Client
I'd met Lloyd Kelso in Gastonia decades ago through music. I have now and have had up most respect for Mr Kelso personally and professionally. I live in Burke County NC. I have had ongoing adversity before and since my divorce in 2014 while experiencing life threatening health issues including Hear...
Posted by anonymous | October 22, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Family
Lloyd Kelso Rocks!
Lloyd is an excellent attorney with over 30 years of experience in family law. During my case he went out of his way to reduce costs and aggressively pursued a just ruling. He was extremely proactive, professional, compassionate and did his research! His office also kept me well informed in a timely ...
Posted by anonymous | August 02, 2016
God complex
This was absolutely the most obnoxious, rude attorney I have ever dealt with. He refused to listen at the consultation, and just kept saying "I know what's going on". Then was angry that I would not pay him $300 for the consult, after he told me it would be $150. He literally threw papers at me acros...
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Replied last July 31, 2016This was not a client but the mother of a client. She was advised the consultation was $150.00 for 30 minutes, and thereafter the fee was $300.00 per hour. After an hour and fifteen minutes the consultation ended abruptly when the client's mother said she wanted to get another lawyer, that she was not satisfied with my opinion on the law, even after explaining it several times. She refused to pay for the client's one hour consult, prepared a check for 30 minutes and tossed the check at me as she and her son rushed out the door. I was polite the entire time; however, her review was solely based on the fact that she did not like my opinion about the laws related to the case.
Posted by AngelA | March 24, 2015 | Family
Brilliant"
absolutely brilliant "about sums this lawyer up".. I I couldn't be more pleased with how everything turned out and how Lloyd Kelso took care of me, and my children ".. This man knows the law"... I'm so thankful to God for having this man fight for me ".. He he certainly can read between the lines".....
Lloyd T. Kelso's Lawyer Endorsements
"I am impressed with Mr. Kelso's thoughtful advice and answers to legal questions on Avvo. He has an in-depth understanding of the law and an ability to communicate legal concepts clearly and effectively. I endorse this lawyer!"
"I endorse this lawyer."
"A truly excellent attorney well respected in the legal community. I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone looking for a lawyer who knows the law and truly cares about protecting the rights of his clients and getting them the most favorable result possible."
"I endorse this lawyer."
"I always enjoy reading his answer they are professional and accurate and that is why I have referred him clients and will continue to do so."
"I endorse Lloyd. His experience and approach make him an outstanding family lawyer."
"I endorse Lloyd. He is a highly skilled attorney that is well respected in the legal community."
"Lloyd Kelso is a solutions-oriented, compassionate advocate, who not only knows the law but provides his clients with real-world, constructive advice to help solve them resolve their disputes in a reasonable, dignified and cost-effective manner. He is very knowledgeable, and I routinely rely on his book on North Carolina Family Law in my own practice. It is a must have for any family law practitioner in this state. Lloyd realizes that each case isn't just a set of facts for the lawyer to digest and apply the law. He understands that there is a real family involved, who is suffering. He uses his vast experience, legal expertise, and Christian principles to help families, and it's my privilege to endorse him."
"Lloyd is a rare combination of excellence, commitment to client and cause, and compassion. He sets the standard for family law practice in North Carolina and I highly recommend him."
"Mr. Kelso and I worked on opposite sides of a high conflict custody case. I was impressed not only by Mr. Kelso's knowledge of the law, but his creative methods to address the unique situations presented in the case. Mr. Kelso is a caring attorney who helps his clients to also learn to cope with the emotional issues while crafting strong legal solutions."
"I endorse this lawyer. Attorney Kelso is an outstanding attorney with a wonderful reputation . He is a strong and zealous advocate for his clients and a credit to the legal profession. I highly endorse him."
"I am a fellow lawyer who has worked as co-counsel with Lloyd Kelso in the past. He is fair, ethical, and knowledgeable in his practice."
"Lloyd Kelso is an excellent family attorney. He has an extraordinary sense of fairness and a depth of knowledge that produced a textbook that ought to be on every NC Family Law practitioner's desk. I have had the pleasure of knowing Lloyd for more that 20 years and have called on him for assistance on a couple of occaisions. I highly recommend him!"
"I have known Lloyd for many years. He is truly a dedicated professional and accomplished author on Family Law in North Carolina. I highly recommend him."
"I endorse this lawyer's work. He wrote the "book" on family law and I've referred family to him."
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Experience
Professional misconduct
This lawyer was disciplined by a state licensing authority in 2022.
Suspension issued in NC, 2022
updated on 01/06/2023Suspension means an attorney lost his or her license to practice law for a period of time. The attorney typically returns to practicing law when the suspension expires.
Honors
2024
Distinguished, Martindale-Hubbell
2024
Board Certified Specialist - Family Law, North Carolina State Bar
2017
Client Champion, Martindale-Hubbell
2014
Twenty-Five Year Pin for 25 years as a Family Law Specialist, North Carolina State Bar
2006
Phi Alphi Chi, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary
2005
Psi Chi, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary
2000
Recognized as an "Advocate", Association of Trial Lawyers of America
1974
American Jurisprudence Award - Constitutional Law, University of South Carolina Law School
1973
Library Award, Erskine College
1972
Omicron Delta Kappa, Erskine College
Work Experience
1997 - Present
Owner, Lloyd T. Kelso, Attorney at Law
1995 - 1997
Partner, Ervin, Gates & Kelso
1994 - 1995
Senior Partner, Kelso, Ferguson & McGraw
1983 - 1994
Senior Partner, Kelso & Ferguson, Attorneys at Law
1978 - 1983
Owner, Lloyd T. Kelso, P.A.
1976 - 1978
Associate, Charles D. Gray, III, P.A.
Associations
2009 - Present
Christian Family Law AssociationFounder
2008 - Present
Christian Trial Lawyers AssociationMember
2006 - Present
Christian Legal SocietyMember
1977 - Present
North Carolina Bar AssociationMember
1977 - Present
Gaston County Bar AssociationMember
2000 - 2002
Gastonia Mayor's Task Force on HomelessnessChairman
2000 - 2003
River Hills Community ChurchFoundation Trustee & Staff Relations Committee
1992 - 1993
Gaston County Bar AssociationPresident
1987 - 1988
Belmont Abbey CollegeTeacher of Business Law
1986 - 1987
Christ United Methodist ChurchPresident of Methodist Men
1978 - 2003
Association of Trial Lawyers of AmericaMember
1978 - 2003
North Carolina Academy of Trial LawyersMember
1978 - 1979
Gastonia JayceesVice President
1977 - 1978
Hamilton CollegeTeacher of Business Law
1977 - 1981
Gastonia JayceesDirector
1976 - 1977
Biscayne Southern CollegeTeacher of Business Law and Insurance Law
Sample of Legal Cases
$75,000 Settlement
Settled $75,000
Guess vs. Parrott
$525,000 Personal Injury Settlement
Education
2006
Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary
MA - Masters
2006
Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary
MA - Masters
1975
University of South Carolina School of Law
JD - Juris Doctor
1973
Erskine College
BA - Bachelor of Arts
Speaking Engagements
2017
Christian Family Law Association Conference
Choices Have Consequences
2010
Christian Legal Society Student Chapter
Practicing Law as a Ministry
2009
Christian Legal Society Luncheon
Voice of Truth
1999
"How To Hammer Allstate"
Ten Successful Tips on Trying the Connective Tissue Case
1998
"How To Combat Insurance Abuse"
Trial Issues: Preparing Successful Motions in Limine, Effective Voir Dire, Dealing with Irrelevant Defenses, Opening Statement, Closing Argument Tactics
1991
Family Law Practice Manual
"Invalid Marriages and Annulment"
1991
Family Law Practice Manual
"Uniform Reciprocal Enforcement of Support Act"
1991
Family Law Ethics
"Handling the Emotionally Troubled and Difficult Client"
1990
Family Support Litigation
"Dealing with the Difficult Domestic Client"
1989
Family Law Practice Manual
"Invalid Marriages and Annulment"
1989
Family Law Practice Manual
"Uniform Reciprocal Enforcement of Support Act"
1989
Family Law Practice Manual
"Child Support in North Carolina"
Publications
2009
Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes
Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary
2008
North Carolina Family Law Practice (2 Volumes)
Divorce, Alimony, Child Custody, Forms
2008
Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes
Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary
2007
Kelso, North Carolina Family Law Statutes
Statutes, Leading Cases, and Commentary
2001
Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (4th Ed.)
North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms
1995
Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (3rd Ed.)
North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms
1989
Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms (2nd Ed.)
North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms
1983
Kelso, North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms
North Carolina Divorce, Alimony & Child Custody with Forms
Languages
English
Activity
Legal Answers
Legal Guides
Legal Answers
Q&A
How to get a divorce or annulment when she is in Prison? I am not sure if she was married during the time we got married also
23 Jan 2015
Q&A
Does a court order make the original child custody agreement void?
23 Jul 2013
Q&A
We were married in TN and live in NC. We were only married for 6 months can I get it annuled/?
25 Jun 2013
Legal Guides
Legal Guide
Obtaining an Absolute Divorce
14 Jun 2012
Legal Guide
CHECKLIST OF FACTORS FOR ASSESSING BEST INTEREST OF CHILD
22 May 2012
Legal Guide
Rules for Working with Your Spouse on an Agreement
09 Aug 2009