John M Henderlite III

John M Henderlite III

also known as Jay Henderlite

4.4
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 14 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Jacksonville, FL
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Child Custody, Child Support, Family

218 E. Ashley St., Jacksonville, FL

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Licenses

Licensed in Florida for 14 years

State: Florida

Acquired: 2011

Member in Good Standing

No misconduct found

Location

Watson Henderlite

218 E. Ashley St., Jacksonville, FL, 32202

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John M Henderlite III's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

4.4 /5.0

18 Client Reviews

Posted by Heather | March 5, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Beware

Mr. Henderlite is very quick to bill and extend trials as to milk as much money from you as he can. Mr. Henderlite will not have your best interest at heart and is only trying to make more money.

Posted by Oscar | May 10, 2022 | Consulted Attorney

This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.

Unprofessional

I'm very disappointed in Mr. Henderlite. He was quick to take our consultation fee and give us the impression he was going to represent my mother in her divorce, but when we notified him we were going to retain his services he decided he didn't want to represent her. This required us to pay yet anoth...er consult fee to another lawyer. MY mother is 82 and on social security. The last thing she needs is lawyers taking advantage of her.

Posted by Gary | November 18, 2020 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Not aggressive in court

Hired Mr Henderlite to represent me in an injunction I had filed. Mr Henderlite is nice to his clients but too nice in court. He is not aggressive enough presenting your case to a Judge that has a preconceived outcome. I liked Mr Henderlite but would not hire him again.

John Henderlite

Replied last November 19, 2020

Gary, I am sorry you are disappointed. It was a pleasure working with you. While I recognize you did not mean it as such, I appreciate the compliment. I take great pride in my professionalism and civility. In my experience, the voice that shouts the loudest rarely prevails.

Posted by Terry | April 30, 2020 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Exceptional Attorney

I hired Jay at the initial consultation. I wanted a law firm that handled LGBTQ cases for my divorce. I initially made three appointments with different Jacksonville firms and cancelled the other two appointments after my meeting with Jay. He instantly put me at ease by asking how I wanted the meetin...g to proceed and what were my expectations. He took notes and addressed each question and concern. Jay kept me updated throughout the process and when things were not going the way I hoped, he cut to the chase and presented my options. He always gave me the best case and worse case scenarios. He and his staff are professional, curtious and genuine. They all made a difficult situation bearable. I am eternally grateful to everyone at Watson Henderlite.

Posted by anonymous | July 12, 2018 | Consulted Attorney

This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.

A great family lawyer you can really trust!

Jay is a great lawyer who listens carefully to you and identifies strategic directions instead of getting caught in a tit for tat that is common in divorce cases. He is fair-minded, well versed in family law, very honest, and acts very ethically. He looks out for you. I would not hesitate to use h...im if you ever need a family lawyer - he will be your best ally.

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John M Henderlite III's Lawyer Endorsements

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Dulce Fazel

Family lawyer | Apr 23

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Jay and I have worked on several cases. He is a fierce advocate for his clients while maintaining a professional and courteous demeanor both in and out of court. He is well-respected by lawyers and judges. When I see his name as opposing counsel, I am confident that the case will be handled in an efficient, ethical, and responsible manner. I fully endorse Jay."

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Steven Croskey

Unknown lawyer | Feb 27

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Mr. Henderlite is an excellent lawyer, and I highly recommend his services. I've worked with Mr. Henderlite on hundreds, if not thousands, of prior cases, and he was a formidable, yet respectful, adversary on all matters. Not only is he knowledge and well-versed in the law, but he employs strategic plans in the courtroom in an attempt to obtain the best results possible for his clients."

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Ian Hurley

Family lawyer | Feb 27

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Jay is a very knowledgeable and hard working attorney."

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Jean Martin

Family lawyer | Feb 26

Relationship: Supervised lawyer

"I ardently endorse Jay Henderlite. He is a talented, intelligent and empathetic person and lawyer who cares deeply about his clients and the results he achieves for them. His professionalism is beyond reproach. A client could not ask for a better advocate."

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Dyvonnda Thurston

Family lawyer | Feb 24

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Mr. Henderlite and I had a case together. He was polite, professional, and prepared. I endorse this lawyer."

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Zachary Alfant

Family lawyer | Feb 24

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. Jay is a fantastic lawyer and a pleasure to work with."

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Juliane Morris

Criminal defense lawyer | Mar 13

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2010

Outstanding Family Law Student Award, North Carolina- American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Work Experience

2018 - Present

Attorney, Watson Henderlite, Family Law Attorneys

2015 - 2018

Family Law Attorney, Law Office of Denise Watson

2011 - 2015

Assistant Public Defender, Law Office of the Public Defender, 7th Judicial Circuit

Associations

2019 - Present

Florida Family Law American Inn of Court

Executive Committee

2017 - Present

Florida Family Law American Inn of Court

Member

2016 - Present

The Cathedral School

Board Member

2015 - Present

Jacksonville Bar Association, Family Law Section

Member

2014 - Present

Jacksonville Bar Association

Member

2011 - Present

Florida Bar

Member

2018 - 2019

Florida Family Law American Inn of Court

Executive Committee

2017 - 2018

Florida Family Law American Inn of Court

Executive Committee

2016 - 2017

Florida Family Law American Inn of Court

Member

Education

2010

Wake Forest University School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

Speaking Engagements

2019

2942 Paralegals Play Their Part-Skills Assisting Attorneys In A Happy & Health Family Law Practice 2019

Judicial Assistant Panel

2018

VA Family Law Clinic

Child Support Modification

2018

Jacksonville Bar Association Family Law Section CLE

Extended Family Custody

2018

Family Law Clinic

Dissolution of Marriage with Children

2018

Family Law Clinic

Child Support Modification and Paternity

2017

Jacksonville Bar Association Family Law Section CLE

Temporary and Concurrent Extended Family Custody

2017

Child Protection Team Annual Training

Confidentiality of Protected Child Records

Languages

English

Activity

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