Lu Aloupas

Lu Aloupas

also known as Carmelou Aloupas

5.0
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 15 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Chesapeake, VA
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Family

Aloupas Law, P.L.L.C., 220 Mt. Pleasant Road, Suite 102, Chesapeake, VA

About Lu

Practice Areas

2

Practice Areas

Divorce and Separation 50%

Negotiating and drafting separation agreements, contested divorce (to include division of the marital estate, establishing temporary and permanent spousal support, child custody and visitation, child support, attorney fees), uncontested/no-fault divorces, and military divorces.

16 years

50%
Family 50%

Child custody and visitation, child support, spousal support (alimony), enforcing or modifying orders and decrees, parents wishing to relocate with their children away from the other parent, custody by non-parent (grandparent or other interested party), and protective orders.

16 years

50%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Retainer

Always


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Credit Card

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Licenses

Licensed in Virginia for 15 years

State: Virginia

Acquired: 2010

Active

No misconduct found

Licensed in Texas for 7 years

State: Texas

Acquired: 2018

Inactive

No misconduct found

Location

Law Offices of Lu Aloupas

Aloupas Law, P.L.L.C., 220 Mt. Pleasant Road, Suite 102, Chesapeake, VA, 23322

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Lu Aloupas's Reviews

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5.0 /5.0

10 Client Reviews

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Posted by Sam | October 21, 2025 | Hired Attorney | Family

Excellent attorney for custody matters

I have retained Lu three separate times to assist me with family law/custody matters. She is very knowledgeable, has a very good support staff, and presents very well in the court room. She is very quick with communication and is excellent at helping navigate through a stressful situation. My wife ...used Lu’s services during her divorce with her previous husband and recommended her to me. She was able to secure primary custody of my 11 year old son and I couldn’t thank her enough.

Posted by anonymous | May 18, 2017 | Child Custody

Free Phone Consultation

I'm in the process of hiring an attorney for my custody case. Ms. Aloupas offered a free phone consultation. She was quick to respond and set up an appointment. I sent her the documentation for her review before our appointment. When I spoke to her she was very polite, knowledgeable and helpful. ... She is very easy to talk too.

Posted by Dave | July 15, 2016 | Hired Attorney | Domestic Violence

Stellar Service, Perfect Outcome

12 July 2016 Lu Aloupas is an extraordinary lawyer. I had an issue with a neighbor who asked the court to grant a Protective Order against me. I was innocent, but I did not have the knowledge to fight this on my own. Based on online reviews, I decided to call The Law Offices 0f Lu Aloupa...s. This is the best decision I’ve made in a long time. In our first phone call she patiently listened to my jumbled story (I was nervous) and then advised me what to do immediately. She then asked if I would like to come to her office (she has offices in Hampton and Chesapeake) and because she sounded so knowledgeable (and calm) I agreed. When I met her in the Hampton office we went through the basics of the case and then she asked if I would like to retain her services. We discussed the price, and I agreed. Here is my opinion about the cost. Of course I think that lawyers make waaaay to much money. But as I found out, if you don’t hire a lawyer, you will be overwhelmed by the system, and by stress. Her prices are fair. There might be a cheaper lawyer, and I know there are more expensive lawyers, but her value in my case totally justified the cost. My case was heard at the York County Circuit Court. On the date of the court hearing we met before the scheduled time and she explained exactly what would happen. She said “I know you are nervous, but stay as calm as you can.” I thought that’s easy for her to say. She told me to not be surprised if the other party changes his story, it happens all the time. She said not to react to this, that she would handle it. Just listening to her gave me confidence and remarkably, I was less nervous. From the beginning the outcome never seemed to be in doubt. The other party represented himself (huge mistake) and Lu was like a TV lawyer. You honor “Motion to Separate”, objection your honor “Relevance”, Move to Strike Your Honor “Hearsay”. The Judge sided with Lu every time. The Judge dismissed the request for a protective order against me and restored all my rights. I was like someone lifted a building off my shoulders. You might have heard the saying that nobody likes lawyers until you need one. I can personally testify that if you are involved in any legal action you need a lawyer. And if you need a great lawyer, at a fair price, I can, without reservation or hesitation, recommend Ms. Lu Aloupas, Esquire. Dave

Posted by anonymous | May 25, 2016 | Hired Attorney | Lawsuits & Disputes

Family advice session

Miss Aloupas was very helpful and I understand more about my current case, which is an interstate case. I'm glad I called and she was very prompt in returning my inquiry, which was surprising since it was at 9 am on a Saturday.

Posted by Dave | May 15, 2016 | Hired Attorney | Speeding & Traffic Ticket

I recommend Attorney Lu Aloupas

Attorney Lu Aloupas provided me with sound advice about my traffic ticket. She was up front about what your max fine could be, as well as what I might expect by the Judge. She helped with any questions I had in a timely manner and provided great guidance as to what I could do in advance to my court d...ate. When my court date had come, she was a good reason I received a very lenient ruling by the Judge. If you find yourself in my posistion, I highly recommend Attorney Lu Aloupas.

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Lu Aloupas's Lawyer Endorsements

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Shemeka Hankins

Family lawyer | Feb 20

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Ms. Aloupas is a smart, dedicated attorney who will be your advocate. She will make sure you understand the law and compassionate about your particular situation. Ms. Aloupas is an attorney who will fight to get your a favorable result."

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Katherine Currin

Family lawyer | Oct 18

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Ms. Aloupas is well-known and well-respected within the Hampton Roads legal community. She is professional and knowledgeable, and is an excellent advocate for her clients."

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Cara Oxenham

Criminal defense lawyer | Oct 10

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Nanita Cornish

Criminal defense lawyer | Nov 16

Relationship: Co-worker

"I endorse this lawyer. I worked with Ms. Aloupas at the Hampton Public Defender's office prior to her obtaining her law degree. She was a sentencing advocate and we worked closely on several juvenile cases. She has always been very passionate and hardworking. She is an excellent attorney and has brought that same passion to her law practice."

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Christian Lassen

Unknown lawyer | Jan 07

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Top-notch attorney. Highly respected in the legal community."

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Tammy Sossei

Unknown lawyer | Dec 30

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lu works tirelessly for her clients. She is very passionate about their causes. Her clients are in good hands!"

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James Davis

Family lawyer | Dec 22

Relationship: Friend

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Daniel Miller

Unknown lawyer | Dec 15

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Daniel Donahue

Criminal defense lawyer | Oct 09

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"From the trial level on up, you can count on Ms. Aloupas. I endorse this lawyer."

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Tiffany Sullivan

Family lawyer | Aug 21

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"Lu is an excellent family law attorney and strong advocate for her clients. I endorse this lawyer."

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Brenton Vincenzes

Family lawyer | Sep 06

Relationship: Friend

"Ms. Aloupas is one of those rare attorneys who if you meet, you won't soon forget. She is a strong woman, and a diligent advocate. It is my pleasure to recommend her."

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James Gochenour

Family lawyer | Jul 29

Relationship: Supervised lawyer

"Ms Aloupas worked for me for several years at the Hampton Public Defender's Office prior to her obtaining her law degree. She is passionate and dedicated to her clients. She is a very intelligent person. A great choice for anyone facing difficult times and in need of a lawyer!"

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Crystina O'Brien

Family lawyer | Jun 12

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Ms. Aloupas is an aggressive and hard-working advocate. She knows how to fight and win."

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Mandy Rogers

Criminal defense lawyer | Mar 23

Relationship: Co-worker

"I whole heartily endorse Carmelou Aloupas. She is an exceptional litigator and her skill and passion for the law are evident in every thing she does. As a former public defender, she has the experience necessary to win difficult criminal cases. I have seen her in action and she is a fierce advocate for her clients. She has an incredible work ethic and I often see her working on a case well past the close of business. In addition to her legal skills, she is a kind and compassionate person. She relates to her clients and works hard to make their lives better. She genuinely cares for each and every one of her clients. If I needed a lawyer, I would call Carmelou Aloupas."

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Shemeka Hankins

Criminal defense lawyer

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John Walsh

Family lawyer

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Cara Oxenham

Criminal defense lawyer

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Nanita Cornish

Criminal defense lawyer

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Tammy Sossei

Criminal defense lawyer

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Gregory Bane

Criminal defense lawyer

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Tiffany Sullivan

Family lawyer

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Brenton Vincenzes

Criminal defense lawyer

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Crystina O'Brien

Criminal defense lawyer

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Mandy Rogers

Family lawyer

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James Gochenour

Criminal defense lawyer

Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2026

Top Lawyer, Coastal Virginia Magazine

2025

Legal Elite, Virginia Business

2025

Super Lawyers, Virginia Super Lawyers

2024

Legal Elite, Virginia Business Magazine

2024

Super Lawyers, Virginia Super Lawyers

2023

Legal Elite, Virginia Business Magazine

2023

Super Lawyers, Virginia Super Lawyers

2022

Legal Elite, Virginia Business Magazine

2020

Rising Star, Virginia Super Lawyers

2019

Rising Star, Virginia Super Lawyers

2018

Rising Star, Virginia Super Lawyers

2015

Top Lawyer, Coastal Virginia Magazine

2009

Champion and Best Brief, National Pretrial Advocacy Competition

2008

Best Brief, National Pretrial Advocacy Competition

2000

Member, National Criminal Justice Honor Society

Work Experience

2013 - Present

Owner/Attorney at Law, Aloupas Law, P.L.L.C.

2012 - 2013

Associate, M.Rogers & Associates

2011 - 2012

Assistant Public Defender, Chesapeake Public Defenders Office

2010 - 2011

Associate, Krinick & Segall

2008 - 2010

Legal Intern, Kenenth B. Murov, Esq.

2005 - 2007

Senior Sentencing Advocate/Mitigation Specialist, Hampton Public Defenders Office

Associations

2020 - Present

Norfolk and Portsmouth Bar Association

Member

2017 - Present

Virginia Trial Lawyers Association

Member

2017 - Present

Virginia Trial Lawyers Association, Family Law Section

Member

2016 - Present

Virginia Beach Bar Association

Member

2016 - Present

Greater Peninsula Women's Bar Association

Member

2013 - Present

Chesapeake Bar Association

Member

2012 - Present

VA State Bar - Family Law Section

Member

2011 - Present

VA State Bar - Criminal Law Section

Member

2009 - Present

Virginia Women Attorneys Association

Treasurer, Immediate Past President, Hampton Roads

Sample of Legal Cases

Child Support Arrears

The Circuit Court dismissed the case with prejudice, and permanently barred Father from enforcing the arrears.

Synthetic Cannabinoids

Both cases were dismissed

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Education

2010

Regent University School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

2000

Virginia Commonwealth University

MS - Master of Science

1991

Athens State College

BS - Bachelor of Science

Speaking Engagements

2016

National Business Institution

Discovery Issues in Family Law Cases- Social Media and Evidence

2015

James Kent American Inn of Court

Social Media: Opening Pandora's Box of Ethical and Evidentiary Issues

Languages

English

Activity

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