Shirley Chim

I cannot say enough incredible things about Shirley Chim at Safi, Duran & Chim. I came to work with her after reaching out to the Lawyer Referral Service through the Fairfax Bar Association, and I truly am so grateful for the chance referral that has led to top-notch representation since I first met ...her around May 2024. Through a protective order hearing, emergency hearings, a full day trial, and two settlements, Shirley always made me feel heard and has helped me see the bigger picture of the long-term. She is a mother of three herself and very attuned to concerns that mothers have, particularly when dealing with substance abuse and high-conflict individuals. I worked with three other attorneys prior to her in my custody matters involving my children, and I am truly blown away by her knowledge, empathy, and commitment to her clients. The difference in representation was immediately clear to me. Whether it was in Arlington or Fairfax, JDR or circuit court, Shirley has always gone above and beyond for me in two intertwined and complex custody cases. Shirley is exceptionally well-versed in family law and understands not only the legal framework, but the strategy behind it. She is thoughtful, thorough, and incredibly prepared. What sets her apart, though, is her ability to combine sharp legal skill with genuine compassion. She listens carefully, validates concerns, and then goes above and beyond to advocate effectively. Throughout my cases, I felt supported, informed, and confident that I had someone in my corner who truly cared about achieving the best possible outcome for my children. Her work ethic and attention to detail are unmatched. If you are navigating a complex custody situation and want an attorney who is brilliant, strategic, and deeply dedicated to her clients, I highly recommend Shirley.

It has been 4 years fighting for the custody of my children and the child support that I am due.  It has been a long slog and it seems at times no one seemed to be interested or cared about my situation. Everytime I hoped my ex would stop, he would come back to court with something new. I count mys...elf fortunate to have had Shirley by my side throughout this process .   She has been steadfast in her unwavering belief in me.  Her professionalism, competence, and forward and out of the box thinking helped me obtain my goal of raising my kids. In times when I needed advice, a sounding board, an honest opinion or legal strategy, she would be there to provide it. But the one thing I am most grateful for Shirley is her humanism, her humanity.  These legal battles were severely depressing and I always felt like I had a family member Shirley fighting along side me, for me.  I know that she looks after my needs and my family’s best interests based on the things that she brings up in court, ideas of how I can handle my ex, and the language she inserts in legal documents.

I am profoundly grateful for the exceptional service provided by Shirley Chim. She handled my custody case with professionalism and empathy; her proactive approach saved me time and money. She helped to resolve a difficult custody matter. She genuinely listened to my concerns and made sure I felt su...pported throughout the entire legal process. Thanks to Shirley I have primary custody of my great-nephew.

Shirley Chim is amazing! She is very helpful and professional. She takes the time to explain your concerns and has always looked out after my best interests. I... can not thank her enough. I would highly recommend her to anyone going through divorced and other family issues.