Licensed for 42 years

State NY

Acquired 1981

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Lois Margaret Brenner

Divorce and separation Attorney at New York, NY

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Mrs. Brenner has been an Angel for me

Divorce through publication

I had a complicated situation where in i had to get divorce through publication as my husband & i had not been in contact for 5 years & i was out of US for few years. (it was an abusive marriage) I reside in Buffalo & i spoke with several attorneys locally but i did not feel that any of the local attorneys were able able to understand my situation. Some suggested that i locate my husband & each one of them wanted to start by identifying & listing the assets. Unsatisfied, i started looking for attorneys in NY city and I found Ms Brenner through Avvo. During the consultation she was extremely kind & understanding and agreed to take on my case. Ms Brenner helped me get divorce through publication and she / her team took care of everything. All i had to do was provide her with documentation. I am grateful to Ms Brenner for helping me get out of a sticky stressful situation. I would definitely recommend her to anybody in similar situation. Thank you, Ms Brenner.

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Practice areas

Divorce and separation

30%

Helping people get through the divorce and separation process as smoothly as possible using skill, customized support, understanding, and psychological insight from start to finish.

42 years, 500 cases
Family

20%

All types of family law matters – from separation and divorce to child custody and prenuptial agreements. Regardless of the unique legal challenges you face, these can be handled with a unique psychological understanding and compassionate support.
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42 years, 400 cases
Marriage and prenuptials

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Over 40 years of helping couples navigate the emotional and economic issues of pre/postnuptial agreements. We ensure that you will start your marriage off on a solid foundation.

42 years, 300 cases
Mediation

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In a good mediation, a couple’s relationship and the way it affects their family can actually be improved. Many times, they are better equipped to go on with their lives and effectively co-parent their children after divorce. Mediation takes less time, less money, and a lot less stress.
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42 years, 300 cases
Estate planning

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In the eyes of the law, you are legally married until a judge signs your final divorce decree. Making sure your estate ends up in the right hands can be achieved through estate planning and a well-drafted separation agreement.
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42 years, 250 cases
Uncontested divorce

5%

In an uncontested divorce, both parties have, by themselves and without help from the court, worked out the important issues involved in their divorce. However, consulting an attorney is recommended, particularly because of the unique procedures that must take place for the final judgment of divorce to be approved by the court.
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42 years, 300 cases

35 YEARS' EXPERIENCE/ PSYCHOLOGICALLY-TRAINED DIVORCE ATTORNEY/CREATOR OF LEGAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL DIVORCE SYSTEM THAT SAVES TIME AND MONEY. OUR FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS ARE STILL AVAILABLE VIRTUALLY.

Our FREE 1 HOUR CONSULTATIONS are still available virtually.

Lois Brenner is a Divorce Attorney for over 35 years, an accredited mediator, and a licensed psychologically trained medical professional.

From Ms. Brenner's years as a corporate attorney with Sullivan and Cromwell she is experienced in discreetly handling the assets and business interests of high net worth divorce clients.

To add to her already impressive credentials, Lois Brenner is a licensed and registered Physician Assistant with psychological training. This rare combination of legal and medical skills gives her the tools to guide couples towards the right divorce process. Based on the psychological dynamics of their marriage Lois Brenner helps couples navigate whether Litigation, Mediation or Negotiation is right for them.

Lois Brenner is a Speaker, Expert Guest and Author of "Getting Your Share," a book on divorce published by Crown. (available on ) She has written for and has been quoted by The New York Times and New York Magazine.

Lois Brenner has been interviewed on national television programs such as Oprah, Good Morning America and CNN as a family law expert. Ms. Brenner is in private practice with offices in New York and Connecticut.

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Lois M. Brenner, Esq.

(844) 382-8288 Office

12 East 86th Street

Suite 1230

New York, NY, 10028-0515

divorcelawyerny.com/

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Posted by J N | September 7, 2022

Mrs. Brenner has been an Angel for me

I have hired Mrs. Brenner, and had the best experience with her in my complicated and intense divorce. She was there for me all the way, always answering promptly any questions i had. She gave me the best advice, in such a caring and kind way. She has a amazing team of specialist, that will cover any needs you might have. I highly recommend Mrs Brenner, you can feel she’s got your back!

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Posted by anonymous | August 28, 2022

Divorce through publication

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Posted by Maeve | October 27, 2021

Excellent mediator: Genuine, sensitive, and thorough

Lois acted as the mediator in my divorce, and she was absolutely excellent. It was a very difficult time for me personally, but Lois made the process as easy and painless as it could possibly have been. She listened to each of us separately, and made thoughtful and helpful suggestions. She is fair, and seemed to genuinely care about finding a solution that was best for both parties. Lois is perfectly qualified to handle this type of situation, given her background in psychology. She truly understands people, and used this ability to keep my ex-husband and I calm, and smoothly navigate a few tricky situations. I felt very understood by Lois, and think that she not just a top-quality attorney, but also a very decent person. She is responsive, and answered my emails within a couple of minutes every time. Highly rated!

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Posted by anonymous | October 13, 2021

Personable and thorough in a free consultation

It was so unexpected to receive a free consultation from a lawyer. Lois answered so many questions and extended guidance in a 15min call. She wasn't trying to sell her service rather offer guidance and next steps. Should I be unable to resolve my divorce amicably with my spouse, I would be at ease hiring her.

Posted by anonymous | October 9, 2021

Professional Job

Lois took care of my divorce issue in a very professional way. She was patient with me,and only looked out for my benefits and the benefits of my kid. I needed a paper that I need to send back home 3 years after the divorce and she took care of it at no charge. Don't miss miss Brenner, one of the best lawyer/ Mediator in NYC

Posted by anonymous | September 4, 2021

Quick and Thorough

I used Lois for a prenup agreement. She listened to what I needed and delivered quickly and efficiently. It was easy to get a hold of her whenever I needed her.

Posted by SC | January 15, 2021

Lois is the absolute best

Connecting with Lois was the best thing that could have happened during what has been very difficult and fraught divorce. Lois took on my case with knowledge, wisdom and care that have been above and beyond in every way. She recognized abusive and unstable behavior in my ex-husband, and offered both strong legal guidance, as well as personal encouragement and strength to stand up to him. Her support has been invaluable to me, and I am so deeply grateful for everything she has done in helping forge a better more stable future for me and for my son.

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Posted by anonymous | January 15, 2021

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Compassionate and understanding. Settles issues with humanity and empathy combined with exceptional legal mind. Highly recommend

Posted by Christina | August 10, 2020

Wonderful Divorce Lawyer

My divorce was very stressful time. Since we were able to agree with my ex-husband on many important issues I originally thought that I will be able to fill in all the necessary documents by myself. It turned out that it is nearly impossible task. The amount of paperwork was overwhelming! I was not happy with some lawyers I've approached - too expensive, too impersonal, too aggressive. When I met Lois everything changed. For very reasonable price she was able to help us - talked to both of us, gave us great suggestions. Everything went extremely well. It was quick and painless. We could not thank her enough!

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Posted by Douglas | July 31, 2020

The "BEST" Attorneys!

Lois Brenner, her colleagues, team of experts and staff are phenominal. I hired them to help me to see my son who had been taken out of state by my wife during this insane pandemic. She decided to take him to stay with family but then she sideswiped me with a divorce. I was devastated. Lois Brenner and her litigation partner fought for me and made it possible for me to see my son. They are handling my divorce now and their strength and support is getting me through a really tough time. They are smart, tough and highly experienced.

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Posted by Bea | July 30, 2020

Outstanding Attorney, Mediator, and Medical Professional

Lois Brenner has been a gift to my family. She encouraged us to try mediation even though we were very angry. She helped us save thousands of dollars in attorney fees and helped us arrive at a fair settlement. She was patient and helped us talk to each other about all the issues. Lois Brenner gave us creative solutions so we could keep our home. She even helped my husband with his depression by introducing him to a psychologist. I could go on and on... If you need a kind, strong, smart divorce attorney- hire her. It's the best thing we did! Thank you Lois

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Posted by anonymous | May 15, 2020

A skilled and caring Lawyer

I was dealing with an amicable relocating agreement, which turned sour. The father who allowed me at first to relocate abroad with our daughter decided at the end to make it difficult. Miss Brenner intervene to protect and defend my rights when it was needed. She understood my challenges and uplifted and guided me through the process of having this agreement signed without losing my sanity. She is fair. I am now able to travel with our daughter feeling protected with this document signed and I am able to start a better life where my family is. I would never thank her enough for guiding me through this dark tunnel I was in. I will never recommend her enough. She went beyond and called me to guide me on what the next steps could be, specific to my life situation, after she has helped me settle this agreement. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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Posted by anonymous | October 30, 2019

Best decision yet for mediation

Lois was the best choice to help us through my difficult situation. She helped guide me through mediation and helped avoid entering a divorce, which could have become costly and very ugly. She was kind, calm, compassionate, and most of all - neutral and unbiased towards either of us, even though she was chosen by my ex. Lois’ small team is wonderful and easy to work with, and very responsive. I’d highly recommend her for any couples considering mediation instead of divorce. It saved me a ton of money, trouble, and unnecessary suffering.

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Posted by Gina | October 16, 2019

Can't wait to get married!

I met Lois Brenner a few months ago. I told her I was getting married and wanted to protect my assets and an inheritance I will receive from my parents in Brazil. She treated me like family, taking me under her wing, and guiding me on what to do. I was struggling with my heart and my mind. I was afraid my fiance would be angry about a prenuptial agreement and not want to marry me. Ms. Brenner advised me on how to approach him. It turned out he understood and still wanted to marry me. Ms. Brenner was really a comfort and developed a fair, responsible agreement which my fiance did sign. This was a very good experience for me. Thank you Ms. Brenner. I am so grateful.

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Posted by Sam | January 16, 2019

Warrior for Men

When I first decided to hire a divorce attorney, I thought a male attorney would be best. Lois Brenner really surprised me. Although she has written a divorce book on women’s rights, she is totally an advocate for men as well. She really understood how much I loved my kids, and listened and understood all the horrible things my wife was doing to destroy their relationship with me. She didn’t miss a beat and really went to bat for me. She reached out to my wife’s attorney every time my wife made any attempt to disrupt my visiting our kids and always demanded the best results. She made herself available, even when she was on vacation! Lois has been there every step of the way in these difficult circumstances. I highly recommend her.

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Posted by Tanya | January 15, 2019

Happily Married!

Thanks to Lois Brenner our wedding went well because we had our prenuptial agreement in place. We literally had her draft our prenuptial agreement 2 weeks before our wedding. She was thorough, made suggestions to include things we hadn’t even thought of, and got it done really quickly. Thanks Lois :)

Posted by anonymous | January 7, 2019

BEST DECISION I EVER MADE!

My husband decided to leave me for the personal assistant who had been working in my home for three years. I found out by a text message. I felt like an idiot! I was devastated and a friend suggested I look on Avvo for a divorce attorney. I saw Lois Brenner's photo and her kind face. I decided to read her reviews and I was hooked. I called her on a Sunday and I had an appointment the next day. She took me under her wing, kind of like a mother. She couldn't have been nicer. I was a mess! She told me how to pull it together and promised I would get what I needed in order to move on with my life. She was right. She did everything she could to get me out of the mess I was in. She even helped me get a job eventually, since I had been out of the workforce raising two children. She fought to get me everything my children and I would need to continue our lives. She never rested and was always one step ahead of the other lawyer. Hiring her to negotiate my divorce was the best decision I ever made. I am eternally grateful!

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Posted by Sam | January 6, 2019

Caring, Strong, Smart Attorney

I am an avid reviewer of all things, especially the divorce attorney I was going to use. Lois Brenner’s reviews are great, but she’s even better than everything I read. Divorce is a battle field. I didn’t want a battle, but my wife did. Lois Brenner actually showed my wife, after a few meetings, that divorce didn’t have to be an exhausting, expensive fight. She helped us work out all our issues, agree on splitting finances, and helped us create a really healthy visitation schedule with our children. We can’t thank her enough for everything she did. It’s rare to find an attorney that cares that much about her clients. It was an outstanding experience working with her. I won’t say my wife and I are the best of friends, but we are getting along a lot better now that we are divorced. Lois you are Lit!

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Posted by Bridget | January 3, 2019

Compassionate Miracle Worker!!

I didn't think I would ever get divorced. I was happily married for 25 years, ( or so I thought) and all of s sudden my husband wanted out. I was devastated until I met Lois Brenner. Her psychological training and compassionate heart helped me move through the pain and focus on my financial future. She negotiated an excellent settlement for me, and it was way beyond what I expected, or thought I was entitled to. I would highly recommend Lois Brenner to any woman looking for a compassionate, yet strong and seasoned attorney.

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Posted by Slavik | January 3, 2019

A FEMALE ATTORNEY WHO FIGHTS FOR DADS

I can finally breathe because my attorney Lois Brenner fought for me and my child. She understood how important it was for me to have a relationship with my daughter. My wife was lying to everyone about me and turning everyone against me. She claimed I was a bad parent, and I wasn’t, she was just angry because I didn’t love her anymore. Lois Brenner heard me out, took my case, brought in a child psychologist, and other experts to support my case. I am finally divorced, can spend quality time with my child, and without supervised visitation. I had lost hope until I found Ms. Brenner. She was the second attorney I hired. The first attorney didn’t get me or my case. Don’t stop fighting for your children. If you need an attorney who will fully support you as you battle your spouse and the courts - call her. She will help you!

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AVVO RATING 10.0 (Superb)

Work Experience

Owner
Lois M. Brenner, Esq.
1994 - Present

Physician Assistant
Medical Practice
2006 - 2015

Court Appointed Mediator in Complicated Cases
The New York Supreme Court
1994 - 2015

Divorce Attorney - Head of Matrimonial Law Dept.
Herzfeld & Rubin
1986 - 1994

Corporate Attorney
Sidamon-Eristoff, Morrison
1983 - 1985

Attorney
Sullivan & Cromwell
1980 - 1982

CEO
Plink Plunk, Inc.
1969 - 1976

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Education

Hofstra University
PA Degree
2006

Pace University School of Law
JD - Juris Doctor
1980

New York University Stern Graduate School of Business
1980

University of Rochester
BA - Bachelor of Arts
1964

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Legal Cases

W v A
Successful

U v U
Successful

G v G
Successful

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Associations

Family and Divorce Mediation Council
Accredited Mediator
2015 - Present

New York State PA Association
NYSSPA
2007 - Present

Association of Family Practice Physician Assistants
Licensed and Registered Physician Assistant
2006 - Present

New York State Bar Association
Member
1985 - Present

Association of the Bar of New York City
Member
1985 - Present

New York Women's Bar Association
Member Family Law Committee
1985 - Present

New York State Trial Lawyers Association
Member
1985 - Present

American Bar Association
Member
N/A

Association of Trial Lawyers of America
Member
N/A

New York State Trial Lawyers Association
Executive Committee
2010 - 2012

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Languages Spoken

English

French

Honors and Awards

Best Lawyer
Expertise
2020

Listing
Martindale-Hubbell
2016

Court Appointed Mediator in Complicated Cases
New York Supreme Court
1994

Mediation Expert
Saratoga
1994

Best Attorneys in NYS
New York State Bar Association
1994

WQXR Talent in Our Schools
WQXR
1981

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Publications

Brides.com
Considering a Prenup? Here’s Everything You Need to Know
2020

Blog
Divorce and Taxes - What You Need to Know
2016

Blog
Navigating the Divorce Process - Divorce Options
2016

Divorce without Lawyers
Divorce without Lawyers
2015

Bride's Magazine
Marriage
1991

Penguin
Getting Your Share
1991

New Women
Prenuptial Agreements
1990

New York Times
Comment on Matrimonial Litigation
1989

New Woman
Divorce and Separation
1989

Fortune
Divorce and Separation
1988

New York Magazine
Divorce
1986

Pace Law Review
Attorneys Fees
1980

ELLE
Divorce
N/A

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Speaking Engagements

Alliance Bernstein
Prenuptual Agreements and Psychologicaly Infused Divorce Mediation Methods
2019

92Y
What you need to know about property and support if you are getting a divorce
2018

Love, Marriage, Divorce: Navigating Together with Communication, Compromise, and Resilience for a Successful Outcome
Marriage & Divorce
2017

Postnuptial Agreement seminar
Postnuptial Agreements
2016

Divorce Center
What you need to know about property and support if you are getting a divorce
2016

Divorce Center
Mediation
2016

Divorce seminar
High Net Worth Divorce
2015

Radio WOR
Divorce and Separation
2004

Your Divorce
Psychology and Divorce
2000

Judith Kuriansky
Psychology of DIvorce
1994

Radio
Money and Divorce
1989

Oprah Show
Divorce
N/A

Ken Dolan Radio
Property Settlements
N/A

Good Morning America
Divorce
N/A

CNN
Divorce
N/A

Bernard Meltzer
Spousal Support
N/A

92nd Y
Divorce Litigation
N/A

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Attorney endorsements

Received (9)

Given (22)

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Richard Cutler

Divorce and separation Attorney | Aug 06
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lois is caring, completely capable professional with a focus on reducing hostility and producing reasonable agreement."

Appen Menon

Divorce and separation Attorney | Jun 09
Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

Donald Wolfson

Family Attorney | Jun 09
Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. Lois is a very talented and creative lawyer."

Ruchi Thaker

Divorce and separation Attorney | Sep 24
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Lois has extensive experience in her field and knows what she's doing. Her clients have nothing but the nicest things to say about her! I would not hesitate referring a client to her."

David Turchi

Divorce and separation Attorney | Sep 14
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I strongly endorse Ms. Brenner. She is an excellent advocate and counselor. She has tremendous experience in handling divorce matters and is able to address the most complex issues."

Ira Stechel

Divorce and separation Attorney | Aug 16
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lois Brenner, with whom I have worked on numerous cases, gets excellent results because of her intelligence and experience. She is a great strategist and, through her medical training, brings psychological insight to her cases. Lois is unique among her peers."

Olga Arandia

Family Attorney | Jul 31
Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Lois is a qualified attorney who can get past the menutia and focus on the issues. In matrimonial cases this is not only welcomed but appreciated, The goal is not to drag your clients through unnesessary litigation and blow through whatever savings they have. Lois embraces this school of thought while at the same time being a formidable adversary. Lois is not game player and I not only appreciate that but welcome any future cases with her as my adversary."

Phyllis Solomon

Divorce and separation Attorney | May 19
Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. She is smart, and knows how to resolve a case in a way that is best for all involved."

Frasilie Stinvil

Family Attorney | Mar 25
Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I have had the wonderful opportunity to work with Lois. She is very competent, professional, and she clearly cares about doing a good job for her clients, while saving them unnecessary litigation and unnecessary legal fees. She is a top notch attorney!"

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