Lois Margaret Brenner

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Lois Margaret Brenner

5.0
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 44 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at New York, NY
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Family, Mediation ... +3 more

12 East 86th Street, Suite 1230, New York, NY

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About Lois

Biography

35+ Years’ Experience Psychologically Trained Divorce Attorney/Mediator. We Save You Money and Keep You Out of Court in Tough Financial Times. Call Now for a Free Consultation

35 years' experience/ psychologically-trained divorce attorney/creator of legal/psychological divorce system that saves time and money. Free 1 hour consultation

35 years' experience/ psychologically-trained divorce attorney/creator of legal/psychological divorce system that saves time and money. Free 1 hour consultation

35 years' experience/ psychologically-trained divorce attorney/creator of legal/psychological divorce system that saves time and money. Free 1 hour consultation

35 years' experience/ psychologically-trained divorce attorney/creator of legal/psychological divorce system that saves time and money. Free 1 hour consultation

35 years' experience/ psychologically-trained divorce attorney/creator of legal/psychological divorce system that saves time and money. Free 1 hour consultation

Practice Areas

6

Practice Areas

Divorce and Separation 30%

Helping people get through the divorce and separation process as smoothly as possible using skill, customized support, understanding, and psychological insight from start to finish.

45 years | 500 cases

30%
Family 20%

All types of family law matters – from separation and divorce to child custody and prenuptial agreements. Regardless of the unique legal challenges you face, these can be handled with a unique psychological understanding and compassionate support.

45 years | 400 cases

20%
Marriage and Prenuptials 20%

Over 40 years of helping couples navigate the emotional and economic issues of pre/postnuptial agreements. We ensure that you will start your marriage off on a solid foundation.

45 years | 300 cases

20%
Mediation 20%

In a good mediation, a couple’s relationship and the way it affects their family can actually be improved. Many times, they are better equipped to go on with their lives and effectively co-parent their children after divorce. Mediation takes less time, less money, and a lot less stress.

45 years | 300 cases

20%
Estate Planning 5%

In the eyes of the law, you are legally married until a judge signs your final divorce decree. Making sure your estate ends up in the right hands can be achieved through estate planning and a well-drafted separation agreement.

45 years | 250 cases

5%
Uncontested Divorce 5%

In an uncontested divorce, both parties have, by themselves and without help from the court, worked out the important issues involved in their divorce. However, consulting an attorney is recommended, particularly because of the unique procedures that must take place for the final judgment of divorce to be approved by the court.

45 years | 300 cases

5%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Free Consultation

$0 first 60 minutes


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

Licenses

Licensed in New York for 44 years

State: New York

Acquired: 1981

Currently Registered

No misconduct found

Location

Lois M. Brenner, Esq.

12 East 86th Street, Suite 1230, New York, NY, 10028-0515

divorcelawyerny.com/

Online Presence

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Lois Margaret Brenner's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

5.0 /5.0

60 Client Reviews

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Showing 1 - 5 of 11 reviews | Family

Posted by anonymous | July 09, 2020 | Hired Attorney | Family

A skilled and caring Lawyer

I was dealing with an amicable relocating agreement, which turned sour. The father who allowed me at first to relocate abroad with our daughter decided at the end to make it difficult. Miss Brenner intervene to protect and defend my rights when it was needed. She understood my challenges and uplift...ed and guided me through the process of having this agreement signed without losing my sanity. She is fair. I am now able to travel with our daughter feeling protected with this document signed and I am able to start a better life where my family is. I would never thank her enough for guiding me through this dark tunnel I was in. I will never recommend her enough. She went beyond and called me to guide me on what the next steps could be, specific to my life situation, after she has helped me settle this agreement. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Posted by Gina | October 17, 2019 | Hired Attorney | Family

Can't wait to get married!

I met Lois Brenner a few months ago. I told her I was getting married and wanted to protect my assets and an inheritance I will receive from my parents in Brazil. She treated me like family, taking me under her wing, and guiding me on what to do. I was struggling with my heart and my mind. I was afra...id my fiance would be angry about a prenuptial agreement and not want to marry me. Ms. Brenner advised me on how to approach him. It turned out he understood and still wanted to marry me. Ms. Brenner was really a comfort and developed a fair, responsible agreement which my fiance did sign. This was a very good experience for me. Thank you Ms. Brenner. I am so grateful.

Posted by Slavik | January 03, 2019 | Hired Attorney | Family

A FEMALE ATTORNEY WHO FIGHTS FOR DADS

I can finally breathe because my attorney Lois Brenner fought for me and my child. She understood how important it was for me to have a relationship with my daughter. My wife was lying to everyone about me and turning everyone against me. She claimed I was a bad parent, and I wasn’t, she was just ang...ry because I didn’t love her anymore. Lois Brenner heard me out, took my case, brought in a child psychologist, and other experts to support my case. I am finally divorced, can spend quality time with my child, and without supervised visitation. I had lost hope until I found Ms. Brenner. She was the second attorney I hired. The first attorney didn’t get me or my case. Don’t stop fighting for your children. If you need an attorney who will fully support you as you battle your spouse and the courts - call her. She will help you!

Posted by David | December 11, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Family

REALLY IMPRESSED!!

My wife and I were really impressed with Lois Brenner's mediation process. It made things so much easier since we wanted to end our 20 year marriage with as little pain as possible. She really listened, helped us listen to each other, and showed us it's never too late to learn how to communicate. I r...eally didn't think mediation would work, but I was wrong. I do think however her mediation skills and compassion had a lot to do with it. Her medical training was impressive too and her input on my drinking and its impact on our marriage was spot on. She recommended a really great therapist and I am finally in AA and receiving the help I need. My wife and I are now able to move on with our lives because of her help. I highly recommend her!!

Posted by Joseph | April 04, 2018 | Hired Attorney | Family

Inventive Attorney

We have Lois Brenner to thank for turning our marriage around. We hired Lois as our mediator when we were considering divorce. When we started working with her and she realized we wanted to try to keep our marriage together she suggested a postnuptial agreement to get our marriage back on track. Hav...ing the postnuptial agreement made us both accountable when it came to our issues. Having this doc in place is clearly helping us redefine our marriage in a better way. I don’t know if we will never get divorced, but for now we are respecting each others’ boundaries and are aware of the consequences if we don’t! It was really cool that Ms. Brenner suggested this method as an option. Most divorce attorneys would not have suggested a way for us to try to stay together. She is very talented and unusual in the best possible way. If we choose to take the divorce path eventually we will definitely hire her again. In the meantime we are making it work. She is amazing.

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Lois Margaret Brenner's Lawyer Endorsements

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Richard Cutler

Divorce and separation lawyer | Aug 06

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lois is caring, completely capable professional with a focus on reducing hostility and producing reasonable agreement."

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Appen Menon

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jun 09

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Donald Wolfson

Family lawyer | Jun 09

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. Lois is a very talented and creative lawyer."

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Ruchi Thaker

Divorce and separation lawyer | Sep 24

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Lois has extensive experience in her field and knows what she's doing. Her clients have nothing but the nicest things to say about her! I would not hesitate referring a client to her."

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David Turchi

Divorce and separation lawyer | Sep 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I strongly endorse Ms. Brenner. She is an excellent advocate and counselor. She has tremendous experience in handling divorce matters and is able to address the most complex issues."

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Ira Stechel

Divorce and separation lawyer | Aug 16

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Lois Brenner, with whom I have worked on numerous cases, gets excellent results because of her intelligence and experience. She is a great strategist and, through her medical training, brings psychological insight to her cases. Lois is unique among her peers."

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Olga Arandia

Family lawyer | Jul 31

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Lois is a qualified attorney who can get past the menutia and focus on the issues. In matrimonial cases this is not only welcomed but appreciated, The goal is not to drag your clients through unnesessary litigation and blow through whatever savings they have. Lois embraces this school of thought while at the same time being a formidable adversary. Lois is not game player and I not only appreciate that but welcome any future cases with her as my adversary."

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Phyllis Solomon

Divorce and separation lawyer | May 19

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. She is smart, and knows how to resolve a case in a way that is best for all involved."

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Frasilie Stinvil

Family lawyer | Mar 25

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I have had the wonderful opportunity to work with Lois. She is very competent, professional, and she clearly cares about doing a good job for her clients, while saving them unnecessary litigation and unnecessary legal fees. She is a top notch attorney!"

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2020

Best Lawyer, Expertise

2016

Listing, Martindale-Hubbell

1994

Court Appointed Mediator in Complicated Cases, New York Supreme Court

1994

Mediation Expert, Saratoga

1994

Best Attorneys in NYS, New York State Bar Association

1981

WQXR Talent in Our Schools, WQXR

Work Experience

1994 - Present

Owner, Lois M. Brenner, Esq.

2006 - 2015

Physician Assistant, Medical Practice

1994 - 2015

Court Appointed Mediator in Complicated Cases, The New York Supreme Court

1986 - 1994

Divorce Attorney - Head of Matrimonial Law Dept., Herzfeld & Rubin

1983 - 1985

Corporate Attorney, Sidamon-Eristoff, Morrison

1980 - 1982

Attorney, Sullivan & Cromwell

1969 - 1976

CEO, Plink Plunk, Inc.

Associations

2015 - Present

Family and Divorce Mediation Council

Accredited Mediator

2007 - Present

New York State PA Association

NYSSPA

2006 - Present

Association of Family Practice Physician Assistants

Licensed and Registered Physician Assistant

1985 - Present

New York State Bar Association

Member

1985 - Present

Association of the Bar of New York City

Member

1985 - Present

New York Women's Bar Association

Member Family Law Committee

1985 - Present

New York State Trial Lawyers Association

Member

American Bar Association

Member

Association of Trial Lawyers of America

Member

2010 - 2012

New York State Trial Lawyers Association

Executive Committee

Sample of Legal Cases

W v A

Successful

U v U

Successful

G v G

Successful

S v S

Successful

Anonymous v Anonymous

Custody for father

P.v. P

all in favor of our client

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Education

2006

Hofstra University

PA Degree

1980

Pace University School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

1980

New York University Stern Graduate School of Business

1964

University of Rochester

BA - Bachelor of Arts

Speaking Engagements

2025

New York Women's Bar Association, Family Law Committee

2025 Attendee and Participant in New York Women's Bar Association, Family Law Committee Meetings

2019

Alliance Bernstein

Prenuptual Agreements and Psychologicaly Infused Divorce Mediation Methods

2018

92Y

What you need to know about property and support if you are getting a divorce

2017

Love, Marriage, Divorce: Navigating Together with Communication, Compromise, and Resilience for a Successful Outcome

Marriage & Divorce

2016

Postnuptial Agreement seminar

Postnuptial Agreements

2016

Divorce Center

What you need to know about property and support if you are getting a divorce

2016

Divorce Center

Mediation

2015

Divorce seminar

High Net Worth Divorce

2004

Radio WOR

Divorce and Separation

2000

Your Divorce

Psychology and Divorce

1994

Judith Kuriansky

Psychology of DIvorce

1989

Radio

Money and Divorce

N/A

Oprah Show Divorce

N/A

Ken Dolan Radio

Property Settlements

N/A

Good Morning America Divorce

N/A

CNN Divorce

N/A

Bernard Meltzer

Spousal Support

N/A

92nd Y

Divorce Litigation

Publications

2015

Divorce without Lawyers Divorce without Lawyers

1991

Bride's Magazine Marriage

1991

Penguin Getting Your Share

1990

New Women Prenuptial Agreements

1989

New York Times Comment on Matrimonial Litigation

1989

New Woman Divorce and Separation

1988

Fortune Divorce and Separation

1986

New York Magazine Divorce

1980

Pace Law Review Attorneys Fees

N/A

ELLE Divorce

Languages

English

French

Activity

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