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Heather A. O'Connor

Divorce and separation Attorney at Westborough, MA

5.0   14 reviews

also known as Heather OConnor, Heather Rowland

  • State Years
    Rhode Island - RI 11 years
    Massachusetts - MA 12 years
  • Licensed for 11 years
    State RI
    Acquired 2012
    Status
    Active No misconduct found
  • Licensed for 12 years
    State MA
    Acquired 2011
    Status
    Active No misconduct found

We have not found any instances of professional misconduct for this lawyer.

About Heather

Learn Heather’s areas of practice.

4
Practice areas
  1. Divorce and separation
    55%
    We ensure our clients do not get screwed during a divorce when a spouse has control issues, is abusive, or is willing to lie or manipulate the court system.

    10 years

  2. Child custody
    25%
    We protect your relationship with your children now and in the future with a focus on cases involving parental alienation.

    10 years

  3. Family
    15%
    Aggressively fight acts of parental alienation where you are being cut off from your children.

    10 years

  4. Criminal defense
    5%
    We fight fraudulently filed restraining orders and Domestic A&B charges that were obtained only to get an upper-hand in a divorce or custody dispute. We also help true victims of abuse obtain restraining orders.

    10 years

O'Connor Family Law is the firm you want on your side in any family-law issue. Heather O'Connor ensures each case that comes in is run just as though she is the lead attorney on the case.  The associates are all compassionate and empathetic because Attorney O'Connor understands first-hand the emotional roller coaster experienced during these difficult times and no person who retains O'Connor Family Law will ever be just a "case."  This firm prides itself on being upfront and truthful regarding the difficulties of any given case - you will not hear simply what you want to hear with this firm - you will hear what you need to hear to enable you to get the best result possible. 

Our attorneys are all superb negotiators, which is important as the majority of family law issues reach settlement without going to trial; yet, she will argue zealously before a judge for her client's rights if a fair settlement cannot be reached.

She passionately represents her clients through all family-law proceedings, whether it's divorce (same-sex or opposite-sex, military or civilian), child support, child custody/visitation (parenting plan), alimony, DOR issues, parental alienation, paternity, prenuptial agreements, contempt and enforcement, father's rights, grandparent's rights, mother's rights, relocation issues, and restraining orders.

 O'Connor Family Law has attorneys who are licensed to practice law both in Massachusetts and Rhode Island.  The main office is in Westborough, but the firm has opened another office in Hanover, Massachusetts. 

This firm works as a team, and our team's focus is always on providing YOU with the best representation possible at all times. 

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O'Connor Family Law
45 Lyman Street
Suite 2, Terrace South
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Posted by HeatherClickner | October 31, 2016
This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.
| Consulted Attorney
Amazing and caring attorney
Heather is a dedicated and caring attorney that will advocate for you in a zealous manner. She will be sure to give you the personal attention you deserve and will guide you through the legal process associated with either a custody or divorce matter. I have known Heather for seven years and she continues to amaze me with her successes. As an attorney myself, I would trust Heather to handle my own personal matters,
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Posted by anonymous | October 7, 2016
This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.
| Consulted Attorney
Excellent!
Heather is brilliant. Her advice has been invaluable. She has an enormous heart and truly cares about people.
Response from Heather O'Connor October 19, 2016
I am glad I was able to help, although I haven't been able to figure out who may have written this and how I helped. lol Thank you so much for the compliment. I love what I do, so I'm thrilled to hear that my passion for working in the family law arena comes across to people I speak to! If there's anything else you ever need, please feel free to reach out.
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Posted by Beth | August 19, 2016
This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.
| Consulted Attorney
Consulting attorney
I worked with Heather as the attorney for one of the parents in a very difficult reunification case. She was meticulous in her work with the family. She was respectful of both sides. She was professional at all times and honest in court. She worked well with me when I was presenting recommendations as the reunification therapist and would speak to her client when I felt that her client may have been adding to the conflict.
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Response from Heather O'Connor August 25, 2016
Thank you, Beth. It was a pleasure working with you as well. You did a great job in a very difficult case. =)
Posted by Jim | July 1, 2016
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
Miracle
When I met Heather my ex had a restraining order on me, which she was manipulating to extort money, and she had my three children alienated from me. I felt helpless. Heather immediately got the restraining order thrown out and helped me rebuild my relationship with my kids. I am now back in my marital with full custody of my kids. Thank you, Heather!
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Response from Heather O'Connor July 8, 2016
Thank you so much! It was an absolute pleasure working with you and I couldn't have accomplished what I did if you weren't such a genuinely good guy. It really was my honor to represent you. Best of luck in the future! Hopefully you'll never need me again! =)
Posted by raymond | April 9, 2016
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
1 word AWSOME!!!!!!!!!!!!
She did an excellent job with a support modification, and was amazing in court!! I would definitely recommend her to anyone going through what I went through!!thanks and gain Heather!!!
Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Thanks, Raymond! It was a pleasure working with you and getting you the outcome you were hoping for. Best of luck in the future to you and your daughter!
Posted by James | March 17, 2016
This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.
| Consulted Attorney
Professional and seeks the truth
Attorney O'Connor was called in my existing case. She was brought up to speed and with my other attorney, Craig SIlverman, they came up with a clear and concise strategy. She immediately found issues with the most recent filing, said that this was horribably done and most of all concerned for my children. She stated this not only affects me but ultimately affects my children. With her expertise working with my attorney they complied and presented a solid defense and path forward to restore rights. Attorney O'Connor is a professional and compassionate attorney. She will fight for your children's rights and yours. Attorney O'Connor is someone you need on your team when you have a complex case, she is not afraid.
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
James, Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm glad we were able to turn things around for you. (I love working with Craig too!) Dealing with the issues that you face in your case can become very hard emotionally for the parent for many reasons, but I think you're a wonderful father and I look forward to seeing you and your daughter happy again!
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Posted by Alan | March 9, 2016
This review is from a potential client who consulted with this attorney.
| Consulted Attorney
Highly Recommended
I contacted Heather asking about a consultation regarding a very stressful matter I was dealing with. She was extremely proactive, helpful and gave excellent advice. Thank you!
Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Alan, It was a pleasure speaking with you. Thank you for your kind words. Best of luck to you and your family in the future!
Posted by Emanuel Ferreira | October 24, 2015
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
Attorney O'Connor
When I first met with Heather O'Connor, she was exactly what people explained her as. Heather is straight-forward with her work, and made me feel more confident in winning my court case. She listened and heard through everything I was to say to her, stood in constant contact with me, dealt with my emotions, and was able to get me through everything. Heather always strove for the best and was very meticulous which I greatly admired. She also displayed aggression in court in the way where if another offer was made, she would disagree and stick to her decision. Heather O'Connor knew what was right and being aggressive proved to me that she wanted to win and highly cared for my case. I thank Attorney O'Connor and would most definitely recommend her to anyone in need.
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Manny, I'm glad you were referred to me and we had the opportunity (or opportunities now) to work together! Your girls are amazing, and I'm glad I was able to be part of your journey in keeping them safe. Thank you so much for your kind words!
Posted by anonymous | October 14, 2015
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
You need to hire her, like yesterday . Shes that good..
I will be totally honest with you when I contacted Heather O'Connor I was worried. You see, I hate lawyers. I have never once met one that I trusted and fired one that I had hired right in the middle of court even. WOW has my mindset changed. I contacted Heather about a case that is just , really somthing that belongs on Lifetime movie, ya know..the ones about the guy that lives in a different world then everyone else on earth? Anyhow our case was about jurisdiction/improper venue and let me tell you , Heather is AH-MAH-ZING. Not only did she constantly stay in touch with me, deal with my emotional moments, Heather kicked butt and won so our case will be heard in the state it should not Massachusetts. I read someone had said Heather was like a lion in court ready to pounce..that is so true. I really and truely think that when Heather walks into court somewhere in hell Satan shakes with fear. Heather stands up for what is right and wont blow smoke at you. She will tell you like it is and what you need to do. Honesty, Integrity and Badassery explains Heather A. O'Connor. If you want someone that means what she says call her ..seriously..call her now she is what I wish EVERY lawyer was. Just amazing and I seriously will never be able to thank her enough for honestly..saving my kids lives. THANK YOU HEATHER!!!!!!
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
I have to say, I got a kick out of your post. Love your sense of humor! I remember you saying this exact thing to me when I first spoke to you . . . "I hate lawyers." I was like, "Oh boy. Here we go." I'm so glad I was able to change your mind about that! I'm glad to have met you and fought for you and your children. Definitely keep me updated on how things go in your state! Thank you again for your kind words.
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Posted by Kristen | August 23, 2015
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
Attorney O'connor
Attorney O'connor is excellent !! After meeting with several attorneys I picked Heather because she really seemed to care. She made me feel involved during the whole process. She made a difficult time in my life a little more bearable. Excellent person inside and outside the courtroom. She fights for her clients.
Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Kristen, Thank you so much for your kind words! It was a pleasure working with you. I'm glad I was able to make the process a little easier for you, even though I know anytime court is involved, it's never easy. Best of luck to you and your family in the future!
Posted by Vicki | August 22, 2014
I would hire her again and will recommend her to everyone!
Ms. O'Connor is all about the details because that's what wins cases. Heather represented me in my divorce case and from the moment we first talked until the moment we went to court, she did not miss a single detail. My representation was far more superior than my ex-husbands. She won my case and made sure I was taken care of and not taken advantage of. Thank you, Heather.
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Vicki, Thank you for your kind words! It was a pleasure working with you and ensuring you received what you were entitled to. Best of luck in the future!
Posted by Bob | April 26, 2014
Like a lion
Heathers actions in court are much like a lion just waiting for the precise moment, to ponce on the prey ( opponent ) One innocent looking, but tough cookie who I would say usually gets her way !
Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Bob, Thank you for your analogy! This made me laugh because I can picture you saying this! I imagine it in a manner like how Bruno Tonioli (from Dancing With the Stars) would provide his feedback!
Posted by Brenda | April 4, 2014
Work Well Done
As a legal representative for child custody and child support, attorney Heather O'Connor did a great job. From the first day I talked to her and hired her, one could tell she was willing to listen and take into consideration every detail given to her to handle the case in the most proper way. Throughout the whole time working with her she was really attentive and responsive to my questions and concerns and is definitely someone who made sure my money was well and reasonably spent. Because I knew she was doing a great job, I recommended her to my best friend who also agreed and said that the services were great. She has great confidence and always speaks firmly with supporting evidence to prove herself right and legal represent you the best way possible. Don't miss out on her great service!
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Brenda, Thank you for your kind words! It was a pleasure working with you and ensuring that you and your child received what you needed. Thank you for the referral also! It was much appreciated. Best of luck to you and your family in the future!
Posted by Brian | January 6, 2014
Went to battle for my rights to my kids
Attorney O'Connor was the best in her representation of me for my child custody case. My ex was lying about everything and Attorney O'Connor really fought to make sure the truth came out. She's a great listener and she makes sure the work she does is important so she's not wasting money. I'll definitely go back to her any time I need help with my kids.
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Response from Heather O'Connor April 30, 2016
Brian, It was a pleasure working with you, and I'm always happy to uncover the truth in a case! Thank you so much for your kind words. Best of luck to you and your family in the future!
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Cost

Rates
  • Hourly Rates $ 185-550 per hour
Payment methods
Cash, Check, Credit Card

Resume

AVVO RATING 9.5 (Superb)

Work Experience

  • Family Law Attorney
  • O’Connor Family Law Firm
  • 2016 - Present
  • Attorney
  • Pollack Law Group, P.C.
  • 2013 - 2016
  • Judicial Clerk to Chief Justice Paul A. Suttell
  • Rhode Island Supreme Court
  • 2011 - 2013

Education

  • Roger Williams University School of Law
  • Juris Doctorate
  • 2011
  • University of Massachusetts, Dartmouth
  • BA - Bachelor of Arts
  • 2008

Legal Cases

  • Custody and Marital Home to Father
  • Sole custody to Father
  • Termination of Child Support
  • Termination of Child Support
  • Beat Restraining Order and Obtained Joint Custody
  • Shared legal and physical custody
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Associations

  • Rhode Island Bar Association
  • Member
  • 2011 - Present
  • Massachusetts Bar Association
  • Member
  • 2011 - Present

Languages Spoken

  • English

Honors and Awards

  • Top 40 Lawyers Under 40
  • American Society of Legal Advocates
  • 2016
  • Client's Choice
  • Avvo
  • 2016
  • Top 40 Lawyers Under 40
  • American Society of Legal Advocates
  • 2015
  • CALI Excellence for the Future Award
  • CALI
  • 2011
  • CALI Excellence for the Future Award
  • CALI
  • 2010
  • CALI Excellence for the Future Award
  • CALI
  • 2009
  • Summer Corps Standout Award
  • Equal Justice Works
  • 2009
  • Legal Intern Fellow Recipient 2009
  • Massachusetts Bar Foundation
  • 2009
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Publications

  • Roger Williams University Law Review
  • Developmental Editor
  • 2011
  • Roger Williams University Law Review
  • Developmental Editor
  • 2010

Speaking Engagements

  • Guest Speaker at CT PASI Monthly Meeting
  • Parental Alienation
  • 2017

Attorney endorsements

Received (19)
Given (24)
Endorse Heather
Family Attorney | Jun 29
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"As a Connecticut family law attorney, I refer my clients to Heather any time they need a Massachusetts family law attorney. She's both a zealous advocate and compassionate adviser, and clients always come away satisfied. I highly recommend her and her firm."
Unknown Attorney | Mar 13
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"An excellent lawyer who treats clients with patience, care, understanding, and utmost professionalism - an even better person and I wholeheartedly recommend for future services."
Unknown Attorney | Mar 09
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Feb 14
Relationship: Other
"Heather is a great attorney and is knowledgeable in her practice."
Family Attorney | Feb 06
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer. She is an integral part of the legal community and an asset to her clients."
Family Attorney | Feb 06
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse Ms. O'Connor."
Unknown Attorney | Oct 03
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer."
Family Attorney | Jul 12
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Heather tirelessly advocates unlike any other utilizing her expertise in Family Law to produce positive results for her clients."
Divorce and separation Attorney | Mar 22
Relationship: Co-worker
"Heather is a caring and zealous advocate for her clients. I have been greatly impressed by both the quality of her work product as well as her compassion for the client's situation. Heather has a genuine enthusiasm for every one of her clients and she fights to get the best possible outcome. I highly recommend Heather!"
Family Attorney | Aug 17
Relationship: Friend
"Attorney O'Connor is such a good family law attorney that when my family and friends need help with family law issues, I have them call Heather. She is extremely knowledgeable and cares about her clients. It is hard to find an attorney who will give you the empathetic hand that she provides. I highly recommend her for any family law issues."
Family Attorney | Jan 23
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Heather is one of the smartest, hardworking people I know. She is a top notch lawyer! She excels in everything she does and is a role model to others in the legal community."
Criminal defense Attorney | Oct 30
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"An outstanding lawyer! As a newer attorney, I often seek out Ms. O'Connor for her insights and advice when I am taking on more complex cases. Her experience and keen legal mind make her a true asset to the legal community. I am fortunate to be able to call her a mentor!"
Divorce and separation Attorney | Oct 15
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"Attorney O'Connor is who you need on a case if you are concerned about a dishonest spouse and/or issues relating to hidden assets, under-reported income, or even under-employment issues. She knows how to bring the proper evidence before the court and get the judge to see things HER way. If you retain her, you'll never have to worry about opposing counsel again!"
Family Attorney | Apr 29
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer. After reviewing several of Attorney O'Connor's responses to complicated legal matters it is clear that she has the utmost knowledge of the family law. She is a great asset to the Family Law bar and I wholeheartedly endorse her."
Family Attorney | Apr 28
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Heather has earned a great reputation in the legal community with her perseverance, attention to detail and desire to get positive outcomes for her clients. I'd highly recommend Attorney O'Connor for any family law needs in Massachusetts."
Family Attorney | Apr 11
Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter
"Heather was opposing counsel on a matter. She was very professional, courteous all the while zealously representing her client."
Family Attorney | Dec 18
Relationship: Friend
"Heather is a passionate and dedicated advocate. She is compassionate, focused, and always prepared. I would highly recommend this attorney."
Family Attorney | Oct 11
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse Ms. O'Connor. She is a former law clerk to the Rhode Island Supreme Court Chief Justice and is dedicated to her clients."
Family Attorney | Oct 07
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Heather is a passionate and highly skilled attorney. She is a zealous advocate on behalf of her clients. I endorse Heather as an asset to Avvo community."
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