I was once very happily married with five children. However, after 20 years, my marriage fell apart. My wife simply wanted out and Divorce (capital â€œDâ€) became our final destination. I wanted full custody of our children and believed it also to be in the best interest of the children.
While I believe that courts do put the interests of the children first, I believe they often interpret that to mean that â€˜momâ€™ gets custody. I went into my divorce expecting to lose my children amongst other things. As a man wanting full custody of his children, I knew I had an uphill battle to fight. I knew I needed an excellent lawyer to fight for me. And true or not, I believed that, if I had a male attorney represented me, it might somehow strengthen the â€˜victimâ€™ appearance of my soon to be ex-wife (i.e. two men bullying a â€˜poor, defenselessâ€™ woman trying to keep her kids). No doubt, I wanted a woman representing me in court.
When I first realized divorce was inevitable, I fully expected to lose my children and face financial ruin (as I expected my child support payments would be through the roof). Regardless, I did my research, talked to several attorneys, and ultimately, Anita Cutrer was my choice.
I have to say.. wow! I could not have been more pleased! She stood before the judge, fought for me and my children and won! As a man, I was awarded full custody of all five of my children. I have full right to claim child support from my ex (although I chose not to collect any monies from her), and I retained full ownership of my home.
I donâ€™t know the gentlemanâ€™s circumstances below. It sounded nothing like my experience. Perhaps there were other issues respective to his case or personal situation that influenced the judge to decide against him.
I just know that I am greatly in Anitaâ€™s debt. She and her staff were absolute stars. They worked with me through many details, were very open to my input and scored a major win for me and my children in the end. I could not have been more pleased with the results! Her hard work and diligence made the quality of my life - after marriage- so much better than others that have had similar experiences. I truly have a clean slate and a fresh start independent of the nagging control an ex can sometimes place in oneâ€™s life.
Divorce is a horrible thing. Find a way to stay married â€“ AT ALL COSTS - if you can. You will both be better off, and so will your children. If you have no other choice, I would give Anita Cutrer my highest recommendations to anyone in need of such services.
Best Wishes in your search