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also known as Hayden O. Lee
Hayden is Of Counsel with Hirsch & Ehlenberger, and is proud of his work helping individuals and their families.
Hayden is adept at resolving all types of family law and domestic relations disputes through negotiation, mediation, arbitration, and the Collaborative divorce process. When necessary, Hayden draws on extensive litigation experience and diligent preparation to provide effective advocacy in court.
Hayden has significant experience representing individuals in military divorces, international and multi-jurisdictional cases, high net worth disputes, contract enforcement and rescission disputes, custody disputes involving children with special needs or disabilities, cases involving parties with alcohol or substance abuse problems, as well as complicated equitable distribution and spousal support matters. He also frequently advises clients participating in mediation with third-party mediators.
Additionally, Hayden regularly prepares and negotiates prenuptial agreements for clients in Virginia and the District of Columbia.
Hayden has received accolades from clients and attorneys alike. He was selected to Super Lawyers in 2024 and 2025 – an accolate reserved for only 5% of attorneys – and was previously named as a Super Lawyers “Rising Star” from 2018 to 2022. He has also been rated “AV Preeminent” – the highest Martindale-Hubbell attorney rating for professional excellence – by fellow attorneys in Virginia and the District of Columbia.
Hayden has presented to other lawyers on issues such as trial preparation, client advocacy, and unique ethical issues in divorce cases.
He is currently the co-chair of the Fairfax County Circuit Court Domestic Relations Subcommittee, which works to improve family law court practice and procedure. He is also a former a board member of numerous bar groups, including the Fairfax Law Foundation, the Virginia Trial Lawyers Association (as former Chair of the Young Lawyers Division), the Collaborative Professionals of Northern Virginia, and the District of Columbia Academy of Collaborative Professionals.
Immediately after law school, Hayden was privileged to complete a one-year, full-time judicial clerkship for two Virginia Circuit Court judges. Since that time, Hayden has engaged exclusively in private practice.
Hayden was admitted to the Virginia State Bar in 2007 and the Bar of the District of Columbia in 2014. He is also a member of the United States Supreme Court bar.
When he’s not practicing law, Hayden enjoys spending time with his family, cooking, collecting vinyl records, and cheering for the Virginia Cavaliers.
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Chat withState: District of Columbia
Acquired: 2014
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State: Virginia
Acquired: 2007
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12110 Sunset Hills Rd #401, Reston, VA, 20190
27 Client Reviews
Showing 1 - 4 of 4 reviews | Child Custody
Posted by Kimberly | April 25, 2019 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody
He gets it!
This is my second time hiring Hayden. He helped me with my divorce case about six years ago, and we were able to settle a long hard custody/support case this month (April 2019). He explained everything in-detail and made sure that we were kept in the loop at all times. He gave us all of our options a...
Posted by anonymous | October 13, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody
Child Custody & Divorce
Mr. Lee handled my child custody and divorce proceedings which had an international aspect to it. This in itself added a much greater complexity to the proceedings, but Mr. Lee was up to the challenge and researched proper methods of serving foreign nationals abroad among other things. He was very pr...
Posted by Ben | October 11, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody
Wise and practical counsel
I hired Hayden to represent my Divorce and Custody pleadings. He set the right tone early in the process by carefully listening to the outcomes I desired. He then did a great job explaining what issues I should prioritize and what were reasonable timelines for resolution. The custody negotiations we...
Posted by Kirk | March 30, 2017 | Hired Attorney | Child Custody
Straight forward with solid advice
Hayden did a great job handling my visitation case. He was able to quickly answer my questions and provide some sound advice as I renegotiated my visitation plan. Despite some rather hostile communication from the other party he was able to guide this case forward and helped develop a good plan. H...
"Hayden and I worked together on a case with some unique circumstances that could have led to a very complicated and contentious trial. Hayden and I were able to work together to provide a creative solution for this family including providing them a more therapeutic and tailored solution that would not have been possible in court, met our clients' goals, and kept the best interests of the children at the forefront. I endorse Hayden."
"I endorse this lawyer. Hayden is a hard working and diligent attorney. He works with his clients' best interests in mind."
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2025
Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers
2024
Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers
2006
Runner-up Best Brief, Fordham University Law School Securities Moot Court Competition
N/A
Client Champion Award, Martindale-Hubbell
N/A
AV Preeminent Rated, Martindale-Hubbell
2025 - Present
Of Counsel, Hirsch & Ehlenberger
2019 - 2025
Partner, ShounBach
2012 - 2019
Associate, ShounBach
2008 - 2012
Attorney, Feil, Petitt & Williams, PLC
2007 - 2008
Judicial Law Clerk, 25th Judicial Circuit of Virginia
2017 - Present
Virginia Trial Lawyers AssociationMember
2017 - Present
DC Academy of Collaborative ProfessionalsMember
2015 - 2016
DC Academy of Collaborative ProfessionalsMember
2014 - 2015
Collaborative Professionals of Northern VirginiaMember
2014 - 2015
DC Academy of Collaborative ProfessionalsMember
2013 - 2014
George Mason American Inn of CourtBarrister
2013 - 2014
DC Academy of Collaborative ProfessionalsMember
2012 - 2014
Virginia Trial Lawyers Association, Young Trial Lawyers Leadership CommitteeMember
2007
JD - Juris Doctor
2004
BA - Bachelor of Arts
2016
Discovery 101
2016
Ethical Considerations for Attorney's in Virginia Collaborative Practice
2015
Collaborative Law Practice
2015
Ethical Issues in Collaborative Practice: Limited Scope Representation and Informed Consent
2008
2007
English