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Mindy Michelle Carr

Family Attorney at Seattle, WA

4.9   51 reviews
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  • Licensed for 14 years
    State WA
    Acquired 2008
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COMPASSIONATE AND FEARLESS ADVOCACY IN FAMILY LAW MATTERS. CALL 206-202-3102

Mindy Carr practices family law with a focus on dissolution and post-divorce matters involving high-conflict custody issues and complex financial issues. She has a background in family law, dependency law, and criminal defense at several successful private law firms and non-profit organizations in Seattle and Everett. She cares deeply for her clients and works hard to empower them to fight for what is financially fair and for what is best for their children. While Mindy’s compassion for her clients, tenacity, and feisty personality make her a zealous advocate in court, she also appreciates the power of a more collaborative approach. 

Awards

Client's Choice 2023,2017,2015,2012
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Reviews

4.9 / 5.0
  51 customer reviews
Client's Choice 2023
Client's Choice
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Posted by Anne | June 19, 2022
This review is from a person who hired this attorney.
| Hired Attorney
Above and beyond
I had heard that divorce can be a very scary and long process, but Mindy always took the time to explain and update me along the way, so I never felt out of the loop. When I was feeling absolutely drained near the end, Mindy carried the load and was supportive every step of the way. She always had my best interests in heart, and reminded my to put mysef first, which was very foreign to me. I am very thankful for all of her guidance and would absolutely recommend her to anyone who is in need of an extremely capable yet caring individual who knows family law and is willing to act on your behalf.
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Posted by C.S. | May 24, 2023
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Mindy is the BEST!
I am eternally grateful to Mindy Carr for her skilled, compassionate, and tireless advocacy during two grueling years of a high-conflict custody case involving two young children. The stakes could not have been higher and I faced an uphill battle as the father. My case was incredibly acrimonious. I had no experience in family court, but knew having a skilled and experienced lawyer makes all of the difference. Mindy is truly a diamond, and I couldn’t have gotten through this terrible ordeal without her.  The opposing side went through 6 lawyers and we had to fight tooth and nail (i.e., file/respond to numerous motions) for basic matters, small and large, for the duration of the case. Mindy navigated me through this incredibly stressful minefield, advising where and how time and energy could be best spent, and sharing her in-depth knowledge of all of the players in family court, from experts to judges. She was able to anticipate and predict events, counsel me through each step (including how to respond to an antagonistic ex-partner), and light the way forward for the entire journey from our initial engagement all the way through trial two years later.  Family law is a heartbreaking field. It takes a special person to do this, not only with requisite experience and skill, but also with an open heart and a clear mind to apply their knowledge to the specifics at hand, with the stamina for a long-haul battle. Mindy never lost focus, never gave up on my case. Mindy has become a trusted advisor to our family and I’m so grateful for her wellspring of legal experience and wisdom. I cannot recommend her enough for family law matters. I hope I will not need to go back to court for my kids, but I know if I ever do, I have an incomparable ally and advisor.
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Posted by Anthony | September 4, 2018
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Excellent Seattle Family Law Attorney for high conflict, complexity and parenting plan matters
After going through one of the most difficult 16 months of my life I can honestly say I made the absolute best choice in hiring Mindy Carr. Mindy was calm, empathetic, direct and tough. I had a very complex, highly litigated divorce and Mindy was steadfast in her focus on helping me navigate an incredibly emotional and difficult process. She provided excellent counsel which included some tough reality checks as needed to keep me focused on the right things. She was a great advocate for me when it came time to fight for what was fair for me and my children. She was also very helpful in making sure I understood all aspects of my case. I would not hesitate recommending Mindy to anyone who is looking for an attorney skilled in both collaborative or highly litigated scenarios. Thank you Mindy!
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Posted by anonymous | April 20, 2023
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Client-Centered and Ethical with Extraordinarily Social Intelligence and Patience
I hired Mindy Carr to initiate child custody proceedings involving my toddler-aged son with the goal of obtaining a parenting plan in my child's best interest--recognizing and accepting from the outset that I was destined to be a long-distance parent. I am a well-regarded attorney with elite training who practices exclusively in the realm of high-stakes, federal litigation around the nation. However, I do not practice family law. To be clear, Ms. Carr is neither a friend nor a colleague of mine, but rather was referred to me by a family member who knew Ms. Carr as a mere acquaintance in law school. With this background in mind, I believe I am uniquely qualified to evaluate Ms. Carr's ability to practice law and suitability for hire. The bottom line is that Ms. Carr is extremely bright and diligent, unwaveringly committed to obtaining the best possible result for her client (and the child), and--perhaps most importantly--demonstrates a transparent and comforting sense of absolute TRUSTWORTHINESS throughout the process. I unreservedly recommend Ms. Carr if you are looking to retain a family-law attorney. Good luck.
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Posted by Corre | March 7, 2023
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A Brilliant Family Law Attorney
If you are looking for an incredibly intelligent, ethical and thoughtful attorney, you cannot go wrong with Mindy. She led my case from beginning to end in a masterful way. I couldn’t have asked for more, I’m so thankful for her.
Posted by anonymous | November 8, 2022
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Fought and Won Equal Custody
I was referred to Mindy by a family member and couldn't have been happier with the outcome. At the time, I had no parenting plan in place and my child's mother was taking away my right to see my child. Mindy quickly worked to put in place a temporary order that led to, after mediation, split custody. I would highly recommend Mindy Carr to anyone in a similar situation.
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Posted by anonymous | October 29, 2019
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thorough, hard-working, high-quality
Mindy’s help these past couple years has been invaluable. The high-quality work she has done for me has consistently been reflective of her legal knowledge, passion for what she does, and commitment to helping her clients during challenging situations. She makes it a point to best understand your situation, explains case-relevant laws and legal proceedings, and informs you about the varying possibilities and outcomes that could result in court or arbitration. I have always felt she has had the best interest of me and my child in mind, and that she makes it a point to provide clarity and be mindful about the advice she gives. She thoroughly examines information, dissects/corrects inconsistencies, pays attention to timeliness, and attentively listens to concerns. The legal profession is fortunate to have someone as dedicated to excellence as she is, and I have felt equally as fortunate to have had her as my lawyer.
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Posted by anonymous | June 5, 2019
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Mindy is truely an amazing human and lawyer
I had a very difficult case as my ex-husband (who I had been divorced from for 10 years) who is a bully, clearly has clinical behavioral issues, and is an alcoholic who is not truthful and believes in trying to do what is right for him only, not my children. Mindy was direct and honest with me, took care of my anxiety with the situation and also squashed my ex through communication with his lawyer and full understanding of my rights and the legal system. She is kind, professional, smart, trustworthy and I would use her again and again. Although our circumstances were difficult and I did not issue the petition, I feel like we won in the end! Many thanks Mindy!
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Posted by Jaime | January 31, 2023
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Emergency Parenting Plan Modification
I reached out to Mindy for help and three days later she had a signed modification from my ex-spouse. It couldn't have gone smoother. I am very happy with her guidance and the support she provided. I would definitely refer Mindy Carr to any of my friends in need of this type of support.
Posted by anonymous | November 1, 2022
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A lawyer with insight, integrity and extensive knowledge
Mindy’s insight, integrity and knowledge of the family court system in King County was invaluable throughout my case. She kept my child’s best interest in mind all along and carefully considered the long-term outcome of each decision we worked through. She and her paralegal Cathie kept me well-informed of due dates and always gave me the time to review the plethora of paperwork we needed to submit. Her expertise in family law and professionalism shone through in all of it, especially as we headed into trial. She helped me get through some really tough circumstances, and my sentiments echo that of her many five-star reviews — I will recommend her to anyone in need of a truly outstanding family lawyer.
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Posted by Adrienne | June 1, 2023
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Mindy is exceptional!
Mindy was found by a friend of mine in a time of need. And what a blessing she was! I had another attorney before her who was not that knowledgeable and had made my my case more complicated. My case was mess and I thought I was going to loose my child for good. Once I found Mindy she immediately came in and got to work on my case. The way she maneuvered my case. And her determination and dedication. She managed to save the day through such a stressful time. I still brag about her to this day how well she managed my complicated case. Mindy is a fighter in the way that you need. Also she was caring in the times I needed her to be. Both her and Cathie. I am forever thankful for the great service she provided for my case. If you need a tiger of an attorney for your case. Hire Mindy! You will not be disappointed.
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Posted by John | February 16, 2022
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Great ally!
Mindy is great and she does a great job of taking care of her clients. She also has the ability to make strong yet amicable decisions and has good creative thinking skills when it comes to angle of approach.
Posted by anonymous | October 21, 2021
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The Attorney to have on your side!
Words cannot describe how grateful I feel to have found Mindy. She was recommended by a very close friend of mine, who is also in the legal field and boy did she NOT disappoint. After being served a large stack of paperwork on a Friday night and being informed I have an emergency court date on that following Monday, I started my search for legal representation. I contacted around 15+ law offices and Mindy was the the only one that returned my call the very next day. She agreed to take my case immediately got to work. We worked together all of Sunday late into the early morning to prepare for Mondays court date ahead. She listened, was professional, gathered relevant information from me, worked with me like a solid teammate and executed. Needless to say, Monday’s hearing was dismissed(Emergency restraining order/petition to change parenting plan). Truly Impressive. The next few months Mindy continued do her due-diligence, and put her proactive skills to work . I honestly believe this was key in this journey and the next court date ahead. (Threshold hearing/ Adequate cause hearing) Mindy was strategic, confident, smart and fierce. She was better then I ever expected through each turn my case took…Mindy Counseled and advised me along the way and understood how to remain focused on the task at hand and was kind even as emotional as it would get for me. Mindy got it done -The adequate cause hearing date was dismissed. As happy and relieved that I am about the outcome of my case, I had no doubt that Mindy is THE attorney to have on my side to make this happen! Highly recommended, if you want a stand up attorney that will win and gracefully exceed your expectations. Thank you again Mindy! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️+++
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Posted by Troy | September 3, 2021
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Excellent
Mindy represented me in a child relocation case. I could always count on her to fight for me, she was prepared, well organized, knowledgeable, returned phone calls and always kept me informed. I would highly recommend her.
Posted by anonymous | June 22, 2021
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Great lawyer and advocate, especially in high-conflict cases
Mindy is an excellent lawyer and advocate for her clients. My ex-husband and I had a dispute about our parenting plan after he moved, and Mindy helped us arrive at a parenting plan that is in our son's best interest. She also provided invaluable counsel along the way, helping me refine my position in order to get the best for our son. She's reasonable, level-headed, sharp, empathetic, and a fierce advocate for her clients. I highly recommend her, especially to those navigating a high-conflict divorce or co-parenting dispute.
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Posted by anonymous | March 15, 2021
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Highly recommend
Mindy made a very difficult situation bearable. She has a calm demeanor and thoroughly explains her recommendations. I worked with Mindy for over a year to reach reasonable agreement with an unreasonable party.
Posted by anonymous | April 28, 2020
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Highly Recommend
Mindy represented me in a low-conflict divorce case. She worked efficiently and was an excellent advocate, helping me to quickly navigate a tricky property settlement agreement. She communicated clearly and directly with all parties and maintained a low-conflict atmosphere while also being a fierce advocate. She was excellent at assessing the opposing council's agendas and limitations and adroitly positioned us to get an excellent result in the settlement. I appreciated her attention to detail and also how she was very mindful of keeping costs low. She's easy to talk to and quick to respond to questions. When communicating with my ex-husband's attorney, Mindy was no-nonsense, no drama--just total competence and professionalism. I would highly recommend Mindy to anyone for any case, no matter how complicated or seemingly straightforward it might be. Even a straightforward case can get complicated quickly, and having a lawyer like Mindy on your side will help ensure that your needs are advocated for and that you end your case in the best position possible.
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Posted by Lynn | January 30, 2019
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Outstanding, experienced, and knowledgeable attorney
After about two years with another attorney, I turned to Mindy. She has an uncanny ability to grasp the essence of my case. She advised a strategy and listened to my concerns. We just finished a satisfactory final mediation; all in less than thirty days! She is a marvel.
Posted by Sean | December 4, 2018
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Terrific partner!
Mindy is solid, a great partner! Straight forward with finesse. She took the time to understand the needs of both sides, and was especially effective through the final stages. Helping us reach a fair agreement for both parties. I would recommend Mindy for any scenario!
Posted by Michael | October 26, 2018
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| Hired Attorney
Excellent
Based on her exceptional quality of work, we were thrilled to be able to hire Mindy at Wechsler Becker. She has been a terrific addition to the firm.
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Cost

Rates
  • Hourly Rates $ 450-450 per hour
Payment methods
Cash, Check, Credit Card

Resume

AVVO RATING 10.0 (Superb)

Work Experience

  • Partner
  • Wechsler Becker, LLP
  • 2020 - Present
  • Owner/Attorney
  • Carr Family Law PLLC
  • 2020 - Present
  • Attorney
  • Skellenger Bender, PS
  • 2016 - 2018
  • Attorney
  • O'loane Nunn Law Group, PLLC
  • 2015 - 2016
  • Attorney
  • Abc Law Group, LLP
  • 2014 - 2015
  • Attorney
  • Carey & Lillevik, PLLC
  • 2013 - 2014
  • Attorney/Owner
  • Scout Law Group, PLLC
  • 2010 - 2013
  • Attorney
  • Snohomish County Public Defender's Office
  • 2008 - 2008
  • Appellate Attorney
  • Washington Appellate Project
  • 2007 - 2011
  • Rule 9 Intern
  • Society of Counsel Representing Accused Persons
  • 2007 - 2007
  • Law Clerk
  • Legal Voice
  • 2007 - 2007
  • Legal Intern
  • Innocence Project
  • 2006 - 2007
  • Law Clerk
  • Texas Civil Rights Project
  • 2006 - 2006
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Education

  • Dispute Resolution Center of King County
  • Certificate of Completion - Mediation Training
  • 2015
  • International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
  • Collaborative Law Training
  • 2014
  • National Criminal Defense College
  • 2011
  • University of Washington School of Law
  • JD - Juris Doctor
  • 2008
  • Rice University
  • BA - Bachelor of Arts, Cum Laude
  • 2003
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Associations

  • Snohomish County Bar Association, Family Law Section
  • Board Member
  • 2015 - Present
  • Snohomish County Bar Association
  • Attorney Member
  • 2014 - Present
  • King County Bar Association
  • Attorney Member
  • 2013 - Present
  • Mother Attorneys Mentoring Association of Seattle
  • Attorney Member
  • 2012 - Present
  • Washington State Bar Association, Solo and Small Practice Section
  • Attorney Member
  • 2010 - Present
  • Legal Voice
  • Member
  • 2007 - Present
  • Public Interest Law Association
  • Member
  • 2007 - Present
  • Washington Women Lawyers (King County chapter)
  • Criminal Law Sub-Committee Member
  • 2013 - 2014
  • Washington Women Lawyers
  • Board Member
  • 2013 - 2014
  • Washington Defender Association
  • Attorney Member
  • 2008 - 2016
  • Washington Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers
  • Attorney Member
  • 2007 - 2017
  • Innocence Project Clinic
  • Student
  • 2007 - 2008
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Languages Spoken

  • English

Honors and Awards

  • Best Family Law Attorneys List
  • Best Lawyers
  • 2024
  • Super Lawyer Family Law 2023
  • SuperLawyers
  • 2023
  • Super Lawyer Family Law 2022
  • SuperLawyers
  • 2022
  • Rising Star 2020
  • Washington Law & Politics Magazine
  • 2020
  • Rising Star 2019
  • Washington Law & Politics Magazine
  • 2019
  • Rising Star 2018
  • Washington Law & Politics Magazine
  • 2018
  • Pro Bono Publico Service Honor Roll
  • Washington State Bar Association
  • 2015
  • Pro Bono Honor
  • Columbia Legal Services
  • 2014
  • Trial Practice Institute Scholarship
  • National College of Criminal Defense
  • 2011
  • Pro Bono Publico Service Commendation
  • Washington State Bar Association
  • 2011
  • Pro Bono Publico Service Commendation
  • Washington State Bar Association
  • 2010
  • Pro Bono Publico Service Commendation
  • Washington State Bar Association
  • 2008
  • Best Brief Award in Appellate Competition
  • University of Washington
  • 2007
  • Cum Laude
  • Rice University
  • 2003
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Publications

  • Washington Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers
  • DUI News - December 2012
  • 2012

Speaking Engagements

  • Washington Defender Association
  • Aggressive/Proactive Advocacy in Dependency Cases
  • 2015
  • May a juvenile court terminate a mother's parental rights based on her poor choice in romantic partners?
  • In re D.B.
  • 2010
  • May a court terminate a mother's parental rights based on her relationship with a man who abused her but not her children?
  • In re Dependency of B.R. and T.V.
  • 2010
  • Does the "evidence of arrest" exception under Arizona v. Gant apply under the Washington State Constitution?
  • State v. Jordan
  • 2009
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Attorney endorsements

Received (29)
Given (58)
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Appeals Attorney | Mar 12
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer. I refer to Mindy with confidence. She is bright, energetic and compassionate. She has great perspective and treats her clients with care."
Criminal defense Attorney | Apr 04
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy has all the attributes that a potential client should be looking for in a lawyer. She's smart, has a good range of experience and has excellent trial and writing skills. Additionally, she is tenacious and creative - both critical to being a great criminal defense lawyer. I would absolutely trust her to handle any case."
Family Attorney | Jul 28
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I have worked with Mindy on family law cases and dependency cases. She is creative, dedicated, and a fighter for her clients. Plus, she has a really good sense of humor."
Child abuse Attorney | Apr 22
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is a strong advocate for her clients and the system. She is clever and passionate, and works hard to get the best outcome for her clients."
Unknown Attorney | May 08
Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter
"Mindy Carr fights hard to protect her client's legal interests. Mindy is respected by her peers, opposing counsel and local Judges. Mindy is a zealous advocate who gets great results for her clients. I highly recommend Mindy Carr for any person needing serious legal help."
Unknown Attorney | May 05
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is not afraid to rock the boat. She can get down to the trickiest issues and argue for her clients comfortably and confidently."
Child abuse Attorney | Nov 05
Relationship: Co-worker
"I've worked across from Mindy prior to her joining our office and now work together with her. Mindy is a dedicated and hard-working professional who strongly and effectively represents her client's interests. I highly endorse her work."
Child abuse Attorney | Oct 27
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I highly endorse Ms. Carr as an attorney who cares about her clients, produces positive outcomes, pays close attention to the details of her cases, and will aggressively advocate for her clients. She is intelligent, thorough, and is respected by her peers. I have been opposing counsel to Ms. Carr and in that capacity developed great respect for her. She has recently joined our office and we are very excited about the skill and intellect she brings."
Criminal defense Attorney | Oct 04
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"Worked together as an intern and have followed her career including her many trial successes. Fantastic attorney."
Criminal defense Attorney | Jul 18
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy Carr is a sharp yet friendly lawyer with a keen wit. She is a great public speaker. Prosecutors and judges find her personable, trustworthy, and nonetheless a solid advocate for her clients' interests. I endorse this lawyer."
DUI and DWI Attorney | Jun 24
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I endorse this lawyer. Mindy is one of the brightest lawyers I have met. She has a strong work ethic and always has a positive eager attitude. One of the best to have on your side!"
Unknown Attorney | Feb 01
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is a smart and unflappable attorney with true dedication to her clients. I happily endorse her, and refer clients to her with confidence."
Criminal defense Attorney | Oct 02
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I am happy to endorse Ms. Carr. Mindy is one of a select few lawyers that I know I can count on when I have a conflict on a case. I trust her completely to be professional, kind, and a zealous advocate for her clients. She can handle anything that comes up in court, no matter how unexpected."
Criminal defense Attorney | Sep 28
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Oftentimes I call on Mindy to assist me on a matter. I trust her with my clients knowing she'll give them the same care I do and I'm confident in her abilities. Mindy has earned a wonderful reputation in the legal community by her dedication and intellect."
Appeals Attorney | Jun 30
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Knowledgeable, diligent and caring. Mindy Carr is quickly making a reputation for herself as a "go-to" attorney for appellate issues."
Appeals Attorney | Mar 26
Relationship: Worked together on matter
"Mindy Carr worked with me on a very interesting and complicated appeal with novel issues. She took charge of researching the law in every other state in the union -- no small task! Her results greatly strengthened our brief on appeal. I look forward to being able to work with her again."
Criminal defense Attorney | Feb 09
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"I highly recommend Mindy to anyone looking for a criminal defense attorney in the Seattle area. She is as fierce and tough-minded as they come."
Criminal defense Attorney | Apr 08
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is a dedicated, intelligent, thorough advocate. She truly cares about her clients, first and foremost. The quality of her legal writing and analysis is excellent. She's a fantastic choice if you need representation!"
Criminal defense Attorney | Apr 05
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is a passionate advocate for the rights of the accused and an efficient worker who optimizes available resources."
Criminal defense Attorney | Apr 03
Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community
"Mindy is an excellent attorney, who cares deeply about her clients and her work. I am happy to endorse her as I know she will give her all on any case."
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