Thurman Wesley Arnold III

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Thurman Wesley Arnold III

also known as Thurman W. Arnold, III, CFLS, AAML

4.8
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 43 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Palm Springs, CA
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Mediation, Child Custody, Child Support

225 South Civic Drive, Suite 1-3, Palm Springs, CA

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About Thurman

Biography

Palm Springs and Palm Desert Divorce and all related Family Law matters. Hire the most qualified!

We can assist you in your family crisis with uncommon dedication and intelligence!

We have a unique family sciences background and know the laws affecting custody and parent move-away

A fair and appropriate child support award will affect your kid's quality of life for years to come.

Thurman Arnold is the co-founder of Desert Family Mediation Services. Please call us for information

Practice Areas

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Practice Areas

Divorce and Separation 60%

All aspects of complex divorce, high asset, and high conflict divorce including property characterization and division, spousal support and attorney fee awards, issues relating to fiduciary duties, and modifications of orders.

44 years | 2,000 cases

60%
Mediation 20%

Helping families resolve their relationship and related legal difficulties in divorce is my greatest passion. This is why I was a Master Student at Loma Linda University and trained under world renowned Peacemaker and Mediators Gary Friedman and Forrest 'Woody' Mosten. Even though I am a tough divorce litigator, I encourage honorable resolutions for my clients and the other party and their counsel - which is what I would want for my family and friends!

19 years | 200 cases

20%
Child Custody 10%

As a former student at Loma Linda University in the Family Studies Masters program (M.A.), I have specialized insights into issues affecting children. I particularly enjoy move-away and relocation cases, as well as those cases requiring 730 examinations.

44 years | 300 cases

10%
Child Support 10%

Child and spousal support are extremely important issues, and become way too complicated for clients on their own (or unskilled lawyers), especially when businesses and self-employment income are concerned.

44 years | 300 cases

10%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Free Consultation

$0 first 30 minutes

Hourly Rates

$ 375-450 per hour

Retainer

Always


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

Awards

Client's Choice
Client's Choice
2013
Gold Client Champion
AV Preeminent Peer Review Rating

Licenses

Licensed in California for 43 years

State: California

Acquired: 1982

Active

No misconduct found

Location

ARNOLD AND PETERSON, LLP

225 South Civic Drive, Suite 1-3, Palm Springs, CA, 92262

thurmanarnold.com/

Desert Family Mediation Services

225 S Civic Dr Ste 1-2, Palm Springs, CA, 92262-7227

thurmanarnold.com/

Online Presence

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Thurman Wesley Arnold III's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

4.8 /5.0

30 Client Reviews

Showing 6 - 10 of 16 reviews | Practice Area Knowledge

Posted by Kelly | June 09, 2015 | Family

CALIFORNIA FAMILY LAW GURU!!

As a young and now an old family law attorney, Mr. Arnold is my go to on getting the concise and up to date "low down" on developing family law issues. I am so grateful for his generosity in reaching thousands of practitioners and lay people in his selfless efforts to simplify and streamline the pra...ctice and participation in family law litigation. Thank you Mr. Arnold!!

Thurman Arnold

Replied last June 09, 2015

Kelly - you are so gracious and kind to provide this feedback, which we both know is grossly exaggerated. I have to admit that feeling useful is a great motivator and reinforcer for more than a few hours of effort, and I thank you deeply for making me feel good about what I do in my legal writings. Now I want to write another blog! Please reach out to me by email so I know who you are!

Posted by Richard | September 19, 2014 | Divorce & Separation

Best LGBT Divorce Attorney in California

This is a long overdue review of Mr. Arnold and his team. Like a lot of same-sex couples looking to dissolve a long-term domestic partnership, I was shocked and overwhelmed by the vastly complicated and rapidly changing laws regarding California same-sex domestic partnerships/marriage laws. After mee...ting with several attorneys throughout Southern California, there was no doubt in my mind that Mr. Arnold was not only the most literate and up-to-date with current laws, he truly is an advocate for those who may have been mistreated and do not have the same level of resources as their ex's. Mr. Arnold was amazing at explaining the process each step of the way and offered me options for proceeding with an extremely complicated and far less than amicable legal process with the other side. Mr. Arnold is genuinely empathetic but is also completely forward and honest with realistic settlement/process expectations, unlike many other lawyers I met. Honestly, he is the first lawyer that I have encountered who I could describe is having integrity. His legal assistant, Diane deserves a medal. She has been so helpful and kind but also very straightforward and responsive. Without hesitation, I would recommend Mr. Arnold to anyone seeking representation for divorce or dissolving a domestic partnership. He is certainly the most experienced and knowledgeable attorney for any LGBT person in California to have on their side.

Posted by Thomas | October 16, 2013 | Divorce & Separation

Thorough and Compassionate

Thurman and his great team were there for me when I really needed someone on my side. I was being bullied by my wife's attorney and was completely overwhelmed. Thurman and his team stepped in and took over immediately. Everyone from Thurman on down were professional, thorough, compassionate, and a...ll around top notch. They weren't in it to just collect a fee; they listened to what I had to say and put together a first class plan to work through my divorce. Going through a nasty divorce is an absolute horrible experience! Thurman and his team communicated and guided me through every step, staying positive and aggressive in their approach. They kept me strong and focused on the tasks; always communicating with me so I could completely understand. I honestly don't believe anyone else could have taken me through this experience as pleasantly and thoughtfully as Thurman did; it was as if we were family. His ethics and compassion for what he does are unparalleled. I've never dealt with an attorney with so much heart, yet still such vigor and determination when dealing with a case. He stood up for me when I wasn't able to stand up for myself. Great character, great ethics, great knowledge, great attorney, great guy! You won't regret having him on your side.

Posted by Ron | March 01, 2013 | Family

Tough Family Law Case winning one step at a time

Since July 2009 in which a had hired another attorney that lasted only 6 months. I hired Thurman to take over this tough family law case with ex. Which my ex has lie in court repeatedly, hidden large a mount of money and now after losing to Thurman in Family Law court trial has filed BK to try and s...top him from pursuing in court on the large amount of money that the ex has hidden. I all can say is Thurman will work for you to make things right.

Posted by anonymous | February 22, 2013 | Divorce & Separation

Very Knowledgable, Direct, Compassionate Attorney/Mediator

I am a Mental Health Professional and Collaborative Divorce Coach in Palm Springs, and have had the opportunity to work closely with Mr. Arnold on several divorce cases. He is intense, hardworking and has the ability to combine knowledge/experience/advocacy and compassion to the particular needs eac...h client brings.

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Thurman Wesley Arnold III's Lawyer Endorsements

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Gretchen Taylor

Family lawyer | Mar 27

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I have had Mr. Arnold appear in my Courtroom over the years and now that I am retired , I have had the pleasure of collaborating with him on numerous projects and cases.He is dedicated and hardworking and has at the heart of his practice the clients needs and best interests foremost. He is able to litlgate a complicated matter with great skill as well as to resolve through mediation and settlement those cases that are amenable to alternate dispute resolution.A really great lawyer and leader in forward thinking Family Law issues."

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Gordon Meyer

Family lawyer | May 24

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I have been an attorney for 37 years and am a Certified Family Law Specialist. Mr Arnold and I have opposed each other in trial. He is very competent and an experienced attorney. Despite a partial trial, we were able to successfully resolve many issues without a lengthy trial. He has passed the written exam for family certification. Upon completion of the certification process, he will be a very fine addition to the list of certified family law specialists."

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James Jackson

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jun 29

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Mr. Arnold is one of the toughest and most experienced attorneys in the desert area. His skills are exceptional and he is one of the very best litigators in the family law arena."

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Lisa Arnquist

Family lawyer | Sep 14

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I would highly recommend Mr. Arnold to any potential client seeking his services. He has accumulated seemingly endless experience and Sage wisdom which he shares freely and uses to guide his clients to successful results. He has retained his passion for helping others and his genuine concern for people can't help but change anyone's negative view about attorneys. He is also a dragon in Court and will reduce the opposing counsel to cinders, if necessary, but is responsible enough with all of that fire power, to wield it wisely."

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Wazhma Mojaddidi

Family lawyer | May 07

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Mr. Arnold authors a blog on his website that is an excellent tool for any family law practitioner. As a family law attorney, I regularly rely on the information that he provides on his website. I would recommend his website to any attorney or self-representing party. When I was faced with a complex property issue in my case, Mr. Arnold provided invaluable feedback during a consultation. He represents all that is good in the legal community. Thank you Mr. Arnold for being a passionate and knowledgeable attorney who is actually making a difference!"

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Amanda Stewart

Family lawyer | May 06

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Thurman has one of the most helpful websites I have found. The wealth of knowledge is a testament to his experience. I appreciate his willingness to help with tough questions of law."

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Richard Ross

Divorce and separation lawyer | Mar 16

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Michael Doland

Divorce and separation lawyer | Dec 18

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"A fellow Avvo attorney referred me to an article on Mr. Arnold's web site. It was truly well written, informative and in plain English and conveyed the qualities that every client would look for when hiring an attorney."

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Ann Klein

Family lawyer | Mar 26

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. He is very knowledgeable on family law issues."

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Iris Mckay

Family lawyer | Mar 15

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Thurman's website is the most content-rich family law website in Southern California. I often refer client's to his site. He truly is an honor to our profession, especially in these days. I recommend clients to him without hesitation."

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Farzad Nezam

Family lawyer | Aug 22

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Thurman Arnold is extremely knowledgeable in family law. He shares his knowledge freely with the public with his family law blogs. Thurman is very professional, has high ethics, and has a genuine passion for family law. Thurman, respects other lawyers, be it young ones or experienced ones like himself and in my book is what a family law attorney should be, caring, compassionate, honest and well versed in the family law."

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Donald Cripe

Family lawyer | Feb 21

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Wes is very highly regarded by his peers and, to the best of my knowledge, clients. He is very active in the community and promotes peaceful resolutions to family law disputes. Wes is a trained mediator as well as being an exceptional lawyer. I endorse him without reservation."

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Babak Farzad

Family lawyer | Feb 04

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Thurman is not only a good family law attorney but he shares an interest in family law, its evolution and direction. He is well written on the subject and I respect his passion for the practice."

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Jan Champion

Mediation lawyer | Feb 13

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I endorse this lawyer. I have been a trial lawyer for over 35 years and recently searched for a family law SEO specialist to help me create a website. After discussing my project with all of the big players, I discovered, and selected, Thurman Arnold. His website is the best I have seen, sensitive, informative, and clearly written. His sites all ranked at the top of Google for his area. My personal contact with him confirmed his knowledge of family law, and his expertise in SEO. He is easy and energetic to work with. Selecting Thurman Arnold as my SEO specialist is one of the best decisions I have made."

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Richard Trugman

Family lawyer | Mar 30

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer's work."

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Barbara Kristal

Family lawyer | Mar 30

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer's work."

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Sebastian Gibson

Divorce and separation lawyer | Mar 27

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer's work because I trust his ethics and honesty above all else. Wes, as he is known to his clients and fellow attorneys, has the decades of experience a client and a fellow attorney looks for and the down to earth friendliness a client, especially a divorce client, needs when their marriage has fallen apart. I wholeheartedly recommend this attorney to anyone in need of a family lawyer in the Palm Springs and Palm Desert area."

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Mark Gershenson

Divorce and separation lawyer | Mar 25

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"Thurman Arnold is bright and well-versed in family law. In the words of pundit Ben Stein, he is a worthy adversary. He has softened (in a good way) in recent years and now realizes that divorce clients are best served by collaboration and cooperation between the lawyers, and that the aggressive, "see you in court" approach should be a last resort rather than standard operating procedure (viewpoints which I share)."

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Robert Stempler

Family lawyer | Mar 11

Relationship: Worked together on matter

"I highly endorse Thurman Arnold, having known him since the early 1990's and we worked together on a case several years ago. He cares for his clients and is very knowledgeable, particularly in the area of Family Law, in which he is a certified specialist. He has also handled many trials, over the course of his three decades as an attorney."

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Mitchell Sussman

Family lawyer | Aug 15

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer's work. If I have a family law matter, he is the guy that I send it to. Experienced, hard working and reliable."

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James Jackson

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Wazhma Mojaddidi

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Tecla Lunak

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Lisa Arnquist

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Bradley Faber

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Basil Chapman

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Ann Klein

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Iris Mckay

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Quinton Swanson

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Farzad Nezam

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Kimberly Lee

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Donald Cripe

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Babak Farzad

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Jan Champion

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Michael Peterson

Divorce and separation lawyer

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Richard Trugman

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2025

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2024

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2023

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2022

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2021

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2020

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2019

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2018

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2017

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2016

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2015

Top Lawyers, Palm Springs Life Magazine

2015

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2015

California Divorce Superlawyer, Super Lawyers Magazine

2014

2014 Top Lawyers, Palm Springs Life Magazine

2013

Certificate of Appreciation, Desert Bar Association

2013

Top Lawyer, Palm Springs Life Magazine

2013

AV Rated, Martindale-Hubbell

2012

Top Lawyer, Palm Springs Life Magazine

2011

Top Lawyer, Palm Springs Life Magazine

2010

Certified Specialist - Family Law, State Bar of California

1981

Member, Environmental Law Journal (Law Review), Lewis and Clark Law School

1979

Degree With Honors, UCSB

1975

Certificate of Academic Excellence, Reed College

Work Experience

2009 - Present

Mediator, Desert Family Mediation Services

1982 - Present

Founding Owner, Law Firm of Thurman W. Arnold, III, C.F.L.S.

Associations

2016 - Present

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Fellow

2010 - Present

Los Angeles County Bar Association Barristers

2010 - Present

Los Angeles County Bar Association

Member

2010 - Present

Association of Certified Family Law Specialists

Member

2010 - Present

Mediators Beyond Borders

Member

2009 - Present

American Bar Association

Member

2009 - Present

Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association

Member

2008 - Present

Association of Family and Conciliation Courts

Member

2001 - Present

Family Law Section, California State Bar

Member

1982 - Present

Riverside County Bar Association

Member

1982 - Present

Desert Bar Association

Member

International Association of Collaborative Professionals

Member

International Association of Holistic Lawyers

Member

2011 - 2013

Family Law Section, Desert Bar Association

Chair

2001 - 2003

American Inns of Court

Member, Warren Slaughter Chapter

Education

1982

Lewis & Clark Coll Northwestern SOL

Juris Doctorate

1979

Univ of California Santa Barbara

BA - Bachelor of Arts

N/A

Loma Linda University

N/A

Reed College

Speaking Engagements

2013

FLS Workshop

"Advocacy Perspectives"

2013

Evidentiary Challenges in Divorce Cases Family Law Evidence

2012

2010

Smart Talk Radio WITF Divorce and Parenting

2010

Blog Talk Radio Co-Parenting with an Ex

Publications

2012

Inside the Minds (Aspatore Books) The Growing Role of Mediation and Collaborative Law in Family Law Cases

2010

2010

2010

TransitionalFamilyResources.com The Pursuit of Whose Happiness? Men?

2010

Martindale-Hubbell publication Lawyers as Front Line Crisis Responders

Languages

English

Activity

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