Hildy Lois Fentin

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Hildy Lois Fentin

4.0
5 reviews
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Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 45 years

Family Lawyer at San Diego, CA
Practice Areas: Family, Child Support, Tax ... +4 more

12750 High Bluff Drive, Suite 300, San Diego, CA

Virtual Consultation Available

About Hildy

Biography

Practice Areas

7

Practice Areas

Alimony 16%

16%
Child Custody 16%

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Child Support 16%

16%
Family 16%

I am a Family Law Mediator and Collaborative attorney. I assist families in resolving their cases peacefully and respectfully in a confidential setting.

45 years

16%
Mediation 16%

16%
Tax 16%

16%
Other 4%

4%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Hourly Rates

$ 450-450 per hour


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

Awards

AV Preeminent Peer Review Rating

Licenses

Licensed in California for 42 years

State: California

Acquired: 1983

Active

No misconduct found

Licensed in Connecticut for 44 years

State: Connecticut

Acquired: 1981

Active

No misconduct found

Licensed in Massachusetts for 45 years

State: Massachusetts

Acquired: 1981

Inactive

No misconduct found

Location

Henderson, Caverly & Pum, LLC

12750 High Bluff Drive, Suite 300, San Diego, CA, 92130

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Henderson, Caverly & Pum, LLP

12760 High Bluff Drive, Suite 150, San Diego, CA, 92130

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Hildy Lois Fentin's Reviews

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Posted by Scott | January 26, 2016 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Expert Mediator

Hildy's steadiness and guidance was very much appreciated. I let the process get the better of me and my behavior was not consistent of who I am but Hildy's kindness and patience was a reflection of who she is. I am thankful for her legal and mediation wisdom in a most difficult time in my life.

Posted by anonymous | October 7, 2015 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Amazing Mediator

Dealing with my wife would have been impossible without Hildy. She is a true impartial mediator and she did her best to ensure the fairest outcome for both of us, despite the somewhat contentious atmosphere. Hildy was well worth her fees. I highly recommend her.

Posted by anonymous | March 13, 2015

Did not believe her client

Ms. Fentin was supposed to represent my child in a custody dispute. Hildy admitted that my child had told her about some of the abuse she experienced with the other parent, but stated that she did not believe her. My child suffered more abuse because of what Ms. Fentin did not "believe". This woman s...hould not ever be trusted to protect a child! My child is now in college and doing well. This woman treated my child not as a person who mattered, but only as another name on a piece of paper. I was able to make a private deal with the other parent to give up rights, my child got the needed therapy (for years) and is now living a wonderful life. My child does remember the abuse, but is committed to making the most of life now and dealing with it when issues come up. You should also move on when seeking an attorney. There are wonderful ones out there, just not here.

Posted by anonymous | June 7, 2011

More frustrating than it had to be

Hildy was recommended to me by my attorney as an excellent Mediation divorce attorney. My spouse and I met with her, and she seemed pleasant and competent enough, but she also said she would be clearly in our face if either of us got out of hand or acted in a way that would harm the mediation proces...s. We signed up, hoping the whole process would take the minimum six months and a day. Early on, my spouse got caught in a number of lies and deceptions, and cancelled a number of meetings and came to meetings unprepared or didn't do what was agreed on. From what my attorney said, this was to be expected. What I did not expect was that Hildy would grow more and more frustrated with my spouse and expect me to be the one to find a common ground, as my spouse just sat there with folded arms. It got to the point that Hildy was so frustrated that she herself was simply diffilult to be around, which was disconcerting because she was supposed to be the professional. Meetings became even more contentious becauuse Hildy was so argumentative and short tempered. Eventually, the process had gone on for so long that my attorney and I discusssed ending the whole thing and filing for divorce in regular court, but we decided we already had too much time and money invested in the process to pull out. Near the end of my mediation odeal, I told Hildy the process had gone on too long because she had not kept up her end of the bargain by keeping us BOTH on point. Was my experience simply an anomoly? I don't know, but it sure was not as advertised.

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

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Certified Specialist - Family Law, State Bar of California

2016

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Norby, San Diego Judiciary

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AV Preeminent Rated, Martindale-Hubbell

Work Experience

2011 - Present

Attorney, Law Offices of Hildy L. Fentin

1900 - Present

Member, Hildy L. Fentin, Attorney at Law

1900 - Present

Partner, Henderson, Caverly & Pum, LLP

1999 - 2011

Partner, Stocks and Fentin LLP

1997 - 1999

Attorney, Law Offices of Hildy L. Fentin

1987 - 1997

Associate Attorney, McDonald and Allen

Associations

2004 - Present

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Fellow

2003 - Present

Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego

Member

1992 - Present

California Family Law Certified Family Law Specialist

Member

2013 - 2014

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

President

2013 - 2013

Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego

President

2006 - 2010

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Treasurer

2001 - 2001

San Diego County Bar Association

Chair of the Executive Committee of the Certified Family Law Bar

Education

1980

Rutgers University School of Law - Camden

Juris Doctorate

1977

University of Massachusetts, Amherst

Bacholor of Arts,

Languages

English

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