My question is will he automatically get 9 months this time because this is his second time violating?

He needs competent legal help to limit his time that he may receive here. They may take his street time.

This will be my 2nd time I took things form and Walmart it is worth 83 dollars what do you think will happen to me

You are looking at a citation to appear in your local magistrate court.

Will I get my license suspended? And if so is there any way not to get it suspended.

Yes it is a very serious offense. I advise you get some counseling it is well over the limit even for an adult.

What is he actually being charged with? Why is it stated "you are being charged with" and only lists the 3 in that case?

From what your saying five charges. There was a minor involved somehow with the weed. They are serious charges

Am I supposed to get a copy of the defense before the court hearing?

I see you have a lawyer so you should ask your lawyer.

Pennsylvania Governor's Pardons

Guns are tricky it would depend on what you have been doing for the last ten years.

No I believe that would still bounce you out of getting a permit. Read section 6105 of the crimes code.

Is this legal for him to do? If not, what can I do about it?

It sounds like a contract and you have chosen to accept it. You would have to renegotiate or get another salon

Is it likely my support will get raised? What's to keep her from not looking for new employment or doing this in the future?

Yep she can do that it is a shame for you.

Can I file a motion for dismissal by using Elonis v. United States supreme court ruling by saying they can't prove mens rea?

You can file any motion you want it will be denied by the Judge since they do not pay attention to pro se filings.