Heidi E. Opinsky

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Heidi E. Opinsky

4.7
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 39 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Stamford, CT
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Child Support, Child Custody ... +2 more

236 South Lake Drive, Stamford, CT

Virtual Consultation Available

About Heidi

Biography

Family Law Attorney with Extensive Experience in High Asset & Complex Cases. Serving CT & NY.

Family Law Attorney with Extensive Experience in High Asset & Complex Cases. Serving CT & NY.

Family Law Attorney with Extensive Experience in High Asset & Complex Cases. Serving CT & NY.

Family Law Attorney with Extensive Experience in High Asset & Complex Cases. Serving CT & NY.

Family Law Attorney with Extensive Experience in High Asset & Complex Cases. Serving CT & NY.

Practice Areas

5

Practice Areas

Divorce and Separation 30%

30%
Child Custody 20%

20%
Child Support 20%

20%
Alimony 15%

15%
Family 15%

15%

Fees and Rates

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Licenses

Licensed in New York for 39 years

State: New York

Acquired: 1986

Currently Registered

No misconduct found

Licensed in Connecticut for 39 years

State: Connecticut

Acquired: 1985

Active

No misconduct found

Licensed in District of Columbia for 38 years

State: District of Columbia

Acquired: 1986

Inactive

No misconduct found

Location

Law Offices of Heidi E. Opinsky, LLC

236 South Lake Drive, Stamford, CT, 06903

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The Chrysler Building

405 Lexington Avenue, 26th Floor, New York, NY, 10174

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Heidi E. Opinsky's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

4.7 /5.0

20 Client Reviews

Posted by Maria | December 2, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Tough high power attorney that knows the law!

After nine exhausting years of litigation, I finally found an attorney who refused to tolerate delays, excuses, or unnecessary drama. Attorney Opinsky was relentless in cutting through the nonsense that had stalled my case for nearly a decade. From day one she was strategic and completely committ...ed to getting the job done. Her no-nonsense approach was exactly what my case needed. For the first time in years, I felt like someone was actually fighting for me instead of just going through the nonsense of the motions. She is tough and laser focused! I’m sure the other side will not be happy you are represented by Attorney Opinsky. She ended my almost 10 year litigation and I am forever thankful!

Posted by Monte | December 2, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

The Only Person I Trusted in the Middle of a Legal Nightmare

Going through a family court battle has been one of the most overwhelming and difficult experiences of my life, and I truly don’t know how I would have made it through without Heidi Opinsky. She has been a source of strength, clarity, and stability during a time when everything felt upside down. W...hat stands out most about Heidi is that she genuinely shows up when it matters. When the pressure is high and the stakes are real, she is focused, fierce, and completely committed. Her courtroom presence and strategic instincts are remarkable — she knows the law, she knows the judges, and she knows exactly how to position a case when everything is on the line. Heidi helped me navigate a situation that felt impossible, and she did it with confidence, experience, and a steady hand. Even in my most stressful moments, she found a way to ground the process and give me the reassurance I needed to keep going. I’m deeply grateful for her advocacy, her guidance, and her ability to cut through chaos with precision and strength. If you are facing a complicated or emotional family matter, you want someone who can fight for you and think clearly when you can’t. Heidi is that person. She has made a tremendous difference in my life, and I recommend her with the greatest appreciation.

Posted by Arjumond | August 1, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Shark Needed

Counselor Heidi E. Opinsky is an EXCELLENT attorney! My ex is a bulldog, so I needed to bring a SHARK, who was not afraid to bite ME when necessary. The manner in which she litigates during court is exemplary of her professionalism, knowledge, and experience in the courtroom. She is we...ll known and well connected. I am humbled to have been able to retain her services and grateful for the patience she has continued to show with me as a patient recovering from a traumatic brain injury. Between her and her paralegal staff, namely Mr. Aguilar, I would not have been able to navigate a difficult legal process & personal life struggle. I highly recommend attorney Heidi E. Opinsky as your counselor. She has knowledge of the system and exemplifies professional in her practice of law,, She is well respected and known in the courthouse as an excellent litigator. I was fortunate enough to find her, with a traumatic brain injury, I am deeply indebted to her as her humanity and empathy, professionalism, litigating expertise which are allowing a TBI victim to hold his baby girl once more. 5 Stars! Highly Recommend

Posted by Travis | June 26, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

The best in a tough situation

Excellent in every regard. Very personal in a difficult cause of action. Could not be more impressed with her professionalism, preparedness and personal care. Heidi is THE BEST!!!

Posted by anonymous | March 12, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Divorce case in NY & CT

Heidi is an excellent attorney, she understands the issues in the states and knows what the judges want to hear. She is dedicated, thorough and diligent. Very lucky to have found her.

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Heidi E. Opinsky's Lawyer Endorsements

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Kenneth Potash

Alimony lawyer | Aug 21

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Steven Sledzik

Divorce and separation lawyer | May 21

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Shari Gordon

Divorce and separation lawyer | May 20

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Christian Zebicoff

Divorce and separation lawyer | May 11

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Yvette Fallon

Divorce and separation lawyer | Feb 16

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Douglas Borthwick

Divorce and separation lawyer | Nov 19

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Urs Furrer

Marriage and prenuptials lawyer | Aug 18

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I heartily endorse Heidi. If you have a client that needs a matrimonial lawyer, she should be the one you recommend."

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Carolyn Roscich

Divorce and separation lawyer | Aug 11

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Pat Crispi

Litigation lawyer | Jun 02

Relationship: Other

"I endorse this lawyer."

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Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2007

Pro Bono Honor Roll, Connecticut Bar Association

2006

Pro Bono Honor Roll, Connecticut Bar Association

2005

Pro Bono Honor Roll, Connecticut Bar Association

2004

Pro Bono Honor Roll, Connecticut Bar Association

2000

Trial Skills Participant, New York State Trial Lawyers Association

1986

Eastern District Admission, United States District Court New York

1986

Southern District Admission, United States District Court New York

Work Experience

2016 - Present

President, The Law Offices Of Heidi E. Opinsky, LLC

2014 - Present

Stamford/Norwalk Judicial District Special Master, Connecticut Superior Court

2012 - Present

Certified Guardian Ad Litem, Connecticut Superior Court

2015 - 2016

Partner, Jones Morrison, LLP

2013 - 2015

Women's Initiative Steering Committee Co-Chair, McCarter & English, LLP

2012 - 2015

Partner, McCarter & English

2009 - 2012

Partner, Fox Rothschild, LLP

Associations

2009 - Present

Fairfield County Bar Association

Committee Co-Chair Alternative Dispute Resolution

2009 - Present

New York State Bar Association

Child Custody Committee

2006 - Present

Fairfield County Bar Association

Committee Co-Chair, Women in Law Committee

1992 - Present

Fairfield County Bar Association

Member

1992 - Present

Stamford/Norwalk Regional Bar Association

Member

New York State Bar Association

Member

Connecticut Bar Association

Member

District of Columbia Bar

Member

American Bar Association

Member

New York City Bar Association

Member

2012 - 2014

BNI Edge Stamford

Former Member

2010 - 2012

Gotham City Networking Fairfield

Former Member

2009 - 2013

New York State Bar Association

Committee Children and the Law

2003 - 2008

Collaborative Divorce Attorneys of Fairfield County

Member

Sample of Legal Cases

Faranda v. Dolan

Bicknell v. Bicknell, 631 N.Y.S.2d 78 (2d Dept. 1995)

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Education

1985

Hofstra University School of Law

JD - Juris Doctor

1981

St Lawrence University

BA - Bachelor of Arts

Speaking Engagements

2015

Co-Chair Women in Law Committee

Host Speaker Luncheon with Judges Stamford/Norwalk CT Superior Court

2010

Fairfield County Bar Association

Evolving Approaches to Addressing Domestic Violence in Connecticut

2008

National Business Institute

Effectively Using Experts in Family Law

2008

Luncheon with the Chief Administrative Judge of Family Matters for the State of Connecticut, Lynda B. Munro

Host Speaker, Family matters

2006

Fairfield County Bar Association

Women in the Judiciary: An Insider Look

2005

National Business Institute

Getting the Best Financial Settlement for Your Divorce in Connecticut

Publications

2013

Thomson Reuters Splitsville? How to Divide Property in a Divorce

2012

Thomson Reuters Breaking Up is Hard to Do, Breaking a Prenupt is Harder

2009

Quoted, Connecticut Law Tribune Threatening Video Leads to Restraining Order

2009

Quoted, Connecticut Law Tribune A Question of Protection, Family Law Attorneys Seek Better Court Results From Orders

2009

Quoted, HG Org Worldwide Legal Directories Complex Divorce Cases During Difficult Economic Times

Languages

English

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