Can a solar company deny employment because of " we cannot connect - you're too militarized"

Discrimination has to be based upon a protected class - age, sex, race, etc.

Liability for hiring some one on performance based compensation

Without seeing the communications and getting more details, it's impossible to make an informed decision. Get to a good employment attorney and...

A man who choked me and told the police he did nothing got a peace order two hours before I did. He lied.

You said it took place at a public community event. I assume there were witnesses. Speak to them, and see if they will testify.

When is it harassment

Actionable harassment has to be sexual harassment, or otherwise based on a protected class (age, sex, race, disability, etc.).

Is there such a thing as harassment from an employers wife?

Exactly what do you mean by "harasses" and "threatens)?

Unless the decision to terminate you was either contrary to a contract, or discrimination against a protected class (age, sex, race, etc). they can...

Can I sue the guy who robbed me at work.

Can you sue him? Yes. Do you have damages, and can he pay them?

Do I have a case?

You say you "can explain more". You need to speak with an employment attorney in Connecticut - we cannot make guesses. You have the job - if the...

More likely he thinks you have an inflated idea as to the value of your case. If he withdraws, you can proceed with another attorney, or without...

You want to use your legal name. It doesn't matter what people "know you by". You don't want identity issues.