How can we stop the mother from kidnapping a child again?

You need to file a petition for custody asap.

Final divorce was granted but we're having a new trial as I've petitioned for custody, can I add additional debts to trial?

no, you dont get a re-do. The student loan issue is a dead issue you should have brought it up at the first trial.

Do i have the right to meet the boyfriend of my ex wife before allowing visitation?

Probably not a good move to refuse visitation.

Pre-Trial memorandum for custody trial, how can I do a guidelines worksheet w/out the other parties info?

Set the hearing on the motion to compel or subpoena his payroll records.

Yes, just ask the court to continue the hearing and reset it at a later date.

Modifying Child Custody

no.

Should I file for an injuction and a subpoena?

file for a domestic violence injunction. What she is doing is stalking and cyberstalking.

IF MY HUSBAND NAME WAS CHANGED DOES THAT MEAN WE ARE NO LONGER MARRIED?

Cannot answer that, check with the clerk to see if you are divorced.

In desperate need of an attorney in Pinellas County!!

contact my office, however I cannot do it for free.

I am currently fighting my ex in court regarding overnight stays at his home with our two daughters age 10 and 13.

Your ex should have reasonable accomodations. If it still remains an issue file a motion for appointment of a guardian ad litem.