A women i was living with daughter poured windex on a freshly baked cake and i ate half of the cake

If you are the victim of a crime then prosecute (or not, your choice)

My divorce decree only states me as designated beneficiary. Why do lawyers not use irrevocable for all alimony backups?

The wording is standard as was in your case. you can demand that the ex produce the declarations page of the policy every 6 months or so.

I was charged a few days ago for battery domestic violence..it is my first violent charge.. how to get it dropped...please

If the victim does not want to prosecute then you can get it dismissed.

How do you petition a court to get them to take the rights of the dead beat father. without, having to contact the father?

You and your husband have to file a petition to terminate parental rights and a petition for step parent adoption.

Owe childsupport for more than 10 years,is there a way to negotiate payment only just the last 2or3 yrs.being that there adults

If your ex is willing to sign papers then yes it can be done.

Ex's family trust purchased a home for him. He doesn't have living expenses. Is this income for family support purposes?

I concur with counsel money he saves (no mortgage or rent) should be attributed to him

What age can a child be left alone?

There is no age per se however 9 is too young contact police.

apply for a restraining order for repeat violence, go the the clerk to get the forms.

Can my husband adopt my daughter with out biological fathers concent?

file a petition for termination of parental rights and step parent adoption.

Can my husband adopt my daughter if her father has not been in her life since age 1 without his consent?

yes, file a petition for step parent adoption plus a petition to terminate parental rights of the father.