Will a judge give my ex custody because he doesn’t want to pay child support ?

No. He can dream. $ does not equal custody. Child support enforcement can represent you in a child support case and if he counterfiles for...

How can I remove a body attachment w/out going to jail?

Hire an experienced family law attorney asap! You only have 30 days typically to vacate an order.

Is he in violation of protective order?

Call the sheriff and tell them. It may have been overlooked.

If there is a 5 year no contact order what are the chances of getting it lifted ?

It sounds unlikely unless u request it and maybe not even then.

How do you fight a domestic violence charge ?

Hire a lawyer who will need to have things pinned down, who, what, where, when, how, and get your witnesses to punch holes in her story.

My boyfriend bond is 30,000 but he says the 30,000 will bond him on house arrest

It is possible. It is all up to the judge. His lawyer can tell him anything else.

How is this?

You can try but do not be surprised if this complaint is mostly ignored.

Are there lawyers that can help with welfare and section 8 fraud to put them away

If you think she is committing fraud, make a police report. Don't be surprised if your son gets upset if she is put in jail.

How do I get my girlfriend out of my house so I can stop paying rent on it she attacked me and then called police and claimed

Maybe you qualify for an order of protection or maybe You file an eviction proceeding. Hire a local lawyer.

The police should be called, if they were not and a report made. You might get reimbursement for medical costs. See a local lawyer.