Is she REQUIRED to be there, no. Is it BETTER for her to be there, yes...............................

Illinois law requires you to file in the Putative Father Registry to preserve your rights. If you had done so, you would have notice. Since you...

Lots of facts not included. Get consult with local lawyer............................. ..........

Nobody can answer that question except someone who practices in front of that judge regularly. Bring your papers to a local lawyer.

Go see your lawyer with all your papers and make sure they were done properly........................

There is an 18 month statute of limitations for misdemeanors and 3 yrs for felonies. You just have to wait out the time.

If both spouses cooperate...........................................................................

No, he should noticed and taken the appropriate action..................................................

Call dcfs asap about the choking incident and see what shakes out ...................................

Try to find a female lawyer in your area.............................................................