I need to get an emergency restraining order against my ex husbands wife who has made several phone threats to me and continues,

You have a lot of issues here. You need a lawyer's guidance.

Should I retain a Lawyer for services? I am current with C/support, pay directly to SDU monthly.

Dealing with HFS is a nightmare. I would recommend getting a lawyer.

What will the Appellate Court take into consideration when dealing with child custody appeals.

I don't have enough information to help you here. Do you have an attorney to help you on the appeal? You should consult with one.

I am contemplating divorce. My husband has been working part time nearly 2 years and I cannot afford the house on my own.

I agree with Judy. You need to talk to an attorney and see if someone will work with you on a retainer payment.

Do I need a attorney

Yes you need a lawyer. Your wife has no control over the case. The case is in the hands of the state's attorney's office.

Missed court date for supervision termination.

An order was probably entered against you by default if you failed to show up. You will need to go to the court house and take a look to see what...

You should not move out. Stay in the house. It will help your case both financially and with regards to custody if that is at issue. She can't...

In divorce canI sue for def of character, slander & libel? My husbands ex keeps lying about me in court & it goes against him.

File for an order of protection or a TRO to stop her harassment.

I will begin repaying student loans that allowed me to make more money teaching Do payments offset gross income child support?

That's in the discretion of the judge. Take a look at 750 ILCS 5/505 which talks about what you get to deduct, and talk to a lawyer.

Can I file through maine or illinois? No assets no kids...i live in Illinois he lives in maine.

File in Illinois and hire an attorney to help you with the paperwork.