My 2 year old can't talk yet. Her visitation exchanges with my ex are starting to be not normal. What am I to do?

Talk to a lawyer. There may be a way to get a psychologist to do an evaluation but that can be pricey. Talk to a lawyer in person about the case...

Can I stop paying alimony when she moves in with another man?

You can't stop paying until there is a court order saying you have no further obligation to pay. Hire a lawyer to file a motion to do this.

I would strongly recommend that you hire a lawyer and do this the right way given that there is so much at stake!

Child custody battle

You need a lawyer.

I was served with order of protection papers in her statement there were no threats of violence made by me how did she get it

hire a lawyer and come in to vacate it or get it dismissed at the plenary hearing. Ex Parte emergency orders of protection are routinely granted.

How can i change lawyer? This has been a journey i wish to end BEFORE 2014. Want to know why this is taking so long to finish?

Of course you can change lawyers if you desire.

If I file for dissolution of marriage..Will I have to pay "maintenance" and child support even if we both get joint custody?

I agree strongly with the suggestion to start interviewing lawyers. The short term marriage is a factor that weighs in your favor in terms of...

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If collaboration fails would mediation work? Or is litigation my only option?

Sounds like you are headed down the long road of litigation. Make sure you hire a good lawyer.

Lowering child support issue

I would recommend hiring a lawyer right away. You need someone to review his income and documentation to see what he is really earning.

I want to leave my husband, but do not want to lose my rights to our house and I would like to take the kids, can I do this

Yes, you will not lose the rights to the house if you leave. The home is marital property if it was acquired during the marriage. Moving out will...