What legal step should in take if i want yo give second chance to my abusive husband?

If it is a criminal case and your husband has been charged, you can't stop the case from going forward legally. It's not up to you to prosecute...

Can I become the residential parent or obtain full custody of my children?

You need to hire an attorney to do this, if you can't afford to lose then invest in an attorney to do this the right way.

Can my son's father DEMAND that I accommodate his request for a change in visitation days? He is constantly changing his mind.

Make him file a motion to modify it. And when he does hire a lawyer to protect your rights.

Imigration / Child Custody Lawyer.

I totally agree with Judy. You friend needs to hire a family law attorney. Avvo is a good place to start that search.

I got married on 9/11/13 in Texas. i want divorce and she does not. What should i do and how fast can i get divorced

Hire a lawyer and file the petition for divorce ASAP.

Can my ex go after me for a 503(g) trust account if I am not behind on child support?

Generally she would have to show an inability on your part to pay child support, or a refusal on your part to pay support. A 503(g) trust is where...

I'm still married, but my wife moved out. How can I ask a judge for emergency custody of my children pro se?

You need a licensed IL attorney for this.

If my spouse gets willed some money, is it her property or OUR property?

It's hers so long as she keeps it separate from you. If she commingles it with marital money or puts it in a joint account then you have a good...

Husband is denying me my weekends with my daughter. not yet divorced. what should I do?

I think you should get a lawyer and protect yourself.

File a motion to continue and notify opposing counsel and send a courtesy copy to the judge. You should start looking for lawyers now.