$ 250-450 per hour
Licensed in NC and SC | Certified Mediator for NC and SC Divorce Cases | NC Board Certified Family Law Specialist
When I was just starting out as a young family law attorney an opposing counsel who shall remain nameless referred to me as an “ankle-biting bulldog with lipstick.” Funny? Of course. Offensive? Maybe a little. True? It depends.
I trained in my early years with two drastically different attorneys. The first was one of the most feared and well-known family law attorneys around. Mistakes were not acceptable. I often wondered if I would ever get it right as multiple red-inked revisions to my drafts (with expletives) bounced back to me. Over and over again. The writing style was simplistic, but so powerful. Not legal words, but plain and direct statements that cut right to the heart of the analysis of any issue. Litigation was like performance art. Clients paid generously to be in a courtroom with him and they got a show if it became necessary.
The other attorney was a well-respected leader in the collaborative law movement. She taught me the value of professionalism, mediation and client-driven resolutions. She was the anti-thesis of the other approach, but equally and fiercely strong in her own element.
In working with these two polar opposites, I grew into my own style and voice somewhere between “kill them with kindness” unless and until you need to “slay the dragon.” I believe in the practice of law as an art form. Our clients deserve bespoke documents that are as unique as their circumstances; they deserve those well-crafted documents explained to them in a way they can understand; and they deserve our respect and attention during what is very likely a traumatic time. And, if they need it, they deserve a skilled litigator who will come to court more than prepared to advocate for their position.
I am a collector of life experiences and a firm believer that you should seize every opportunity you can to learn and grow. I have gone on from those early days to progress from an attorney managing my own case load, to a litigation manager for an international firm managing multiple Southeastern offices, to my current role as a Principal with my Sodoma Law family which includes training new associates who started out just like me. Although I have been practicing family law for more than 15 years in these changing roles, I do not take for granted the need to be flexible in my approach. What worked in one case may not be productive or progressive in another. It’s our job to figure out what does work for you.
My first step as your family law attorney involves a consultation, but in reality this is a conversation where we talk about your goals and what brought you to my office for family law advice. I will educate and empower you to make good decisions in what is likely a less than desirable situation. I provide options and advice. You make choices. To have an element of control, at least over the chosen path forward, is the beginning of the next phase of your journey. Let’s talk about where you want to go.
$ 250-450 per hour
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Acquired: 2022
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Acquired: 2004
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Acquired: 2003
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211 East Blvd, Charlotte, NC, 28203
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Posted by Valerie | November 22, 2017 | Hired Attorney
I will definitely reach out to Patra Sinner if I ever need legal services again. She was very compassionate and listened carefully to all of my concerns. She covered everything I requested and then went beyond my requests and covered details I had not thought of addressing. She is exactly the Attorne...
Posted by anonymous | October 12, 2017 | Hired Attorney
I consulted with Patra Sinner several months before I ended up hiring her. I tried figuring the system out on my own and for my situation it just was not working. For over a year she stuck by my side and advised me and fought for my divorce and domestic violence protection in multiple states. She ...
Posted by Laura | September 21, 2017 | Hired Attorney
I have been in a 5+ year battle with my ex husband. I had another attorney for the first few years and accomplished very little. Two years ago, and on short notice, I found Patra Sinner. We had a week to prepare for a child support case. Not only did Patra understand the situation from the get-go but...
Posted by Scott | September 20, 2017 | Hired Attorney
I recently found myself in a situation that warranted legal representation in a child custody case. For the past 18 months Ms. Sinner has represented me with a child custody issue and I couldn’t recommend her highly enough. Ms. Sinner is the best attorney in Charlotte. As Ms. Sinner’s client, I f...
Posted by Jason | September 15, 2017 | Hired Attorney
Patra came highly recommended from multiple attorneys and a former judge in the area and she did not disappoint. Highly organized and detailed, she is on top of her legal game. She is smart, sharp, tough and thorough and took the time and effort to understand my overall situation, my long term goals...
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2018
Certified North Carolina Family Financial Mediator, Mediation, Inc.
2018
Certified South Carolina Family Court Mediator, Mediation, Inc.
2017
Board Certified Specialist - Family Law, North Carolina State Bar Board of Legal Specialization
2015 - Present
Attorney & Principal, Sodoma Law
Past Co-chair
2003
JD - Juris Doctor
2017
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