Once an argument over marital debt vs. marital assets is decided what happens next?

Your reasoning is sound. I should hope that the judge will rule that each of you are responsible for half the debt and are entitled to half the...

Can I request that my soon to be ex wife be held responsible for some or all of my legal expense?

You can certainly request it, it is up to the judge to decide what, if anything, you get. Ask your lawyer about this, that is what you are paying...

Had to work extra jobs to buy and maintain my show car; now my wife is claiming it is a marital asset and wants her share.

Well, at least she is keeping it safe until the court decides who gets what, and that is what she is supposed to do. I think she does get half of...

He will have to prove what assets were purchased with the seperate property. I don't think the court will be interested in getting into household...

I have been separated for over 20 years can my wife collect my pension. I legally had custody of our 2 sons who are grown.

I think she is entitled to half your pension and half your 401k Of course, if she has any, you are entitled to half of hers.

I want to know if I'm still married

Unless there was a divorce or annullment, yes you are.

I have been married for 3 yrs now. I own a house. My name is on the house with my mom,

You can file for divorce at any time. I reccomend using the grounds of "irretrievable breakdown of the marriage". Money from a lawsuit is seperate...

How long does it take to get a copy of a law decree?

That question is probably best addressed to the court clerk. I gather that what you are asking is that all of the divorce papers have been...

Does a party moving out of marital home lose any rights to equity if they leave before court makes a ruling?

No, each are entitled to half of the equity that built up during the course of the marriage. Theoretically, one could argue that you should not be...

My ex wife and I want to write up a legally binding agreement in regards to taxes. Can it be done without a lawyer?

You can agree to anything you want as long as it does not advesely affect the children. While neither of you need a lawyer for this, strictly...