He will have to prove what assets were purchased with the seperate property. I don't think the court will be interested in getting into household...

I have been separated for over 20 years can my wife collect my pension. I legally had custody of our 2 sons who are grown.

I think she is entitled to half your pension and half your 401k Of course, if she has any, you are entitled to half of hers.

I want to know if I'm still married

Unless there was a divorce or annullment, yes you are.

I have been married for 3 yrs now. I own a house. My name is on the house with my mom,

You can file for divorce at any time. I reccomend using the grounds of "irretrievable breakdown of the marriage". Money from a lawsuit is seperate...

How long does it take to get a copy of a law decree?

That question is probably best addressed to the court clerk. I gather that what you are asking is that all of the divorce papers have been...

Does a party moving out of marital home lose any rights to equity if they leave before court makes a ruling?

No, each are entitled to half of the equity that built up during the course of the marriage. Theoretically, one could argue that you should not be...

My ex wife and I want to write up a legally binding agreement in regards to taxes. Can it be done without a lawyer?

You can agree to anything you want as long as it does not advesely affect the children. While neither of you need a lawyer for this, strictly...

My divorce is final and now college expenses have popped up, my ex and I never put anything in writing about college expenses

You go by the terms of the divorce decree. He can claim anything he wants, but if it is not in the decree, then he can go pound salt. BUT: have a...

My divorce order states "Plaintiff and defendant are ordered to pay 50% of the difference between single and family coverage"

I don't think the tax aspect factors in. You take the amount that he pays for family coverage, subtract what it would cost him for single coverage...

You state that you answered. Did you send a copy of the Answer to the lawyer? His lawyer does not have to answer your answer. What happens next...