Can I change my status to F1 or have my girlfriend request me after changed my status to pending asylum?

You cannot change your status in the US or adjust your status in the US under employment based variations. You should consult with an attorney if...

What’s different if I apply for green card in California (where I approved as asylum), or if I apply in other state I will move.

You should apply for the green card in the jurisdiction in which you actually reside.

Would it be a possibility that my wife can obtain her green card???

You would start with filing I 130 petition for her.

H1b visa. If my employer files an I-140 petition, can my wife on H4 also be included in the adjustment of status for green card.

She will be able to adjust with you (she has to pay separate fees of course).

I-601a - Provisional Waiver - question

I have never had an I 601A case to be called for an interview. I think you should just be patient.

Is it possible File for a non-immigrant visa after the expiration of my employment authorization ?

If you file for change of status within your grace period, you should be fine.

It is possible to keep the same I 485 and ask USCIS to use in connection with the filed I 360.

Tomorrow I meet with ADA for a domestic incident. Should I go?

You should probably let them know that you no longer wish to proceed. Usually, for that, you would cooperate with the attorney for the charged party.

I was fired for calling in sick w/o MD note 4 times after a last written warning, I am under treatment for insomnia, is this ok?

An accommodation under the ADA act has to be an ongoing thing, meaning that an employer has an obligation to try various accommodations before they...

Can i sue for the time i did in prison?

Maybe, it depends on the reasons and legal basis for you being sent to prison.