In an amicable divorce, should divorcing spouses 'unfriend' each other, along w/family and mutual friends in social media?

That's a personal choice rather than a "you must" situation.

What can I do.

That she is asking for spousal support does not mean that she will get it. Get an attorney and handle the case properly.

Will I get penalized for moving my 401k to an IRA before my divorce trial? I lost my job.

The automatic orders preclude that activity without the consent of the other party.

It sometimes takes a few days for the judgment to make its way from the judge to the county clerk, which is where you'd get a copy.

Should I sign a quit claim deed to add my husband to the title of our home.

You should never sign a document like that without having your own attorney review it.

My wife say's she has been pregnant since Nov. of last year if she is lieing can i file for divorce and mental compensation

Mental compensation? Highly unlikely... consult a local attorney and discuss the circumstances in detail.

What are my options regarding hiring an attorney when my husband has all of our money and refuses support.

Call several local attorneys - see what the policy is in your court on having the monied spouse pay both sides' legal fees.

Is it possible to have childsuppor obligations re-looked at since divorce 2001 for an increase?

It's possible - but highly unlikely that you'll get far.

Can I be sued for a post on my Facebook page by someone who thinks it was geared towards them?

Yes, you can be sued. Whether the suit will be successful is a much different question.

Order a polygraph test for husbands attorney

Polygraphs are not admissible...and no judge will ever order one for an attorney.