I changed my maiden name to my married name with my mortgage company, do i really need to do it wih the deed too?

Only if the mortgage company requires it.

If husband files for divorce under extreme cruelty, am i still eligible for green card as battered spouse?

That's possible, as long as the marriage was not for immigration purposes. You should discuss your situation in detail with an immigration attorney..

What shall one do if they can't afford a lawyer to help with their divorce?

You can request it - but whether it will be granted requires more information as to the other party's finances.

No. You have to follow the rules even in an uncontested divorce.

Divorce after a divorce is filed but not settled and one person would win a lottery. would the other person be able to claim

If it's post filing it's separate property.

What are the terms you can ask for a modification of a divorce agreement 1.5 years old?

You can ask for anything you want. But it's better to negotiate than simply file a motion.

My husband and I are filing an uncontested divorce soon. How long does it take to have the signed papers from the Courts

Uncontested divorces in Queens are running around eight months with children, ten without. Manhattan isn't as slow. Westchester is faster,...

Good AM- I have received a letter from my husband's Atty saying he is representing my hubby in a divorce proceeding. I now have

It's impossible to give you good advice without knowing more about your situation. Contact a local divorce lawyer and arrange for a detailed...

You can indeed. It's a petition in Family Court.

As a legally separated wife. What rights do I have with my ex? What happens if I get sick or he does? do we have a say ?

That depends on the wording of your separation agreement what does it say?