Are verbal agreements binding regarding spousal support in NYS?

Under almost all circumstances the verbal agreement is not binding. However, what you have described is not verbal.

My wife of ten years [this October] has been cheating on me for some time now. I've forgiven her on numerous occasions because

Probably it was illegal. But the adultery, if any, is not something you'd need to prove to get a divorce.

Can NY judge decide contested divorce/ award property title if one spouse is absent/not in country?

Mailing or faxing the court will not help you. If you do not appear or file the appropriate opposition the court will likely grant her the relief...

If my ex and I are both on deed of house after divorce, do I have to split proceeds after sale?

That depends upon the way your settlement or judgment of divorce is worded.

Its been 4 years since my divorce. Is it too late to have something changed ?

Probably. Is there some reason that this has become a problem?

Cost of drafting a divorce package

Without knowing exactly how complicated your divorce was hard to be certain. for some cases four hours is not unreasonable. for others it seems a...

Is it likely that alimony would be awarded to my spouse if we were married for 3 years?

If you have equal income and a short term marriage it would seem somewhat unlikely that there would be a significant award of alimony (and that...

That depends upon the settlement or judgment of divorce. What does it say as to a quit claim deed or other transfer?

Money from a divorce settlement. Is it taxable

This is more of an accounting question than a legal question...but it will likely come down to whether there was an increase in value beyond...

No. And judges don't participate in the discovery process as a matter of routine. However, as a matter of course, most matrimonial judges do report...