My ex wife breeched the contract what do I do?

Family Court, ASAP. File a petition. You may want to consult with a local attorney first.

You're putting carts ahead of horses. When you say you have to "do QDRO" - a QDRO is a device to divide a known, existing account to which you have...

Am I responsible for debts incurred by spouse if I am legally separated?

Did you file jointly? If so you may have liability.

In Washington state, is there some type of government benefit to disabled persons providing legal services/advice for divorce?

No, there are no government benefits that provide legal services. But there are organizations that help. Your local courthouse should have a list...

How likely am I to be awarded spousal support in a legal separation and/or divorce?

Given what you've posted your chances seem good. But you should discuss the matter in detail with a local attorney and see how to best present the...

I jointly own a house with ex husband, can I prevent him from coming by? Facts below:

If the court ordered inspections that settles the matter. If not, exclusive use and occupancy means just that. Your lawyer should be able to guide...

Presumably you've worked out the pension piece...but as to Social Security: benefits are governed by federal rules - and those rules are not...

Do we need to file for a divorce in the state of New York if we are non US-citizens who had an elopement in New York?

The question is not where you were married but where you live. If you have complied with Norweigian law and have the equivalent of a divorce there,...

How these the process work for getting a divorce?

One party files first, the other responds.

What is a customary retainer fee for divorce?

Attorneys like to make sure they are going to get paid - and one way to do this is with a retainer. Your attorney has most likely made an...