Sheryl J Seiden

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Sheryl J Seiden

5.0
Rating: 10.0

Licensed for 28 years

Divorce and separation Lawyer at Cranford, NJ
Practice Areas: Divorce & Separation, Mediation

20 Commerce Drive, Suite 150, Cranford, NJ

Virtual Consultation Available

About Sheryl

Biography

Exceptional legal services in a strategic, solution-oriented, and supportive manner.

Twenty plus years of experience provides her with the wisdom and sophistication to guide her clients

Resolution oriented in order to amicably resolve your family law matter.

Practice Areas

2

Practice Areas

Divorce and Separation 50%

Seiden Family Law handles all aspects of family law matters, including, child custody, child support, alimony, equitable distribution, insurance issues, counsel fees. We also prepare and negotiation prenuptial agreements and post judgment issues that arise after the parties are divorced. We also have many cases involving child custody'/parenting time and child support where parties were never married and share a child(ren) together.

29 years

50%
Mediation 50%

Sheryl Seiden is a certified mediator in the State of New Jersey. She serves as an Early Settlement Panelists in Union County and a Blue Ribbon Early Settlement Panelists in Essex County.

14 years

50%

Fees and Rates

Cost

Hourly Rates

$ 595-625 per hour


Payment Methods

  • Cash
  • Check
  • Credit Card

Awards

AV Preeminent Peer Review Rating
Client's Choice
Client's Choice
2022 2017

Licenses

Licensed in New York for 28 years

State: New York

Acquired: 1997

Currently Registered

No misconduct found

Licensed in New Jersey for 28 years

State: New Jersey

Acquired: 1996

Active

No misconduct found

Location

SeidenFreed LLC

20 Commerce Drive, Suite 150, Cranford, NJ, 07016

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Sheryl J Seiden's Reviews

Avvo Review Score

5.0 /5.0

31 Client Reviews

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Posted by Mark | October 22, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

The Best Decision I ever made during my Divorce - Have Sheryl on your side!

I am extremely grateful for the incredible support, professionalism and expertise I received from Sheryl and her team during one of the most challenging times in my life . From the initial consultation, to the very end, Sheryl and team were very compassionate and had a very strategic mindset that ga...ve me confidence and peace of mind. Throughout the entire process, Sheryl and her team were very responsive, and thorough and always took the time to answer all of my questions with patience and made sure that I felt empowered to make informed decisions. Thanks to Sheryl, I achieved a favorable outcome that allows me to move forward with clarity in this next chapter of my life. If you are looking for someone to advocate fiercely for you, treat you with kindness and deliver outstanding results, look no further Sheryl Seiden is the best!

Posted by John | October 21, 2025 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

The BEST matrimonial lawyer, an amazing negotiator, and a great person.

Sheryl Seiden has been my lawyer since 2016, when I first spoke to her regarding a possible divorce. Years later, I have learned it was one of the best decisions I ever made. I have the utmost respect for Ms. Seiden's expertise in matrimonial law and particularly in her skill as a negotiator. She kno...ws the law inside and out and took steps during my divorce which protected me years later and saved me thousands. When you're going through something as difficult as a divorce, it is easy to become distracted; I needed someone to protect my rights and think of things I was in no condition to think of at the time. Ms. Seiden is kind and empathetic, but also assertive and strong in representing your interests. She communicates well and is fair and reasonable with respect to your time, cost, etc. I always felt like she was listening to me, and never had any difficulty reaching her to arrange meetings, phone calls, etc., when it was needed. Ms. Seiden's work in my divorce involved an unusual and complex personal situation with regard to equitable distribution of assets and alimony. Later, she advised me to pursue a post-divorce modification of my marital settlement agreement, skillfully pursuing legal steps against my former spouse to terminate alimony on grounds of cohabitation. Her strategy, her timing of the action, and the skill with which she prepared for and planned the case were impeccable. The strategy she chose unfolded precisely as she predicted, leading us to a mediation session and eventual settlement which saved me thousands and relieved me of years of stress and worry. Where she shines most is in negotiation. During our mediation for the cohabitation motion, her instincts and skill were incredibly sharp, and the legal strategy she crafted allowed her to secure a settlement for me that was far, far better than I had ever hoped for. Ms. Seiden has a very skilled team of partners and associates, many of whom have assisted her with my case over the years. In particular, David Beaver was instrumental in leading us to a successful mediation in the cohabitation case. I highly recommend Ms. Seiden and her entire practice.

Posted by Amy | March 14, 2023 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Sheryl and Seiden Family Law are amazing

I knew from the getgo that Sheryl was going to have my back and give me the support I needed throughout my divorce. Sheryl, Christine and Don guided me through 4 plus years of a very difficult divorce. Sheryl was always there to support me and also not afraid to tell me when I was not taking the ri...ght position or giving in too easily. She and all of her attorneys are sharp, diligent, strategic, professional and supportive. No-one wants to go through a divorce but having Sheryl and her team on my side made the process more bearable. Even when they were delivering tough news, I always knew I was getting good advice and they were looking out for my best interests. I hope I never have to go through this process again...but if I do, I wouldn't hesitate for a second to call Sheryl.

Posted by William | January 24, 2023 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

Best in New Jersey!!

I honestly feel that I could not have been represented better. From the moment I walked into the office I was treated with professionalism and a true sense of caring from everyone in the office. I’m sure my case is not unique. I was not going through a divorce, my girlfriend was, but I needed to quas...h subpoenas that were filed from her ex-husband‘s attorney.. I can’t believe the speed and thoroughness that had taken place within one day to eliminate the subpoenas against me. I would 100% recommendSeiden family law if you’re ever involved in a marital separation or divorce proceeding. I had gotten divorced 13 years ago with a different attorney is ever in that situation again and we definitely be glad to know Seiden family law is in my corner.!!

Posted by Badal | January 23, 2023 | Hired Attorney

This review is from a person who hired this attorney.

The best lawyer I could have partnered with!

I hired Sheryl Seiden to represent me in my divorce case that started in Feb 2022, and that was the best decision I made in the last 1 year. Thanks to her advice and strategies, I got 50% custody of my 2-year old son within 2 months of hiring her. She helped me navigate the most difficult time of my ...life by listening to me, understanding the issues that matter to me and nudging me in a positive direction. She is detail-oriented and extremely thorough in all her communication. She has not missed replying to a single email sent by me. She has encouraged me to take the high road through out the process, and that has not only benefited my case but also improved my quality of life. Sheryl's excellent strategies combined with her mediation skills have helped resolve multiple disputes in my case. Based on her track record, I value Sheryl's suggestions a lot and consider her as my partner in resolving and settling my divorce case. She is professional, honest, fair, compassionate and has a great work ethic. She also has a good team and it's been an absolute pleasure to interact with every person in her firm. I highly recommend Sheryl Seiden!

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Sheryl J Seiden's Lawyer Endorsements

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Brian Freeman

Divorce and separation lawyer | May 27

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer."

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John Finnerty

Family lawyer | Feb 23

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I have been practicing as a Family Part litigator for many years; I enthusiastically endorse Sheryl Seiden. I consider her to be a bright dynamic lawyer with cutting edge insights; she has intensity, passion, and commitment to the causes she strategizes and the clients for whom she advocates. I predict she will make her mark on the development of family law in our state before her career is concluded; she is recognized as an up and coming leader in the family law bar and will soon Chair the Family Law Section, which I had the honor to do many years ago. I look forward to working with Sheryl in the future to continue to reform and improve the matrimonial dispute resolution system so that it meets the needs of those who must enter into it."

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Albertina Webb

Divorce and separation lawyer | Jan 02

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer because she is a strong advocate for her clients. I would not hesitate to recommend her to potential clients, colleagues and adversaries as an experienced attorney or mediator. I have heard her argue before the Supreme court - she is a powerhouse. She is very knowledgeable, compassionate and easy going, all while advocating intelligently for her clients. I'm lucky to consider her my friend."

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Karin Haber

Family lawyer | Jan 02

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. She is incredible and one of the finest lawyers I know."

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Beth Manes

Divorce and separation lawyer | Mar 31

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Sheryl Seiden handles every case with compassion and excellence. Her experience as a mediator makes her an excellent litigator. She can see all sides of the issues and uses that perspective to get her clients great results."

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Shari Genser

Divorce and separation lawyer | Mar 23

Relationship: Worked for lawyer

"Sheryl is a force to be reckoned with both in and out of the courtroom. Her extensive knowledge and experience in the area of divorce and family law have earned her a stellar reputation among her peers. She is creative in problem solving and passionate about serving the needs of her clients."

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Barbara Worth

Family lawyer | Mar 17

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I endorse this lawyer. Sheryl is a brilliant, diligent, scholarly attorney who puts her heart into her work. I recommend her highly for Family Law matters."

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Donald Schumacher

Mediation lawyer | Feb 15

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I had the pleasure to work with Sheryl as a mediator in a complex, financial and emotional matter. She resolved the matter quickly and professionally, handling all matters perfectly."

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Somair Alam

Divorce and separation lawyer | Feb 13

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"Very knowledgeable family law attorney, dedicated to her clients' success."

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Amy Miller

Family lawyer | Feb 13

Relationship: Fellow lawyer in community

"I have worked with Sheryl as an adversary on cases and a colleague within the Family Bar. While she always zealously advocates for her client's needs, she does so with the patience, conscientiousness and dedication that allows all parties to move on in an amicable manner. She is the type of attorney we all hope to have on the other side of a case, or work with as a colleague in the Bar."

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Carrie Schultz

Family lawyer | Feb 04

Relationship: Opposing Counsel on matter

"I cannot say enough good things about Ms. Seiden. We have had cases against each other, both contentious and not. Each and every time, Ms. Seiden handles the matter in the utmost professional manner; she is a master in her field, IMHO, and always has the best interest of all involved when representing a client. I 100% endorse this lawyer with so much respect and admiration."

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Karin Haber

Family lawyer

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John Finnerty

Family lawyer

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Beth Manes

Education lawyer

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Shari Genser

Family lawyer

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Amy Miller

Family lawyer

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Carrie Schultz

Divorce and separation lawyer

Experience

Rating:  10.0 (Superb)

Honors

2025

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2024

Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers

2024

Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers

2024

Best Lawyers in America, Best Lawyers in America

2023

Super Lawyer, SuperLawyers

2023

Best Lawyers in America, Best Lawyers in America

2023

Best Lawyers in America, Best Lawyers in America

2022

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2021

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2020

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2019

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2018

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2017

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2017

10 Best Attorneys, American Institute of Family Law Attorneys

2016

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2016

Top Peer Nominated- Women in the Law, Best Lawyers

2016

10 Best Female Attorney, American Institute of Family Law Attorneys

2016

Best Lawyers In America, Best Lawyers In America

2016

Best Lawyers in America, Best Lawyer In America

2015

Super Lawyer, Super Lawyers

2011

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

2010

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

2009

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

2008

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

2007

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

2006

Rising Star, Super Lawyers

Work Experience

2024 - Present

Partner/Founder, SeidenFreed LLC

2016 - Present

Partner/Founder, Seiden Family Law, LLC

2003 - 2016

Partner/Associate, Ceconi & Cheifetz, LLC

2000 - 2003

Associate, Kasowitz, Benson, Torres & Friedman

1998 - 2000

Associate, Paul Hastings Janofsky & Walker

1996 - 1998

Associate, Thacher Proffitt & Wood

1995 - 1995

Summer Associate, Thacher Proffitt & Wood

Associations

2024 - Present

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, New Jersey Chapter

President

2021 - Present

NJSBA

Trustee

2014 - Present

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Board of Managers

2010 - Present

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Fellow

2010 - Present

Essex County Bar Association

Member

2003 - Present

Union County Bar Association

Member

2019 - 2020

New Jersey State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Chair

2015 - 2021

New Jersey State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Officer

2014 - 2015

New Jersey State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Co-Chair of Legislative Subcommittee

2009 - 2010

New Jersey State Bar Association, Family Law Section

Co-Chair of Young Lawyer Subsection

1995 - 1996

NYLS Law Review

Managing Editor Law Review

1994 - 1995

NYLS Law Review

Editor

Sample of Legal Cases

Gnall v. Gnall

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Education

1996

New York Law School

JD - Juris Doctor

1993

American University

BA - Bachelor of Arts

Speaking Engagements

2018

2018 Family Law Symposium

Child Support and Emancipation

2017

NJSBA Annual Meeting

Yes you can get Counsel Fees

2017

How Social Media Effects Family Law Matters

Social Media

2017

Hot Tips on Preparing For And Proceeding to Trial

Hot Tips For Family Lawyers

2017

Ethics For Family Lawyers

Ethics

2017

Ethics For Family Lawyers

Ethics

2017

Ethics for Family Lawyers

Ethics for Family Lawyers

2016

NJSBA Annual Meeting

Navigating Landmines in Negotiating and Drafting Property Settlement Agreements

2016

Middlesex County Bar Association Semimar

Parental Alientation and Relocation

2016

Family Law Symposium

Family Law - Alimony

2016

Family Law Seminar

Managing Difficult Clients

2016

Family Law Seminar

Hot Tips Seminar - Equitable Distribution Issues

2015

NJSBA Annual Meeting

Equitable Distribution Should be Equitable Not Equal

2015

Family Law Symposium

Family Law - Legilsation

2015

Family Law Seminar

Parental Alientation and Relocation

2015

Family Law Seminar

Hot Tips Seminar

2014

Family Law Symposium

Family Law - Relocation

2014

Family Law Seminar

Hot Tips Seminar - Case Management Orders

2012

Family Law Symposium - Friday night segment

How To Prepare An Effective Case Information Statement

2008

NJSBA - Young Law Subcommittee Breakfast Seminar Series

How To Take A Case Through The Court System

Publications

2022

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education Imputation of Income

2016

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education A Summary of Top Alimony Cases

2015

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education Equitable Distribution Should Be Equitable - Which Is Not Always Equal

2015

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education Parental Alienation - Identifying and Addressing The Problem

2015

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education It Is Time To Reexamine Our Relocation Laws

2014

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education Completing The Case Management Order In An Effective Manner

N/A

New Jersey Institute of Continuing Legal Education Equitably Distributing Executive Compensation

N/A

New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education How To Prove a Dissipation Claim and How To Protect Against Dissipation

Languages

English

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