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Stephen F. McDonough

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  1. Highly Recommend The Divorce Collaborative LLC - Shrewsbury Dad

    Posted by Peter, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-6 months ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    A divorce is never pretty or fun but the good folks at the Divorce Collaborative helped make the process less confusing and as painless as possible. I worked with Steve as my attorney while involved in divorce mediation in Worcester County. Steve was extremely helpful by answering all of my questions and coaching me between the mediation sessions. His knowledge of the financial issues and ideas on bargaining helped me negotiate a fair settlement - for me and my children. Since Steve is also an experienced mediator, he did not try and upset the mediation process, but was supportive and understanding. Steve, along with others at the firm, were always quick to respond to my emails or telephone calls and were very accommodating around my busy schedule. I highly recommend him and The Divorce Collaborative LLC.

  2. Divorce/Mediation

    Posted by Cate, a Mediation client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-6 months ago.
    • Stephen handled my Mediation matter.
    • I have previously worked with no lawyers.

    I had a very good experience with Stephen McDonough. He was personable and put me at ease right away. He seemed very experienced and knowledgable and was able to answer most, if not all of my questions. He was very patient with my husband and me, as we hit quite a few bumps along the way. Cost wise, the mediation process was much less expensive than a contested divorce. I think my husband and I were both satisfied with the process and the final agreement. I would highly recommend Stephen and his staff and the mediation process as well.

  3. Review for Stephen McDonough

    Posted by Hilary, a Child Custody client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 6-12 months ago.
    • Stephen handled my Child Custody matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    Having to go through family court for custodial issues is hard enough on it's own; having Stephen McDonough by my side has made navigation through this process less stressful. Stephen is incredibly knowledgeable in the system and the procedures, and represents his client well both in the court room and outside of the court room. Throughout my interactions with him he's been very professional, personal and attentively listened to communication. He and his firm have represented me in several court proceedings over the past two years and I would have no reservations about continuing with his services for family court.

    I would recommend his services to anyone who is looking for top quality representation.

  4. Disappointed

    Posted by a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I do not recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    My exhusband and I worked with Steve for months trying to mediate our divorce. Although we had agreed to a flat fee, ultimately we paid much, much more and ended up unsatisfied (on both sides.) After months of getting no where in our negotiations, we both hired different attorneys to represent us and were able to come to a timely agreement without going to court. Both my ex and I were disappointed with the mediation experience with Steve.

    1. Stephen F. McDonough

      Stephen McDonough

      Lawyer’s Comment:

      Almost all our mediation clients work together with our help and reach a full agreement in an efficient way, saving thousands when compared to a court-based process. Since Avvo allows for anonymous reviews and will not confirm a poster's identity with the lawyer or mediator reviewed, it is difficult to respond in detail; but since a small % of our mediation clients don't complete the process, I think I know what case this is.

      Mediation clients have the option of selecting a fixed fee at our firm, or they can select hourly billing. Fixed fees almost always work out in the client's favor when compared to what they would have paid if hourly, and this matter was no exception. The fixed fee package is set forth in clear detail, and includes a set number of meetings, and an overall generous time period for our services. If a couple is unable to reach an agreement, then they may continue to work with the mediator on an hourly basis. All of this is clearly spelled out.

      Mediation is voluntary, and both sides must compromise on their positions to reach a settlement. We do our best to help, but sometimes a person may cling to an unreasonable position or just not be emotionally ready to move forward. The reviewer complains that they "spent months getting nowhere in their negotiations." First, that is not accurate and to blame the mediator for a lack of progress is not fair, because a mediator is neutral and cannot impose anything on anyone. Progress and a successful mediation really rests with the clients.

      When there is an impasse, it may not make sense to continue a mediation, and the parties may need to get their own lawyers to help them finish the divorce. A mediator could also select not to continue with the mediation if for example one person does not cooperate in the process, seems unwilling to negotiate further, or will not disclose necessary financial information to move forward.

      The reviewer says they hired lawyers and were able to reach an agreement, which is great. The reviewer makes it seem like they accomplished nothing in mediation then magically just settled everything. That is not what really happens in my experience. I have also served as the lawyer coming in at the end of the process after a mediation stalled at other firms. Frankly, a person may need "a reality check" and more legal advice from a lawyer outside of the mediation process, although not normally. Once this occurs, people will oftentimes wrap things up quickly.

      Here, we had many mediation sessions where issues were flushed out and if not fully agreed upon, then narrowed down considerably. The parties were close to completion when the mediation ended. If this is the person I think it is, if I explained the law or if something came up in a meeting that did not fully support the reviewer's position, then I was being "biased."

      Our fixed fee clients fully understand what they are going to pay before any mediation starts, so if they paid more than it was because they required ADDITIONAL SERVICES not included in the plan, like extra sessions. Again, the fixed - fee plan clearly sets forth what is and what is not included. Of course, this couple would have incurred fees for their own attorneys, but that is nothing to do with my mediation services.

      I think potential clients need to consider online reviews carefully. I take much pride in my firm, our lawyers and mediators and the difficult work we do. Leaving a negative review because someone was not willing to finish the mediation is unfortunate. I agree that it is disappointing when a couple cannot reach a mediated settlement, but blaming the mediator is a stretch.

      Posted 7 months ago. Flag

  5. Be Aware

    Posted by Stephanie, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I do not recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    Retained this attorney for divorce and paid a flat rate fee which may not be legal in the state of Massachusetts. After repeated requests to file a motion for sole occupancy of the marital home, I had an emergency situation which required the filing of a restraining order. I replaced him with a different attorney and ended up with a $7,000 bill despite never going to court on my behalf. His lack of experience resulted in a personally difficult situation for both me and my children. I would recommend shopping around for an attorney as I should have before retaining anyone.

    1. Stephen F. McDonough

      Stephen McDonough

      Lawyer’s Comment:

      As you can imagine, I was taken back by the review posted above and attempted to determine who “Stephanie” is immediately upon reading the review. Unfortunately, I am unable to ascertain Stephanie’s full name because Avvo will not confirm the full name of a reviewer even if requested by the attorney. I believe “Stephanie” is a client from 2008 and am surprised at her assertion that flat fees for legal services may be illegal. 
Flat fees for legal services are absolutely LEGAL and common in Massachusetts. This fact is easily confirmed with a few minutes of online research. It is troubling that such a comment may be posted in a public review forum. 

 My firm - and many others - use fixed (or flat) fees frequently for clients, or a client can decide to use traditional hourly billing. This is the first time in my legal career that I have ever had anyone voice any regrets over paying a fixed fee. 

 My records indicate I worked with Stephanie for 5-6 months. Paying a fixed fee for her case was clearly advantageous to Stephanie.

      Regarding Stephanie’s “repeated requests” to file a motion for sole occupancy of the marital home and “emergency situation which required the filing of a restraining order,” it should be pointed out that this was a collaborative divorce. For more information on collaborative divorce, please visit: http://www.divorcecollaborative.com/learning-center/collaborative-divorce/. 
 In a collaborative divorce, the collaborative agreement, which is carefully reviewed with the client, makes it clear the collaborative attorneys SHALL NOT file any court documents, including motions and restraining orders until a full agreement is reached. The filing of any restraining orders or other motions would automatically terminate the collaborative process requiring new lawyers and more legal fees on both sides.
      


      Finally, what concerns me the most is that Stephanie wrote that I put her and her children in a “personally difficult situation.” As a father and former police officer, I would never suggest a course of action that would place a client in danger. According to my notes, there were no domestic violence or safety concerns in this case. 

As this case progressed, it was clear that there was a significant amount of conflict and inflexibility between spouses and that the collaborative process was not a good fit.

      

I hope Stephanie is doing well post-divorce, and some 4+ years later. I am not familiar with what happened with her case after our representation ended, but do hope she has moved on and is happier.

      Posted 8 months ago. Flag

  6. Less stressful than I ever would have imagined

    Posted by Bill, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with no lawyers.

    I went into our first meeting not knowing what to expect and right away Steve made me feel at ease and comfortable. He did an excellent job of explaining the entire process and brought up many things that I had not yet thought about. I left our first meeting feeling that we (my ex-wife and I) made the correct choice in hiring Steve.

  7. Divorce

    Posted by a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with no lawyers.

    Steve was very professional and thorough and was able to help us reach a mutual agreement, he was a very good fit for my ex husband and for me too and I would highly recommend him.

  8. I highly recommend Steve for mediation services.

    Posted by Lisa, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen more than 3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    Steve did a great job guiding us through the mediation process and keeping both parties focused on the important issues.

  9. When you want mediation done right . .

    Posted by Sue C, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    Going through a divorce isn't easy but Stephen helped ease the stress through mediating the process. He explained the process, advised on what to expect, and helped make it less stressful. Stephen is very knowledgeable and knows what to anticipate in divorce court. This helped us to reach a fair and reasonable agreement with the least amount of pain. No grief and aggravation of lawyers battling and the fees going up and up. If you are reasonable adults and appreciate a true professional, working with Stephen is the way to go.

  10. Great Mediator

    Posted by Marilyn, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    Steve was the third attorney/mediator we met with when searching for assistance with our uncontested divorce. He was very professional, fair, and thorough. His sense of humor and levity helped put us at ease. When we went to court, the judge commented that our divorce agreement was a very well-drafted document.

  11. Testimonial for Stephen F. McDonough

    Posted by John, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    The obvious emotional stress of going through a divorce is certainly enough for anyone to cope with. Working with Stephen made this difficult time a little easier with his knowledge and communication during our mediation process. He was able to help us reach a mutually beneficial agreement, and I would recommend Stephen to anyone and welcome any inquiries regarding the process from my own experience.

  12. Divorce Collarborative, LLC is excellent

    Posted by Kelly, a Child Support client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Child Support matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    I've been divorced for about 10 years and in my past court dealings I have not been represented by an attorney. While I've "survived" in the past, I've always left feeling that maybe I'd been taken advantage of or not had my daughter's best interests represented. When my ex-husband filed for a reduction in child support (again) I felt that I needed to have someone in my corner. Contacting Steve McDonough at Divorce Collaborative was the best decision I could have made. From the moment I spoke to Steve I felt confident that I was getting the best representation I could. He immediately made me understand what was going on and what he was going to do on my behalf. He understood that we were dealing with not only a financial issue but an emotional one as well because we were talking about matters concerning support of my daughter. Steve was not only professional but reassuring as well. From the very beginning he was confident about my case and was able to instill some of that confidence in me as well. We went into court because my ex-husband was looking for a reduction in child support. After our court date, not only was there no reduction but he was ordered to pay more per week due to Steve's arguments on my behalf. Not only will I never go back to court without him on my side, I would recommend his services to anyone needing legal assistance regarding divorce, separation or child support issues.

  13. Divorced father using the collaborative process

    Posted by Todd, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    Divorce is an unfortunate and difficult process. I have heard horror stories of huge expense and bitter conflicts. Steve was immensely helpful on the process, on what to expect and how to manage productively through the process. His guidance helped us build a very good agreement, even applauded by the court judge. He is an intelligent and understanding person, aware of the emotional toll and conscious of the typical challenges that face a couple throughout. Steve has an exceptional knowledge of the law and particularly of the collaborative process. I would highly recommend Steve for any of his services, especially for collaborative divorce.

  14. best part of my divorce

    Posted by Julie, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 3-5 lawyers.

    I found Steve by just looking online for alternatives to divorce litigation. I loved the website for the The Divorce Collaborative. My initial meeting with Steve was very informative and put me at ease. My ex is a tough person to please-hence the divorce, but Steve was able to make him feel comfortable, which is a tall task. We both enjoyed the process with Steve. I believe his previous career enables him to react to people under stress in a very calming, appropriate manner. He has a fantastic sense of humor, but I suppose that's subjective. When we went to court, the judge was quite impressed with our agreement - saying nothing was left uncovered/unaddressed.
    Steve was a perfect fit for my ex and I and our divorce.

  15. Review

    Posted by Liz, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen 1-3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    Steve made a difficult, emotional process easier to get through. Steve or someone from his staff would respond to my requests in a timely manner. Although he had warned me that this process can take a long time, he was able to work quickly to settle my case with my best interests in mind. He has a great ability to recognize and diffuse conflicts before they escalate, a valuable skill in divorce proceedings.

  16. Review of divorce

    Posted by a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen more than 3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with more than 10 lawyers.

    Steve gets right to the point. He kept me focused on what was important in my case.My ex was very volitale and uncooperative. Steve handled every situation that came up in a profesional manner.

  17. Stephen McDonough is very knowledgeable in the collaborative divorce process. My divorce moved along swiftly with his guidance.

    Posted by Tiffany, a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen more than 3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with no lawyers.

    Entering into a divorce can be overwhelming but I was fortunate enough to find Stephen McDonough through the internet. He was easy to work with and has a great sense of humor which helped during this period of my life. He was very knowledgeable about the collaborative process and both myself and my ex-spouse would recommend him.

  18. I would highly recommend this lawyer

    Posted by a Divorce client, Flag

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    • I recommend Stephen McDonough.
    • I hired Stephen more than 3 years ago.
    • Stephen handled my Divorce / Separation matter.
    • I have previously worked with 1-2 lawyers.

    I worked with Stephen McDonough for my divorce mediation and was completely satisfied. He clearly explained the process from start to finish, but kept it from feeling overwhelming by focusing on one step at a time. He was always professional, but at the same time his sense of humor and easy manner kept the atmosphere as light and comfortable as possible considering the circumstances. Phone calls and emails were always returned promptly, and questions and concerns addressed clearly and patiently. I would not hesitate to return to this office for any future legal needs.