Are my rights being violated?

Nope not violating your rights. As part of probation, you have to abide by certain condition. Probation gets to sign off on approved providers. ...

Is THAT a breach of attorney client privilege? The bad things def related to my case

Its possible. Also possible its not. The attorney is free to explain away your bad review. If he does so without giving away who you are then...

Can I get the ticket dismissed?

No that will not result in a dismissal of the case. You might have a good argument to fight the ticket. Remember in NYC there is no plea...

You need an attorney. That's your only move.

Unless he does anything with those videos, like publish them, you can't do anything. Him possessing it is not illegal.

Should i be considered guilty of these crimes all of which are not of an actual real crime (to protect myself of self incriminit

It comes down to what the prosecution can prove. You say you didn't have knowledge, but if the prosecution can prove otherwise then yes you can be...

With a 5K one letter from the prosecutor does help me avoid the mandatory minimum and would I fall into the federal sentguidelin

It's possible but this is something you need to speak with your attorney about. I also wouldn't be putting the fact that you cooperated with the...

The police who will likely do nothing or the probation department who might do something.

Will her boyfriend be charged with statutory rape?

He definitely won't be charged with rape. He could be charged with sexual misconduct. Will he be? We are not fortune tellers.

How can I get a copy of a store video showing an incident did not occur?

You would need a subpoena, but without an open case going on you won't get one. I know you don't want to hear it, but the answer here based on...