What can I do to stop from being further victimized, intimidated and increasingly harassed by mesa countys judicial system?

You say you have an attorney. Speak with him. Go to his office if you don't want to speak on the phone.

Can my Probation officer not allow me to see my boyfriend.

Yes he can. If you want to challenge any of the conditions your PO imposes, you can go to the judge. But I doubt you will be able to convince the...

Again, I think you would be better off speaking with an attorney in person. I don't think English is your first language or your writing skills...

Is it illegal in Virginia for someone to post sexual videos of you with out your consent? I also believe he is getting paid.

Yes. File a police report. You might also have a potential civil case so speak with a local attorney.

What approach should be taken

Hire an attorney. Rape charges are serious.

This wasn't settled when you accepted the plea deal? If not, then the DA is free to ask the judge to sentence you to probation and your attorney...

Is it legal to take defendant to trial without offering a plea?

Yes. You have no right to a plea deal.

Dwi

Very likely they will find out. Usually a term of probation is to report to your PO and contact with law enforcment. So if you don't tell them...

You have an attorney. That is who you should be talking to. But you're charged with a seriuos crime so yes jail is a possibility. You need to...

Is it illegal for a 21 year old guy to date a 16 year old girl.

Dating is never illegal. Its the actions that often accompany dating, like sex, that may be illegal. It appears that the age of consent in GA is...