How do I get an attorney for my children in a contested divorce in NYS?

Actually, when custody will be decided, the judge appoint the attorney for child.

Can I sign divorce papers without spouse's signature?

Your spouse signature is required otherwise, divorce will not be approved by court. If she does not want to sign, you can seek contested divorce...

Can I get full custody of my son?

You need to talk with attorney ASAP to decide your options because you need to file custody proceedings.

The mother can unilaterally withdraw complaint because DA has jurisdiction to proceed with case. She needs to talk with DA.

How can I be removed from paying CS for a child that's not mine?

You need to talk to attorney because he can decide which option to use to modify child support.

If a man works a full time on the books job , and he does a couple minor sporadic side things like mowing a lawn

If he believes that child is emancipated, the can modify child support by declaring that child is emancipated.

If a prsn has an Ord of Protection against anothr, which includes no contact by mail, and that prsn sends mail, is that Dom Vio?

Order of protection needs to be reviewed by attorney to decide if there is violation.

How can i get a divorce if my wife wont sign the papers?

You can file for contested divorce. Please retain attorney because it is complicated process.

You need to file no-fault divorce. The problem is to find your wife. There are are many ways how to do it. You need to hire attorney because...

Please consult with attorney because there is possibility that reason that mother doubted that you were father can be ground to vacate...