IS OUR MARRIAGE LEGAL. WE LIVE IN BROOKLYN,NEW YORK.

If you prior marriage is not terminated, then your subsequent marriage is not legally valid. New York does not recognize common law marriages...

You need to reconcile with your father because he deserves respect.

How do I get a court order to obtain a passport for my children?

If your spouse gives you hard time, you need to request the court to have him sign paperwork for getting passport or get temporary child custody...

How can I have my arrears lowered

If I understand your posting correctly, then court in PA ordered child support. If so, your arrears should be resolved by PA domestic law.

I would like to know if there is any way of tracking down insurance benefits left to some one or left to an appointed person ?

Since they were not married, your mother might not have any rights in house unless her friend provided some interest in the will. She can try to...

Can my husband separated since 2001, divorce me without my knowledge..live ny state

Action for contested divorce requires personal service and notice of proceeding. Without service of divorce, proceedings are not valid.

Is there anything I can do to stop my brothers gf ex husband from harrasment of me and my fiancee?

Since there is no physical harm and you believe that you have damages, you can sue him for defamation. Speak with attorney.

Child support

If your child is less than 21 years old, you can file for child support irrelevant of dad's employment status.

Can a custodial parent deny access laid out in a court order?

You can petition to modify court order based on the fact the parent is involved in criminal activity.

Can I adopt my son who is not biologically mine and his mother and I are not together anymore when he turns eighteen ? ?

Since adoption requires consent of biological parents and mother does not agree, then it is going to obstacle to adoption. Speak with attorney....