You need to speak your school counselor

My " ex " has not complied with judges orders? do I contact judge directly or my attorney?

When you are represented by attorney, you need to ask your attorney to contact judge.

There is no clear rule about this; it depends on judge. If he does not show up again, hopefully, judge will proceed with default.

Assuming that you or your ex lived in New York for one year, you can divorce and you can ask alimony in divorce proceeding.

I'm legally married but the marriage was domestic. We've been separated for a yr but husband is M.I.A

If your husband fleed with your baby, you need to try to find them.

My daughter in law moved there to have my grandson so I wouldn't take custody of the baby what can I do to make sure I get him

Usually, parents have standing have custody. Courts usually do not provide custody to non-parents if parents fits as parents. You may try but you...

My Aunt's husband abandoned her and went back to his country, can a divorce happen?

If her husband's wherabouts is not know, the best thing to try to find him. You can use social media like Facebook to try him to locate him.

Can I, as a male, change my surname upon being married?

Yes, you can change your name upon marriage.

Can I sue for child support after my children are adults?

No, you are late unfortunately. There is no way to get it.

Does my granddaughter father have any right after giving up custody to me?

Your hurdle to get court determine that father is not fit parent. If court decides that he will terminate his parental rights. If not, your...