I live in NY. I have custody of my three grandsons for about a year in a half due to my daughter using drugs.

You need to find out who dad are because if you want to do adoption, the court must provide notice for adoption for parents in order to allow to...

You can do private adoption in Surrogate Court. However, you need to consult with attorney before going through it.

No, you have to take test otherwise they will take you to court and get order for taking test.

Can a temporary mutual agreement without the courts be enforceable?

Since your agreement was not approved by court, it is given less weight that actual court order.

Can sole custodial parent get in trouble for not following temporary order?

If your attorneys are not reachable, they provide your bad service and they are the ones who responsible to explain you.

Would I be granted a modification for sleep overs, if non custodial lives in a crowded house and doesn't arrange sick time ?

Probably not because it is normal that in NY, there are crowded apartment but you can insist that child has own bed.

As long as ex can consent and sign them, you can do this.

Will my babies get taken awayAfrom me at the Child's Advocacy Center ? ?

It is going to be difficult to predict what government is going to do.

Famiky court awarded me support based on false financial info given by defendant. Can I change this ?

It will be very difficult to do this. You can consult to another attorney.

Do I have to continue paying child support for my 19 year old son in NY if my ex moves to Arizona with him without my consent ?

You need to support child until he turns 21 unless he or she emancipates. Since college expenses were not determined, then you have to pay child...