What must i do first? what are my options ?

You really need to hire an immigration attorney to guide you through this. This forum can be helpful, but it is not intended to replace quality...

Can I file for a change in custody or gain more visitation based on the lack of supervision my ex provides?

This could be justification for a change of custody if the children are young enough. Even if they aren't, most courts would be happy to give you...

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What will be my charge

I'm not sure what you said your husband was doing or in what setting. If you lied in court, it will be up to the judge. David

How should he handle this situation?

He should not have to pay for things he did not order. He should request a refund. David

Can someone point me in the right direction to file perjury charges in the state of Alabama?

You need to enter the case and let the judge know all of this. Judges really don't like it when people perjure themselves. Judges tend to want to...

Do I have my children all weekend since it is my regular scheduled weekend?

Yes, he has them until 7pm. He has his usual visitation and he has the additional visitation added by virtue of it being Easter. David

Will a juvenile dui from 1983 show up now-would this count as a 2nd offense or have the records been sealed because of my age?

It will still show up, but will not count for sentencing purposes. You really need an attorney. David

Do I still need to show up in court or should I call the lawyer suing me and just give him the case number?

If this is truly the route you want to take, you can merely show up to the court date and inform the court that you are in bankruptcy. I suspect...

How should he handle this?

I'm not sure how the order was shipped, but not received. It sounds like he needs to cancel the order and get a refund. He could start the...

I cannot afford my secured loan due to being unemployed, what can I do ?

Call the creditor to see if you can work out some type of temporary abatement until you get another job. You said it is secured. Whatever you...