A quick internet search appears to say this: Other negligence resulting in personal injury 3 years from date of accident CPLR 214(5) So, it appears...

Seriously, we cant speculate. I ask that you call your lawyer and ask for a face to face meeting. Get answers you want and need. Do it the old...

Generally no you will not. You can make recommendations but the GAL will control unless you can show the court it is NOT in the minors best...

Is this a form of harassment

Youtube hits? Call the police if she is trespassing. Obviously you know her shaken routine. Just FF the tape.

How is it possible for an insurance company to deny a claim when driver admitted to causing accident.?

Let your carrier handle it. You will pay the deductible and they will do an interagency claim to get your money and hopefully recover your deductible.

Unless she sued you, it's none of your business.

IIf Im pressing charges on someone and missed court cause I never got a letter telling me when I had to go to court what happens

You need to contact the DA to see what happened.

lawyers are not indentured servants. Please feel free to talk to a new lawyer to see if they are interested. Be aware, you may owe fees to the atty...

Agreed, and sadly, the longer you wait the uglier it is going to get. If you take the money and run, you are done.

What remedies do I have? go after home insurance? what kind of lawyer do I need?

If you are injured, you need to talk to a local personal injury lawyer. There seems to be a lot to this story for this little Q&A board.