Was I able to get my dd214 before they started the chapter and before the CG made his decision?

If there were irregularities in your processing, those can be examined in contemplation of a potential application for upgrade to your discharge...

How can I get military to act? Do they even care? How can I keep this guy away from my kids?

I also agree this behavior is deplorable. That said sometimes the wheels of justice move slowly; you may not be aware of action already taken or...

Is there any possibility of getting a court monetary award due to government and the admitted and proven gross negligence?

It is doubtful but contact a personal injury attorney to be certain.

Grandson got a register for draft, granddaughter did not.

Congress had not thus far seen to require females to register for potential mandatory military service. If this troubles you, you can always...

How hard would it be as a US Veteran with PTSD receiving 100% benefits, to send for my girlfriend / fiancé in Haiti.

I'm not entirely certain what you mean by "send for." If you marry her (which I am not necessarily advocating without understanding if you know...

Your command can pursue administrative separation under several grounds. They may use the underlying civilian conviction, even for a diversion as...

Will a fault based divorce or a marriage based on lies keep me from having to give my spouse a portion of my military retirement

The short answer is no, her lies do not preclude her from having an entitlement to military retirement. That said, as any property right, it can be...

What are possible punishments for this offense.

Typically someone in your situation should expect memorandum of reprimand or Article 15 followed by administrative separation, with or without a...

Do I have a chance to an appeal to be retained? To get TERA? or To have an exception to the RE4 code?

Though I do not have compilations of data to support it, anecdotally I am aware that people going through the QMP process because of failing to get...

Do i have a case

It is not possible based on the information you provided to answer your question. I'm unclear what judgment is in place, if you were sued or if you...