Can and should I sue for defamation of character when I personally and my company have been slandered ?

It would make sense to consult with an attorney to discuss options and strategies before taking action.

Should I get an attorney or file with L&i?

Consult with an attorney or two first to discuss the relevant considerations; then make the decision.

Can I sue the county for being falsely arrested ?

I agree. You should contact a civil rights attorney soon to discuss the situation and any claims you may have.

Your friend should take with a lawyer that specializes in employment law ASAP.

Minor laws broken while working as a minor but am no longer a minor ?

It is probably not too late to raise the issues with the Department of Labor and Industries and/or an attorney, but do not wait as you can lose...

What steps will I need to do to take my stepfathers name off the house deed?

It may depend on the nature of the deed and/or the way that the Will is framed. It may (or may not) be necessary to file a probate proceeding, but...

Can I sew the high school my daughter goes to for an injury she accord while doing something for her teacher?

Your daughter does have a possible claim that you can pursue on her behalf, but there are certain processes that must be followed including certain...

Do I need a letter to access bank account and transfer Estate

It can be a straightforward and relatively inexpensive process, but you will almost certainly need to file a probate action. Ask attorneys about...

I would I would like to file a lawsuit against sprint. What would I have to do?

Small claims court: fast, inexpensive, no attorneys allowed: https://www.kitsapgov.com/dc/Pages/SMALL-CLAIMS-FORMS-AND-INFORMATION.aspx

As a beneficiary, do I have any oversight rights in the process of selling the real estate?

Yes but you need to act quickly to file the right paperwork in the probate proceeding to ensure that your rights are protected.