May I get a Dui extension so I can complete all the things they want me to complete?

Depends on the judge. Some will grant you an extension, no problem, others will throw you in jail for 30 days. Consider hiring an attorney.

Your problem begins and ends in CO state. You need to post this question to CO lawyers.

Can a 13 year old girl date a 19 year old boy if their not doing sexual content?

That's utterly disgusting that a 19 year old would have any interest in a 13 year old. He must be a real "winner" Kissing / touching of any...

If I have a warrent can I renuw my driver's license ? The warrent isn't traffic related

NO. In addition, they can arrest you at any time for any reason, including the DMV.

What will happen if I drive on a revoked license and get pulled over?

Depending on why it's suspended, you could be facing jail time.

If I had a drivers license suspended in another state for a non-driving related offense, can I still get a license out of state?

No, not until you clear the hold in the other state.

Statue of Limits

Yes, you can still get in trouble. Statute of Limitations depends on if it's filed a misdemeanor or a felony.

Can I cop search your car and tell you to get out your car for no reason?

Did you give them permission to search your car?

What do we do if we are not satisfied with how a court appointed attorney is representing us ?

Hire an attorney. I've repped hundreds of cases out of Kitsap county district court, however, if you've already accepted a deal, the case is...

Will the license be suspended?

I have successfully represented individuals in a position such as your husband for negligent operator. You may want to consider hiring attorney...