Does he have a right to visit his 13 year old daughter in Oregon, if he gets permission?

Any order of the court is valid until changed.

Am I required to send my son to visit father that lives in another state even if there is no formal agreement ?

If there is no court order for parenting time you have no legal obligation. With that said, you have to decide whether you feel it would be in his...

Generally Judges will not grant an informal meeting with a party without the other party present.

Would I be considered an absent father and if so, how will that affect visitation? I want to see my girls again.

It appears from your statements that for at least 3 years you have had no physical contact with your children. Most courts would like say that you...

Should I go to court to modify parenting and have an atorney speak on behalf of my son since my ex doesn't believe me?

You certainly have the right to have an attorney for your son. I would suggest that before you do this you speak with an attorney who can review...

Child support and custody

If you will look at ORS 109.155, if you are deemed the Father you can be required to pay both past and future expenses as well as birth expenses....

How do I amend a petition for modification of parenting time?

The best advice I can give you is to hire your new attorney and let him file the amendment, or at a minimum consult with him as to how he would...

How can i keep my unborn child safe when he or she is born away from him and how to get completely away from him

I will assume by your question that you and the Father are not married. What you need to do is go get a restraining order against him if you feel...

Can the mother of my child whom I am fighting for custody use the past restraing orders..and statements used to get.As evidence

Since the standard for both custody and parenting time is "the best interests of the child", depending on what the allegations were they might be...

Can I have an agreement made with my ex, that is enforceable by the court, but isn't a complete agreement, for a parenting plan?

I would first suggest that you mention the other concerns and see if she would agree. If not, you could do a Supplemental Judgment dealing with the...